or is this inappropriate?

[ILoveItWhenYouCallMeBoo]

EXP sent me some photos he took of our dcs on Xmas day, some in my house and some in his mum's house. in the ones in his mum's house his mum is wearing a very short sexy santa outfit with alot of cleavage on show, black fishnets and black knee high stiletto boots. i would have no problem with this if it was just her and her DH but this was with her children and grandchildren there for the day. i can't help thinking, tehre's a time and a place and Xmas dinner with the whole family isn't it.

am afraid we need to see the photos so we can judge

i can't golden. it's not me, i have no right to show them.

santa's sexy helper outfit on xmas day sounds very festive. you should be happy that everyone was having fun and giving your dc a great day.

i can see why you might not enjoy photos of your exMIL dressed like that so a shame if she's in all the dc's photos but just keep them for the dc to have a laugh over one day.

nothing bad happened..life goes on

yes it has. i think what lulu and seren posted put it in context for me nicely.

the MIL sounds a good laugh to me, and the kids probably think she is great fun...

bluddymofo i would have a look around the different threads and you will find that in many it is most definitely not all agreeing with what everyone else has said, some can get very heated ..............

I like to think that I'm rounded due to the ridiculous experiences I had as a child when in the care of crazy relatives.

They won't forget this Xmas, and will remember it with lots of laughs. Especially if you keep the photos.