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To report two infant age children walking to school alone

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ThePosieParker · 25/01/2011 10:36

... to the head of the school.

This morning I saw two siblings (I assume) walking to school alone, the oldest looked about yr2 at the most and the youngest a reception child. I wanted to phone the school as there could be a number of reasons these children are walking alone, not all sinister but in my mind none good enough,. This is Bristol, a busy city, not the place to allow children to cross roads and negotiate traffic and people at the age of 6 or below, surely.

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southmum · 25/01/2011 16:14

fgs no-one has said to turn a blind eye.

Calling SS was way over the top in this situation.

However to be fair calling the school just wouldnt give the same warm feeling of self satisfaction and smuggery I guess.

ThePosieParker · 25/01/2011 16:14

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ThePosieParker · 25/01/2011 16:14

mama....If I thought your question was genuine I'd answer.

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mamatomany · 25/01/2011 16:15

No it is really, i'd like to know what if anything they suggested they might "do"

FanellaFidge · 25/01/2011 16:15

"Calling SS was way over the top in this situation."

Why? Because now they will snatch the children away and put them in a home? Hmm

altinkum · 25/01/2011 16:16

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usualsuspect · 25/01/2011 16:16

Where you driving your kids to the nice school in your 4 x4?

ThePosieParker · 25/01/2011 16:16

McH.....I didn't get 'no answer' the phone was engaged, I was concerned.

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BuzzLightBeer · 25/01/2011 16:17

I did. I usually expect people to say what they actually think though. So either you think thats the case, or you are a big fat liar and nothing you say at all should be listened to. perhaps you didn't see any children at all?

And how old are they again exactly? Or are your not sure?

usualsuspect · 25/01/2011 16:17

were*

altinkum · 25/01/2011 16:17

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hobnobsaremyfavourite · 25/01/2011 16:17

OOIII ALT!!!! I'm the one who makes cock ups like muddling up the Op and other poster!!!! Grin Grin

ThePosieParker · 25/01/2011 16:18

usual....I don't drive a 4x4, I was picking up my nephew.

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McHobbes · 25/01/2011 16:19

No answer/engaged - same thing. [hmmm]

southmum · 25/01/2011 16:19

no Fanella, because they should be busy looking into genuine cases, not one that initially could be brought to the attention of the school, who might have known about the kids walking on their own and could have put OPs beak mind at rest.

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GabbyLoggon · 25/01/2011 16:19

In the case you describe, I share your opinion.

ThePosieParker · 25/01/2011 16:21

I phoned whoever, Alt seems to know better than me, and I tentatively told them what I'd seen. Said I had very little information, knew which school and on what road but nothing else would they advise I phone the school, they said to give them all details that I had and thank you for contacting them.

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mohara · 25/01/2011 16:22

FanellaFidge two of the most sensible, even handed comments on here.......

FWIW-yes we all have different parenting styles, but if someone feels just not 'right' about something then surely its better to have it checked out than just let it go? OP probably SHOULD have waited and spoken to the school, but at least the issue has been raised somewhere.

Am a bit Shock at the comments on here from people who work in and around SS-seems like OP is getting stick for creating more work for them...??? And from a few pages back (can't be bothered to scroll back) - reporting such issues to other agencies such as firefighters.....really?!!!!!

FanellaFidge · 25/01/2011 16:24

"who might have known about the kids walking on their own and could have put OPs beak mind at rest"

and what if they didn't know?

Who would the school then contact?

If there is a suitable explanation, then it won't take up much of their time, will it?

If there isn't then they are the right people to deal with it.

BluddyMoFo · 25/01/2011 16:24

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ThePosieParker · 25/01/2011 16:25

Bluddy....yes I had no description, no school name, no road.....

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BackInTheRoom · 25/01/2011 16:25

Isn't it up to SS to decide what happens next? If they are unbelievably busy as some suggest, they can decide to act or ignore but as far as I'm concerned, the op acted in good faith.

Stop acting like a pack of wolves and being bitchy, what's the matter, has it rattles some cages???

bibbitybobbityhat · 25/01/2011 16:26

Disgusting sneering and sarcastic posts towards op. The only people who are looking more stupid by the minute, in my mind, are the posters who are derailing the point of the thread - do we think a Yr2 child and his or her younger sibling are safe to walk to school on their own alongside busy roads - to keep banging on about op's rather ott decision to call social services.

Saying that she did all this because she is a snob who enjoys feeling superior and loves to get on her moral high horse is fucking ridiculous and pure conjecture.

ThePosieParker · 25/01/2011 16:26

Oh and given that Bristol catchments are tight and many primary schools have small numbers....

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