I get relly annoyed by people bandying things like "judgey" and "Toxic" around as if they were actual conditions!
Judgey just annoys me because it's kind of coy and littl girly...what's wrng with saying "Judgemental"??
And "Toxic"...
You know...like "Is my Mum Toxic because she has never sent me a christmas card?"
I think it's bollocks...certain words have been adopted and shaped on here for the use and comfort of the community and in the case of "toxic" it's a bit dangerous in my opinion.
People seem to want a diagnosis for other people's behaviour...so they grab words and plonk them onto other people....then in their own minds they can say "Yes...my Mum/Sis/Mil is a pain and makes me angry...but it's because she's toxic...it must be so as everyone on MN says so"
I just saw someone on a thread comment that someone elses husband was being "Passive agressive" because he had plonked a cereal box on her head as a joke. This is another thing people on here are always bandying about.
So AIBU to think there are some people who just look for the bad in others? And who really seem to thrive on labels?