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1006 replies

threefeethighandrising · 20/02/2011 08:53

Yes, this is a thread about a thread. Or lots of threads in fact. So shoot me.

I'm shocked saddened by the level of bullying that goes on, particularly in AIBU.

I'm not complaining about people speaking their minds. One of the things I love about mumsnet is frank exchanges, that people can say what they want.

What worries me is a nasty group mentality - people ganging up on a poster - usually a new one - and picking apart their story and being absolutely, unforgivably nasty to them.

We teach our DCs to stand up to bullies. Well, how do we stand up to these ones?

I've recommended mumsnet to many people over the years, as a place you can find fantastic support, frank and honest opinions. Those kinds of threads make me question whether this is a place I should be inviting any one other than those with a very think skin. Which is a real shame IMO.

I'm not really asking AIBU. I am asking how we can stand up to bullies on mumsnet. I've posted it here because it happens here a lot.

OP posts:
allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 25/02/2011 18:27

round

allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 25/02/2011 18:27

and

allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 25/02/2011 18:27

round

allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 25/02/2011 18:27

in

BoysAreLikeDogs · 25/02/2011 18:27

um

MNHQ takes a dim view of thread killing

roseability · 25/02/2011 18:27

Well I am sorry if my post offended or hurt you SarahStratton

My comment about immaturity wasn't aimed at you inparticular or even at the act of bantering per se

I meant that I don't like it when a group sniggers and snides to make another poster feel inferior in some way - that I find juvenile because it is like being in the playground.

Again sorry if it was taken the wrong way.

allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 25/02/2011 18:27

circles

allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 25/02/2011 18:27

anymore

allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 25/02/2011 18:27
Grin
allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 25/02/2011 18:28

289

allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 25/02/2011 18:28

to

allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 25/02/2011 18:28

go

fulltimeworkingmum · 25/02/2011 18:28

If you cannot handle the replies on AIBU - do not post on it. It's that simple.

allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 25/02/2011 18:29

Oh :(
Well thats no fun.

HecateQueenOfWitches · 25/02/2011 18:29

I think threadkilling could itself be considered a bullying act.

so ner Grin

roseability · 25/02/2011 18:29

shame because I think a good discussion about topical issues great.

allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 25/02/2011 18:30

fulltime , I posted that about 700 posts ago... :)

allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 25/02/2011 18:30

Anything fun is bullying Hec ... :(

allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 25/02/2011 18:31

Sorry, I meant bulling

PeterAndreForPM · 25/02/2011 18:32

< pulls allsquares's pigtails >

allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 25/02/2011 18:33

In summary, all MNers enjoy a bit of light bulling. However some are more direct, and some are a tad more passive aggressive ...

allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 25/02/2011 18:33

PA, I have pigtails in! Confused

[checks for CCTV style cameras]

HecateQueenOfWitches · 25/02/2011 18:34

did you mean anything fun is bullying , Hec

Or do you mean that anything fun is actually bullying me

Grin

nitpicking is also bullying. Wink

allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 25/02/2011 18:35

I wonder how the situation panned out with The Godfather...

allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 25/02/2011 18:37

Boo hoo hoo, Hec is picking on meeeeee

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