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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

What makes your blood boil?please list,

262 replies

pinkcherrybloom · 01/02/2011 19:24

Petrol prices.
Smokers in car with their kids in the back.
Money for school trips for this or that.

I have a long list but wanted to hear yours.

OP posts:
xstitch · 02/02/2011 21:38

People who sit for ages with their engine running (eg waiting outside the school)

Parking on yellow zigzags, especially when that blocks the road)

Tailgaiters.

The way BBC travel news presenters pronounce Provan (irrational I know)

People not indicating.

The things XH says to dd.

TwoIfBySea · 02/02/2011 21:46

Labour apologists
Bad drivers
Lack of manners
Competitive parents
Children with an over-active sense of entitlement (linked with above)
CSA
Neglectful fathers
Liars
People who like to rain on my parade (I could call them pessimists, the type who bemoan absolutely everything to the point where you just want to slap them into consciousness)
Snobbery in all forms
People who believe their opinion is correct and you are wrong as stepping away from their viewpoint is simply not allowed
January blues
Uniformity, guess what sometimes you won't fit in and sometimes you should defend that fact and not just blend
Bullying in all forms

singingsoprano · 02/02/2011 22:05

Jareth at least if they're on the 'phone, you can't see them eating with their mouthful.A work colleague (male) does this all the time and it's really disgusting.
People who think they are superior because they went to RG or Oxbridge Universities.
Pointles celebs who contribute nothing to society.
People who swear in every sentence=lazy and lack imagination.

cumfy · 02/02/2011 22:23

Manipulative people.
People who abuse power.
Selfish people.

MoChan · 03/02/2011 14:47

Most politicians. Inequality. The fact that there are enough wealthy people to keep all those v. expensive hotels in places like Dubai afloat.

Really overused phrases like "our hearts go out to".

Celeb/womens/lifestyle magazines, hate them ALL. Reality TV.

Unpickedup dog poo.

People who use long words without really understanding what they mean, and who think they are cleverer than you because they do so.

People who only ever think of themselves.

People who say "Well, you'll not have to mind me, it's just the way I am, I speak as I find, you'll have to get used to me, etc, etc" And people who enable people like that by saying "Well, you'll not have to mind him, he says what he thinks, etc". Really? Well, he shouldn't, if it's going to be hurtful and impolite.

skiptatheloo · 03/02/2011 15:04

people who:
chew gum with mouth open
drop litter
push in queues!

shelllouise · 03/02/2011 16:03

People who post cryptic status updates on Facebook then say, 'I don't want to say on here' when someone asks them to explain the meaning of the message!
For crying out loud, why post in the first place?

Staying on the Facebook topic....trolls who go looking for bereavement pages and post horrible replies/pictures etc
I was nearly in tears last night when I posted a condolence message to the lady who lost her 4 children in a housefire and some sick, sad, twisted individual replied to my post saying that the children deserved to die then went on to post loads of pornographic pictures on the wall Angry Sad
The page had to be closed by admin because the troll posts had started to outnumber the genuine concolence posts Angry

skiptatheloo · 03/02/2011 16:41

and people being late.

bagpuss · 03/02/2011 16:44

ds1 (10) losing yet another school jumper Angry

He's paying for the new one himself Biscuit.

nightingale452 · 03/02/2011 16:56

Dog/cat poo - freaks me out, particularly in my garden, but anywhere really. Yet I quite like dogs/cats.

Misuse of the apostrophe, it's really not difficult, it's primary school level grammar.

People posting things on forums which are so badly typed that it's impossible to work out what they are saying - for god's sake was nobody but me taught to read it through?

Celebrities - all of them - especially those famous for being famous, and even worse, those famous for being the child of someone famous.

Reality TV - all of it - who wants to watch these morons? Particularly judges on things like X factor who tell people they can't sing, when what they really mean is 'you're not what we're looking for', they're being cruel for effect.

People who use the wide pavement outside my house as a parking bay.

Kids in DD1's class who belittle her achievements - she went into school a little while ago with a small trophy she'd won and some kid said 'that's nothing, I've got much bigger trophies than that'...

jugglingjo · 03/02/2011 17:02

cliques and cliqueness Sad

  • I always try to be friendly to anyone who's new to a group. And expect others to do the same for me. Sadly I'm often disappointed in this regard.

People having no patience with me.
OK, so there's a problem. Could we perhaps talk about it ? Hmm

The news and media in lots of ways

  1. It's so depressing
  2. It's dishonest
  3. The further away it is the less it matters ie. more fuss about strong winds in your city than about deadly cyclone on other side of the world
  4. No context or background given, and after a day or two they're on to a new story whether or not this one is resolved at all
meantosay · 03/02/2011 17:03

People who hold up the whole bus/people at checkout queue rooting in their handbag for their purse

People who take credit for other people's ideas

Posters who take up a thread wrong and imply you said something you didn't and, when you argue back say, why 'did you ask AIBU if you want everyone to agree with you' (banging my head on floor now).

nightingale452 · 03/02/2011 17:17

Just thought of another one:

play-dot-bloody-com who can't send me what I ordered (in October last year) but have taken the money, have a completely incompetent customer services department who either don't understand English or are deliberately being obstructive.

I have started emailing in very. Short. Sentences. Using CAPITALS.

Don't ever buy anything from them Angry

TitsalinaBumSquash · 03/02/2011 17:22

After going of facebook, I am adding people typing 'Gawjus and Norty' instead of gorgeous and naughty. Hmm

KittyBigglesworth · 03/02/2011 17:59

Women's lifestyle magazines that try to make the reader feel inadequate that she too isn't earning £250k, married to a hedge fund manager, has breast fed all 4 children until the age of three with a thriving cup-cake business raising money for African orphans.

Incessant children bragging - all parents think their children are wonderful. The school report is dull to read, the teacher can't spell. One or two photos are fine but fifty in more or less the same pose? Find a hobby.

Don't be surprised to discover that if you try and change your child's nappy a few inches from my feet in the middle of the sitting room floor, I will turn my head and resist the urge to Mr Creosote the whole lot of you. I don't want to see any genitalia when I'm eating a scone. It's great that you've reproduced, applause, I'm really pleased for you and it's good to see that everything is anatomically in the right semblance. Now put it away, before I boak.

I agree that bragging is one of the worst characteristics and those who do it, generally have the least to boast about.
A family we know, has a father who is thrilled to be seeking benefits and is always reminding us of all the stuff he can buy and all the free time he has on the golf course. He doesn't see why he should even try seeking work and yet always says "I'd do anyfink for my son.", "These men that never see their kids, couldn't do it, mate." Dignity and pride in having a job, any job, doesn't appeal to him because in his mind, he has the graftless lifestyle of one of his premiership footballer icons. Women that have children by more than one father, are in his words "filth" - he doesn't see the irony of his own situation. His wife (also, although more understandably, without a job), does all the 'women's work' while he lazes about watching porn, gambling online and going to the corner shop to "top her up with chocolate". Other than errand jobs, he hasn't worked since leaving school. The school isn't to blame as other men have left to achieve successful careers in the money markets/law/charity/media/medicine etc. He would rather apply for as many benefits as can and accept 3 bedroom accomodation in a leafy area (the council repays the landlord) than work to pay for it. His choice, his life. The child doesn't yet want for any material items: a tv in his bedroom, laptop computer, mobile phone, gold bracelets(!)and the poor boy doesn't yet know that his life as a premiership footballer has been mapped out for him. "Go on son, keep heading that ball." I'm willing him to pursue interior design. Grin The sense of entitlement without trying or giving anything back is sickening and not so much makes my blood boil but makes me feel sad that his outlook is so narrow. They now have another child on the way and when that one one nears school age, another will no doubt be produced to excuse the free time that could be filled by working.
For all the boasting about material possessions and going on cruises Hmm, their Christmas present to us cost a quarter of what we gave them. If their characters were different, I wouldn't give a hoot but bragging without equal present reciprocation is just gormless.

frazzle26 · 03/02/2011 19:07
  1. People who put "mysterious" statuses on FB. They only do it because they want everyone to ask them all about it and get all the attention.
  1. Spitting on the pavement (so gross!!)
  1. People who say "where's it to??" (It's a regional thing where I'm from!!)
  1. Poor punctuation/grammar/spelling
  1. People who feel that it is their right to live off benefits their whole lives and never get a job. If I can go to uni as a single parent then anyone can!!
OldMumsy · 03/02/2011 19:28

Socialists

Crap womens magazines that give people complexes and witter on endlessly about celebs

Crass stupidity and laziness

PC speak

AvaBanana · 03/02/2011 19:33

Racists and bigots
Tories
The Daily Mail
The Murdoch Press
Facebook
X Factor / Strictly and other inane sleb / 'talent'

HappyMummyOfOne · 03/02/2011 19:48
  • Ear piercing in children
  • Spitting
  • People who take from the system when capable of working
  • Xfactor/BGT type of shows
  • People who go overboard on the BF issue
  • People who leave their dogs home all day barking
  • Cash requests on wedding invites
  • People who dont RSVP to party invites
  • People who have cleaners yet dont actually work
  • Posts moaning about DP not walking through the door and starting the housework yet they are a SAHP People who moan about the cost of children re school trips, photos, PTA events etc
  • People who eat food in supermarkets when not actually paid for
  • Badly behaved children
  • Bullies
  • Parents who dress their children in the wrong clothes for the weather
KittyBigglesworth · 03/02/2011 19:59

Faux Victorian sepia photographs of children who have been instructed to look glum and look like prize plums in odd hobbit looking hats and three quarter length ragged trousers. Why? Why would anyone want to give or receive that?

lololizzy · 03/02/2011 20:00

use of the word 'numpty'. (Is it really a word?)
People using 'their' and 'there' wrongly also 'your's' etc etc..
Tights.. ALL tights..they never ever stay up. Even the ones for so called tall women.
Not having hands free to pull tights up (and they are pulling your pants down with them!)
All stay up stockings. They don't. I'm tall and they're all like popsocks on me.

lololizzy · 03/02/2011 20:03

Mascara that claims to be waterproof and smudgeproof. Expensive overpackaged skin care that does bugger all. And people who think that paying for this stuff will make it a miracle product as you get what you pay for..actually, a lot of the time..you don't.
Michael McIntyre.
James Blunt.

LadyOfTheManor · 03/02/2011 20:10
  1. Lazy people

  2. Scroungers

  3. Lazy parents (see 1)

  4. Being cut up on a roundabout

  5. Buses thinking they can pull out because they have a sign saying "Let me out". No piss off.

  6. Dogs being tied up outside shops where I give them treats

  7. Big Issue sellers smoking

  8. Satin bedclothes

  9. My father shouting as loud as possible at foreign people, in English

  10. People who go to foreign restaurants and order chips and an omelette

  11. Taxi drivers

  12. People who like to play bingo and hang out in grotty disgusting bingo places

  13. Supermarket people (workers) leaving large trollies of things I am not interested in, in my way in the aisles. When they are a 24 hour shop.

  14. Old people not stepping onto the grass on the country roads so I may pass without the possibility of running them over

15)People who go to the same country on holiday every year

16)People who name their children after themselves.

  1. How many can I have?
Loie159 · 03/02/2011 20:17

People who say "Pacifc" when they mean "Specific"
People who update there fb profiles with maudline things like - "will I ever find someone to love me"
People who have those personalised baby on board signs that say things like "princess Lily May on board"
Actors / Musicians /Politicians who comment forever on poverty / global warming etc and then sit on a personal fortune £300 million and fly here there and everywhere to tell us about it on their personal jet
Ear piercing on babies (unless its cultural)
Self service check out tills in supermarkets
My mums driving
Oh and people who drive along country lanes at 45 mph holding up all the sodding traffic and then happily carry on straight through a village at 45 as well...... gggrrrr

HoityToity · 03/02/2011 20:18

People who talk on the phone in the QUIET CARRIAGE

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