I am really upset by this!

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OK so I am getting wed next year. My friend is also getting wed, we live a long way apart but still.
Anyway we have both chosen and booked same date and now she thinks i should change mine.

WWYD?

so did you book your wedding first (not that it really matters)

No mutual friends, lives far away? I would get on with your own wedding and leave her to hers! A good friend will understand, and if she doesn't understand and throws a wobbly then she's not much of a friend so it's no great loss. Life is too short to spend energy on people like that!

TBH I am not sure who booked first

I know she cancelled when she thought her "fella was cheating on her with his ex"

I had booked mine and all of a sudden she has this hissy fit.

what did the texts say

lets see
I am scum
minging
ugly
i should get sorted so i don't make my DS2 end up with aspergers as well as i must be a crap parent to need SS help with him...

there were more

I'd cancel the friendship not the wedding. I wouldn't accept a so-called friend calling me any of those names no matter how upset they were or what the problem was. Ever.

Kat, not a problem as I have told her to stop texting me and have had her number blocked.

Are you sure you're friends? You don't sound very friendly tbh.

U have blown your cover!

I Wasn't unfriendly.

she on the other hand was all because I wouldn't pander to her whims

Jesus! TLE, she is as mad as a box of frogs!

She said that about your son?

Give her the ML brush off "Fck off, and when you get there Fck off some more"

ML? I meant MN...

why are you sharing details like dress before you'd confirmed a date She's obviously not a friend so why does her (over)reaction matter so much to you ?

TLE, I have PMd you

Wow, what a loon. You're well shot of her by the sounds of it. Enjoy your day knowing that everyone who wants to be there to help you celebrate is there, and that your strange, bitter, ex-friend will spend the day stewing about it.

lizs, I showed her the dress I was buying.
No she isn't a friend. I just am getting fed up with the texts tbh. and thats what is bothering me.

I can't understand some of those texts!

Was all of this going on via Facebook?

(Not the texts, the the initial problem, I mean)

no they were sent to my phone.

what an unpleasant person

Is that her RL name showing on the text photos?

Sorry this all started on MSN. I have known the woman 5years we have visited eachother etc and this is how she has reacted because of the wedding date.

zachary, no its a nickname

She's obviously aware it is winding you up! Stop reading them .

Oh I'm at her comment about DS2 with ref to DS1 aspergers. You have come so far as a family, and I know you and future DH nearly didn't make it because of the pressure.

Tell her to farking park it elsewhere, your not interested and have a lovely day and future with your family.