To Have Doubts About "Bumsex Plus"

[milliemae]

Good Friday night topic. A while ago, DH pester-powered me into bumsex. Not quite the real thing, but bumsex is better than no sex so we use it for a few days a month....

Now DH wants to try "Bumsex Plus": wants me to strap on a dildo & bumsex him!!!???!!! On the one hand, revenge would be sweet: it's great when he's gentle, but sometimes he gets carried away & I wouldn't mind him knowing what it's like!

On the other hand, it seems a bit pervvy to me, even though he says he can't bear the thought of a man doing it to him; says he wants to see what it's like for me - an experiment in empathy or whatever.

Anyone come across this before? Go for it or tell him to go f*ck himself? www.mumsnet.com/te/11.gif

my dh wants this too - not tried it yet as not bought any "goodies"

Dp likes a bit of bum sex........not sure he'd like me to do it to him though. Not sure i'd want to either.

If you're happy to go for it!

go for it

No-one should do anything sex-wise that they don't want to do, obviously. But if you don't want to do it because you're frightened that your man will turn gay, or that he will end up in nappies with a .45 arsehole, then these are myths that shouldn't put you off.

Bumsex plus CS gas sounds fun.

You kinky bugger, beesimo

SGB, no-one except you seems to be talking about the gay myths?

I quite like bumsex but I'm bemused/impressed by whoever said it was better than normal sex - how? Do you get him to reach around or something?

Maybe we're doing it wrong!

Well it doesn't appeal to me TBH, but each to his own.

tethersend

Laugh all you like, when i first got married my DM gave me the invaluble advice 'always keep a frying pan under the bed and any sign of touble whack the bugger'

I may not have phrased that correctly

trouble

I love your mum. And you.

Please don't mace me.

Superb thread which does not deserve to be falling down the front page!!

Give it to him hard and fast up the brown passage

If he has such deep feelings about it who are you to deny him such a penetrating experience. fnar fnar.

I say reach for the supersize dildo and make Bumsex plus.

MeRightYouWrongMeBigYouSmall
Great Seahorses reference.

The rest of you? You're all full of shit.

DO IT! OH does not seem to go for the "do as to others as you wish to be done to you" thing.. meh

i used to like all this arse malarky but my first experience of hemeroids has put my right off.

I say yes! But then let everyone on MN know how it went of course!

bum(p)

I have stepped into a whole "other" world here...Bumsex??? Seriously??? Ewww.... (sorry! - flees back to nunnery)

HOW can bumsex be better than regular sex? Just... how?

Why do I always kill threads when I really want an answer??

Ohhh - it just can........really.

& OP - give it to him good.

& yes, keep the mace handy, you never know what you may unleash.

Right am off to give my DH a good hard seeing to.

Jacks... Probably cause it is now 5am ish and the clocks went forward...lol.

I heard on a sex show a long time ago it has something to do with extra nerve endings in that region for both sexes.

Double Dipping is pretty good too.

Go for it. i keep meaning too as DH wants to try it and gets a bit of bum action with a butt plug, but every time I head to the sex shop for a strap on, I end up walking out with some other fancy toy for myself.

Gotart for the sake of your vagina,please don't double dip! If you're using it in the sense that they do around here meaning arse, fifi, arse, fifi etc it's extremely unhygeinic & can cause infections! If you don't wipe back to front don't put something in your fanny that's been up your bum LOL x

To the OP there's no way you should do something you're not 100% with. Talk to him about it seriously first. You never know you might like it x

I'd do it. :) To my own DH obviously, not yours! :o