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to think there should be somewhere to post the more risqué questions within mumsnet?

48 replies

Butternutsquash22 · 12/02/2011 00:49

im not talking dirty or anything obscene, just somewhere to be able to talk about the more specific aspects of a relationship (Wink)without feeling out of place for doing so?

am I missing something and does this actually exist? If not, does anyone else think that it would make sense to have such an area or is it just me with sex on the mind?

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LoopyLoopsPoopaScoop · 12/02/2011 00:51

Spit it out.

OhForBoonessSake · 12/02/2011 00:51

YAsooooNBU

i have often thought this. i think we need a sex topic, as clearly not all sex questions fall under relationships. (thinking DIY stuff here Blush)

crystalglasses · 12/02/2011 00:52

What about 'off the beaten track'?

LoopyLoopsPoopaScoop · 12/02/2011 00:53

Too attractive to creeps, I think sadly. I had PMs from one yesterday, after posting something to do with sex.

SlobbyBOB · 12/02/2011 00:54

Isnt that what chat is for ?.

BitOfFun · 12/02/2011 00:55

LoopyLou is right...

Unfortunately, OTBT would not get you many replies, as it doesn't show up in Active Convos.

Butternutsquash22 · 12/02/2011 00:56

yeah, I would feel bad for posting in relationships, because there are always so many more important threads, abusive relationships etc, that I would feel that a sex topic was too frivolous!

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MardyBra · 12/02/2011 00:57

There are enough topics already in MN - and anyway, everyone just posts in AIBU and looks at active convos.

LoopyLoopsPoopaScoop · 12/02/2011 00:59

Sex is important. I wanted to ask a question earlier, but couldn't think where to put it (or how to word it, or what my namechange could be! Grin ) but if they were all together it would get a lot of publicity and we'd get a lot of pervy Daves from the city and even more trolls.

Mumcentreplus · 12/02/2011 01:01

I suggested a sex topic years ago and people got bent outta shape saying this is a parent website..ha! like parents don't become parents because they were having sex?...I say if we can have a topic about fucking chickens we can have one about sex...but that's just me...

LoopyLoopsPoopaScoop · 12/02/2011 01:02

I don't think a chicken fucking topic is a good idea.

HairyMclary1979 · 12/02/2011 01:02

if you want somewhere to talk about sex try lovehoney, they have a forum where you can discuss whatever you like.

LoopyLoopsPoopaScoop · 12/02/2011 01:02

Bring in totally the wrong crowd.

Feathers in your bits and everything. Grim.

Butternutsquash22 · 12/02/2011 01:02

say if there was an area like OTBT, but for this sort of stuff, so it was not-searchable and everything, but all of us ladies knew it was there and just checked it every so often so as not to miss something? as long as people regularly checked it, the non-searchable shouldn't stop it from being busy, but would still be harder to find?

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AuntiePickleBottom · 12/02/2011 01:03

maybe this thread could be the place to talk about sex.

SlobbyBOB · 12/02/2011 01:03

Mumcentre that kinda reads wrong to me. Grin

OhForBoonessSake · 12/02/2011 01:06

fucking chickens?? why does that get a topic and human sex doesn't??Grin

i totally see the point about creepy weirdos. i think I'd rather stick with what we've got now.

tallwivglasses · 12/02/2011 01:06

Loopy Grin

It looks like those gentlemen from the city have been quite busy on mn recently.

LoopyLoopsPoopaScoop · 12/02/2011 01:06

A chicken and an egg are lying in bed. The chicken is leaning against the headboard smoking a cigarette with a satisfied smile on its face. The egg, looking a bit ticked off, grabs the sheet, rolls over and says ... Well, I guess we finally answered "THAT question!"

Butternutsquash22 · 12/02/2011 01:08

the little sex thing I wanted to share somewhere is that I managed to find a way to get partner of xbox. thought it might come in handy to others?

started giving him some oral while he was playing and talking to his friends online. He didnt even say bye to them lol

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Asteria · 12/02/2011 01:09

speaking in tongues here ladies Grin

So... Butternut - does it itch or look like it might drop off? Grin

LoopyLoopsPoopaScoop · 12/02/2011 01:09

Just make sure there's no webcam.

Butternutsquash22 · 12/02/2011 01:10

haha loopy, there isnt and I double checked the mike was actually turned off. Had some bad experiences of his friends hearing me singing badly beautifully while getting ready for a night out...

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Asteria · 12/02/2011 01:11

oh lord! spent too long artfully composing writing my post and missed the bit about fellatio...

You do realise that every gimp mask wearing middle aged suburban man on the internet is now huffing frantically through his zip now - don't you?!!

Asteria · 12/02/2011 01:12

good skills though Grin