to feel like I want to actively pursue an affiar with a married man?

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I have a collague who has been married for 10 years to a man who I have met a number of times when he has collected her from work.

At the weekend I was in a local nightclub when this man recognised me and we got chatting. Nothing happened at all, but he asked if he could give me his number and he would take me out for dinner and to see something at the cinema sometime. I took his number and want to call him and have him take me out because his wife (my colleague) is a complete and utter bitch, and also he is rather goodlooking and as I discovered on Saturday, rather fun to be around.

The reasons I feel my colleague is a bitch is as follows:

I have overheard her on numerous occasions (when she thought I wasn't around) saying very nasty things about me

She says rude things about me indirectly like joking to colleagues about something, but I know it's about me!

She is very mean about another colleague of ours and will say horrid things about her (all behind her back of course)

She throws a load of work my way (she is more senior than I am) even if she knows I have an overflowing pile, and won't delegate to anyone else on my level.

purpeduck - [ bear ] = .

Ah but of course!!!

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OP your boss is a bitch because her dh is shagging around. You would be too

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YABU - How would you like it? You sound pretty immature to me.

Well, you may as well. He sounds like a real catch and you seem like a sound woman. And he's obviously very miserable being married to that bitch and needs an escape route. Actually, you are really just being nice to help him out of there

Wow! If you think your boss is a bitch now just wait till she finds out you're shagging her husband...I take it you already have another job lined up?

Go on, SHAG HIM!

ON HER DESK!!

And film it for t'internet too.

It's win win win.

You get (a) some sort of revenge on colleague, (b) a good seeing to and (c) a new career.

(But might lose out in other ways)

Seriously, if you are unhappy in your workplace and there is nothing, along open and reasonable lines, you can do there to make it better, then you need to leave.

You do NOT need to lose your dignity by getting this kind of revenge on someone you don't like.

You have to live with yourself for the rest of your life.

Grow up.

shag him and put it on FB

kill two birds with one stone innit

Hey, you know she can't fire you for shagging her husband! In fact I think if she tried you would have a really good case against her. You could take her husband and her job. Sweet.

I just read your other thread. I think you are having a laugh. I cant imagine anyone would be serious to write this stuff. :)

How absolutely vindictive and selfish of you.
He won't be the only one who's cheating, you're cheating on yourself. As for "The marriage is dead, staying for the sake of the kids etc", get real! Stop trying to justify an affair.

Like someone has said already, wait until he's free if you want to shag him. In the mean time, butt out.

Please let this be a wind up.

it ain't real, bw

...are you on crack?

are you for real? what if it was a different situation and you were being a bitch to your husband? would he then be justified in sleeping with someone else?
she might be a bully but you sound like the worst type of bully someone who cant stand up for themselves to someones face but goes and hurts them in the slyest nastiest way possible behind their backs
im not excusing her behaviour but maybe she is so nasty because she is miserable because her husband is a spineless cheating twunt?

if you are so intent on doing it do it but remember what goes around comes around ,

also the marriage is dead we are together for the children is a nice way of saying i want to have sex with you while my wife does the laundry cooking looking after children etc

es because you are all 14years old

go look for a new job if your that unhappy, or is that just too simple and you want the eastenders version??

yab daft. messy messy messy. will all come back and slap you in the face on so many fronts. don't go there.

In some other countries you would have been stoned by now....I rest my case.

This is obviously a made-up story. I suspected that anyway, but confirmed by a previous poster mentioning it's the OP that posted the smelly thread not long ago.

I hate lazy trolls. Effort is good, if you really have to.