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To want to know all your secrets...

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Lurve · 13/02/2011 20:50

I just came across an intersting site called Postsecret, where people put their secrets on the internet.

So how about posting up a secret that only you know. Lets see if any Mumsnetters have something really juicy or interesting. Obviously namechange if people know you.

Sits in a big comfy chair and gets popcorn and waits

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AttillaTheMum · 14/02/2011 19:15

I have massive self confidence problems. I think people are talking about me and worry my friends don't really like me. I tend to end up falling out with my friends because I decide i'm not good anough and drift away :( Pathetic.

... I'm not 18 btw!

monkeyfacegrace · 14/02/2011 19:19

Me too Attilla. I have no friends because I dont think anyone really likes me.

Changing2011 · 14/02/2011 19:28

I fancy my next door neighbour and have filthy thoughts about him.

I know my stepdad fancies me Blush

I dented out car driving past some wheely bins and have never admitted it.

I know some secrets that could tear my family apart - I will never tell.

I have had two abortions and I am terrified that my secondary infertility is due to this.

I am really lazy at work.

Oh I feel cleansed :)

jonicomelately · 14/02/2011 19:29

This is weird. I was thinking of Post Secret only a few minutes ago having not thought about it for ages Confused

It's a good site but I stopped looking a while ago because I found it upsetting.

Ahardmanisgoodtofind · 14/02/2011 19:59

my fear of spiders is so bad i cry if i touch a page with a pic of one on.

i have only one friend and she lives in another country

i cry every day because i feel i've let everyone down not finishing uni

when i was 18 my ex talked me into going dogging.

CooksMatches · 14/02/2011 20:03

Guess what I was sitting next to when i namechanged! Grin

CooksMatches · 14/02/2011 20:04

I was suspended from school for "indecent activities" with my boyfriend in the woods behing the headmaster's office - I persuaded the headmaster to tell my mum it was for smoking!

regainingmysanity · 14/02/2011 20:14

I self harm. No-one knows. It makes me feel better I don't know why,

On a lighter note, I think I am developing a crush on David Mitchell Confused

SleepyCaz · 14/02/2011 20:18

Boffin - I do have a tale to tell kind of like that. Thanks for the nice words :)

MaryPortasFan · 14/02/2011 20:19

It's no secret that I have a crush on David Mitchell!

cazza40 · 14/02/2011 20:21

I hate my mil

Both my children were 'accidents' but were really planned by me as my biological clock was ticking !

I hate my ex husband so much still even though we divorced years ago and I am happy with my second husband with whom I have children.

NinkyNonker · 14/02/2011 20:31

Life scares me rigid, is this all there is? I only have one life, it is short, what if I have messed it up already? I love my husband and my baby so much, I couldn't handle it were something to happen to them. Life is short, fear, then pain, then death. It scares me that I understand why my best friend killed herself, and can understand how she got to that point. I wouldn't do it, but can now understand why she did it when no-one else does.

So, I guess my secret is that I fear for my mental health most days...but! I am starting CBT in the hope of sorting my head out. Only DH knows, cause he is amazing. Smile

Everyone else thinks I am totally together, happy, easy going, confident, successful...when in actual fact I am a fruitloop.

NinkyNonker · 14/02/2011 20:32

Shush!

NumberFuckerUpper · 14/02/2011 20:32

My teeth are rotting in my mouth and I hate it, but I am pathologically scared of the dentist, bad teeth at the back so mostly hidden, but I know it's just a matter of time. It is always on my mind and I hate myself for being entirely unable to deal with it.

ThisIsMyConfession · 14/02/2011 20:33

I use Pro ana/mia sites.

bibbitybobbityhat · 14/02/2011 20:36

Sleepycaz: you definitely have an eating disorder Sad.

tralalala · 14/02/2011 20:45

number - me too...I have 2 months before my matternity free denist is up,I've been trying to book an appointment since before I conciecved. this means I have waited at least 19 months to do it.

My gums hurt Sad

tralalala · 14/02/2011 20:45

what are pro ana/mia?

kimbally · 14/02/2011 20:47

I take anti depressants in order to be able to keep away bleakness and lonliness. Thing is on the surface my life would not appear bleak- my husband loves me and I have 3 great seemingly well adjusted teenagers so it is something deep within which I have to contend with. No one knows not even DH! I am a great big fake.

boobjob · 14/02/2011 20:47

I am going on a date with my boss tomorrow evening!

[he IS single)

ImFab · 14/02/2011 20:48

I have always known how old I would be when I died.

I am that age now.

NumberFuckerUpper · 14/02/2011 20:49
Sad tralalala I am sobbing over the keyboard, I am so weak but I know this is robbing me of my looks and possibly health but I can't fix it.
NinkyNonker · 14/02/2011 20:50

Tralalala, pro anorexia/bulimia. Support sites for those suffering, but more along the vein of tips, fan sites of the illnesses if you see what I mean. I don't mean that offensively This is myconfession, just trying to explain what they are.

KenDoddsDadsDog · 14/02/2011 20:53

NinkyNonker CBT has been fantastic for me. Hope it is for you.

thisismyconfession · 14/02/2011 20:58

None taken NinkyNonker. The sites i use have other people who don't want to recover from Anorexia (ana) or Bulimia (Mia). I wouldn't encourage it in others btw. Nor do i visit the ones where they suggest zero calories and hours upon hours of exercise (well not always)