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To think it will all kick off on here after this is aired?

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MsScarlett · 11/04/2011 21:21

My mum just texted me to say that tomorrow there is a documentary on BBC3 at 9pm called, "Is Breast Best?".

I predict a bunfight! Grin

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MollieO · 12/04/2011 21:56

Don't understand why she can't use a muslin for modesty if she's worried.

Albrecht · 12/04/2011 21:56

Oh go Emma! Well done Grin

ReshapeWhileDamp · 12/04/2011 21:56

I know - not even behind a cafe table! Mad.

That baby has fab hair! Smile

SecretNutellaFix · 12/04/2011 21:57

Emma is coming across fabulously.

Woodlands · 12/04/2011 21:57

in fact i have bf in a Costa coffee on the ground floor of that very same shopping centre...

Albrecht · 12/04/2011 21:58

Why didn't she ask for help though. I wish she explained that?

PDog · 12/04/2011 21:58

Not too bad in the end

sungirltan · 12/04/2011 21:59

just popping in but fgs.

1, that cherry woman doesnt know very much about bf for a 'journalist'!!
2, that kathryn blundell woman is proof that baby magazines are just a vehicle for subtle formula advertising. she's the editor now
3, that was a shit documentary.

Albrecht · 12/04/2011 21:59

I mean has she not heard of Mumsnet? Grin

gaelicsheep · 12/04/2011 21:59

Peppa - it's not that bad actually - I'm pleasantly surprised. As I said earlier it does seem to mean well.

Some of the apparently stupid questions/comments will be about making Cherry relate to viewers. Good on her for facing her demons and trying to support other women. But I still wish they hadn't shown those "lactivists" getting their whole breast out on camera.

PDog · 12/04/2011 22:00

It wasn't as bad as I thought it was going to be at the start

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PDog · 12/04/2011 22:01

Yes gaelicsheep, didn't do much for showing you can bf discreetly.

megapixels · 12/04/2011 22:01

At the end of the program Cherry sort of gave the impression that if you are finding it painful and struggling you don't have to go ahead with it, it's fine to quit. However it's normal to go through terrible pain and struggle with breastfeeding to begin with, once it's established it becomes the easiest thing in the world.

MollieO · 12/04/2011 22:02

I had major latch on problems. Ds latched on properly two days before we left hospital but then had problems at home (a bf counsellor came to my house plus I went to hospital). Was threatened with re-admission because Ds was losing so much weight.

I'm not sure breast is always best. It didn't protect Ds from catching everything going and being really poorly for a long time. I think what is best is whatever is right for the mother.

Bananamash · 12/04/2011 22:02

I think it could have been such a useful documentary, if it had emphasised that Cherry et al's probmlems could likely have been sorted out with help and support- her excruciating pain was probably caused by porr latch which would lead to inefficient milk removal, which could in turn lead to blocked ducts and mastitus.

Non of that chain was explained, so someone experiencing the same problem may well think the only option is to give up

megapixels · 12/04/2011 22:02

Yeah it got much better as it progressed. Start was pretty dire but got much better towards the end.

PDog · 12/04/2011 22:03

I believe that breast is best but not always the right choice for every family.

MollieO · 12/04/2011 22:04

Mega for some women it never becomes the easiest thing in the world. I gave up after 11 months and every single day was a struggle.

ReshapeWhileDamp · 12/04/2011 22:06

Agree with bananamash - may well have been 'well meaning' but it presented bf problems as insoluble and didn't really demonstrate that support and better information and mumsnet is available. So only logical thing to do would be to switch to formula.

Honeymoonmummy · 12/04/2011 22:06

I thought it was good, much more balanced than I expected. I just wish they hadn't shown the cornflakes bit. My 3 week old is now completely zonked out on top of me having BF throughout the prog Smile

harecare · 12/04/2011 22:07

After 11 months can you really call it "giving up" :)

peanutdream · 12/04/2011 22:07

i thought it was great. cherry annoyed me at first but within the first half hour i totally warmed to her and she portrayed all the different situations in a really balanced way.

peanutdream · 12/04/2011 22:09

but banana her last words were, i wish i had asked for help. and there was a lot about support groups which was awesome.

Crystyclear · 12/04/2011 22:09

why wasn't there any discussion about the way post-natal care is managed? i, personally, think that many women are discharged way too early and mat. led units are brilliant places to get support, advice and care for first few days of having a baby.

if these centres weren't all being closed down and women actually had the opportunity to stay in hospital for a few days post birth (instead of being shoved out the door after a few hours/1 day), then isn't it possible that women would have more success or gain confidence in BF?

completely agree that BF needs to be made cool or popular again... but showing the "lactivists" wasn't especially normal... do appreciate the shop stickers for BF friendly though, and if i see one i'm far more likely to go there for coffee, because i'd feel confident in feeding there.

and thought the ending was weak... should have been way more scientific info on mastitis and what cherry could have done to help/where she could have received support.

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