to say that you've gorn and done it again, IPOAT?

[Hullygully]

Weddings.

We.end.with.weddings.

Not monkey shit.

Dunno.

I liked my last word. thought it had a bit of elan. He spoiled it.

the best wedding scenario Mimi can hope for, what being so volatile and vulnerable and all. Pah!

Yes. I see what you mean, but it would end up being a sort of game of tennis. I wonder what his agenda was in the beginning especially as he has to 'look after himself.
Do you want to expend more energy on it? He is sounding a bit precious now I think. My advice is to Let Go.

Sorry last post not a comment on the marriage scene. And no Mimi no. Do not depair. I am sure you can find a man with understanding and more depth.

Volatile and vulnerable are part of being human.

You're right. Most blokes have had experience of both themselves and girls not paying attention to their alcohol consumption (oh yeah, that'll be because he was snogging me incessitantly )and would be a bit kinder about it.

I feel much much better. Yes, I behaved like a loon. but he did press that last drink on me when i was actually all ready to go. So its his fault.

There. All processed now!

But I am still annoyed at being called volatile and vulnerable. Its so patronising.

Depair. shakes head. 'tis the gin, loosening control of the fingers.

I think I shall seek out Ms Mary and take the pledge and devote myself to Good Works.

Mimi he was/is a prat,twat. Go and tear up news paper, whilst shouting 'bastard' etc. That always works for me.

Bugger the pledge, play loud music and jump up and down.

simply mail back 'meh'

Well imgine doing it. Just ignore mimi.

I shall, Gibs, I shall. Ladies, you have all been marvellous, and talked me down from the ledge of self-loathing.

I love IPOAT. I get pissed up and mardy, he ends up being the prize twat.

Always remember that you weren't called volatile and vulnerable.

Volitile and vunerable were the words. Totally different!

Insane People On A Thread. I kid you not.

I agree - he can't bear not to have the last word. He has to send the final e-mail so that he is in charge and makes the final decision. It would end up like Wayne's World. "Go then". "I'm going". "Well go then". "I'm gone". "Good".

I think we should steal his power by reclaiming his words as our own. I like volatility and vulnerability. 'There was a volatility and vulnerability there that thrilled and excited me'.

Now for goodness sake, will someone please get Beri down the aisle, we've got about 7 posts left. Someone must think of Nigel!

Mimi, I have words of comfort. Apart from thinking volatile and vulnerable are compliments, I can offer this pithy phrase as said not too long ago to my very dear friend by an exiting man:

You are a financial drain and a social embarrassment.

V&V? Pah!

Phew! She's wed at last..

Hurrah and huzzah, dear Beri!
May your married life be merry
May you gibber and groan
And ne'er be alone
Let's open a bottle of (Dom) Peri!

I laughed very loudly at hully's last post.

I am not however, laughing at widow calling me Beri too.

You're a bunch of bastards.

Now marry me off. Post Haste.

Ah I see you have. And what a charming groom. [deadpan]

And the interesting thing about what he said, Mimi, was that we all knew him, and her very well, and everything was always about him - but blamed on her.

This is a man who at age 40 plus, got a letter from his Mummy whilst he was on a two week package holiday.