to wear a size 4 tena pad when I am out

[pittlingjoanna]

So that I can have a wee instead of waiting to find a public toilet?

I don't suffer from a weak bladder I just drink a lot of tea and mineral water.

Seriously?

seriously

I am so ashamed but it is a nightmare finding a loo sometimes and I find it easy to do this instead. It is awful isn't it?

they come in diffent sizes? i had no idea.

are you so far away for a department store that you have to use them? surely you don't mean everyday, all the time?

How can you? Dirty and lazy!

No I don't suffer from any anxiety.

I'm impressed they can cope with a whole wee. I thought they were just for minor leakage incidents.

Anyway - it's gross, don't do it, you will smell of wee.

If you have no medical reason that means you can't make it to a toilet in time then yes, YABU. And minging.

I don't do it all the time. I just do it on days out and trips

I'm not a troll I promise I have namechanged.

It only affects you so I'm not sure it's unreasonable exactly.

It is a bit peculiar unusual though. I'd just drink less in your situation if I really couldn't find a public toilet (do you not have McDonalds near you? Or bushes in the country?).

you'll end up with a wet crotch and will smell. oh why? oh the shame of it!

I will crawl back under my rock now

I think it would indicate a form of MH issues though surely, Barbie. if it were true That's not a normal way to behave is it?

I don't know how you can actually stand/ or sit and deliberately pee your pants whilst surrounded by other people - how odd!

Surely you would get sore, being wet down there for so long?

Where the hell do you day trip that you cannot wat until you find a bush/toilet?

I have a weak bladder. I drink a lot. I wee a lot. I don't need to do this.

exactly what i was going to post casmama!

Do you continue about your business and just wee as you walk, or stop and stand for one?

Why can't you go to the toilet? Do you put them on before you go out intending to use them when you need to go?

Drink less tea and mineral water, and find a toilet.
What does your family think?

Yes definately Quelle, that was my first thought. It was just that the OP confirmed she doesnt suffer from any anxiety disorder that led me to believe she didnt suffer from a MH (although obviously there could be a million other things).

Definately not a normal way to behave. Jesus, Im just thinking if DD was older and told me she did this I would be very, very worried about her.

Also wondered that Casmama..

OP, are you ok?

I actually think this is an excellent idea. Perhaps you could ask your GP about being fitted with a colostomy bag so you could do number 2s on the go as well...