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to think my dp's mum should just butt out?

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rougelapin · 15/01/2011 23:44

Had another delightful invasion from the in-laws today. Dp's mum ended the visit by telling me how wrong I was not to get ds (14 months) vaccinated. We've been through this many a time, just wish she'd respect and accept our decision. Am I right in thinking this is none of her bloody business?

OP posts:
nickschick · 16/01/2011 22:09

* all my 3 children have been vaccinated Grin.

SarahStrattonsBaubles · 16/01/2011 22:16

As have mine nickschick Grin

missmehalia · 17/01/2011 09:24

I think anyone who starts spouting their feelings and opinions on here about vaccination should read the OP.

She is not asking for your feelings on vaccination at all, or what you've done about it.

We've been through this many a time, just wish she'd respect and accept our decision. Am I right in thinking this is none of her bloody business?

She is asking if you think MIL should butt out. And if you read everything the OP said, this is just the latest example of MIL's nosiness and unasked-for opinions.

brightlightsandpromises · 17/01/2011 09:59

If i were your MiL i would be very concerned actually, not becuase i think you are making the wrong decision, that is neither here nor there, but i would think that she is basing her decision on what she did in her time. Maybe you could make her feel better about it by explaining how you made the decision?

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