I think it is time this was stood up to

[wishiwas21again]

I sent this to headquarters. If anyone wishes to support me great, if not well at least I tried

Hi there. It seems there is a certain amount of online bullying that happens on your website. Certain posters seem able to make very offensive comments and then either get away with it or if challeneged, they are viciously defended by their 'supporters'. I am sure this is not the culture you would wish to promote on your website and I feel tempted to report this elsewhere. I still believe that to say 'women who give up career choices they are stupid aren't they' should not be encouraged on your website where many SAHM post and do not wish to be labelled as stupid collectively. I would not make such sweeping generalisations about any group. Thank you for your time

People on here who resort to name calling and nasty comments just because they don't like an opinion are very sad, ignorant people so just ignore them'

Exactly MsKalo-don't let them get to you.

hell ive been called

bad mutha
irresponsible
troll
accused of stalking
accused of not being scottish
told im too scottish enough
....
and do i care?naw not really.isnt real

the trick is no mn grudges or gripes.it really is just online rattle tattle

Yes, MrsDV, that was obvious, just filling you in for the sake of peace and harmony.

But the OPs response was better

SAHM V WOHM
BFeeding v Ffeeding
School v HE
Are all contentious. You either accept that you will be in trouble if you dare deviate from the norm or you keep off altogether.

some threads are mn perennials sure to result in humphy face and indignant posts.and shed loads of rotten reseach from shitsville uni

sahm/working
ff/bf
private school
natural birth/caesarian section
oh and weee bitty biddulph and precious moments mamas

like aibu these post are the lifeblood of mn

Seriously, when words on a website make me question/worry about my life choices I will be worried about myself. I/we make the best decisions for our families based on the information we have at the time. If others disagree, so what.

aye,cold day in hell when i live by mn orthodoxy or advice of anonymous online names

Who the hell is Biddulph? Have been meaning to ask! The only Biddulph I know of runs a geeky rowing results page and knows every statistic about the sport that is worth knowing, and quite a few that are not. I assume this is a different Biddulph?

I am reporting this thread.

Its not about me. I can take the insults and being sworn at. Its the vunerable posters I worry about. They could be at a really low point in their lives and come on her for support and what do they see?

Me being told to Fuck Off!

It could tip them over the edge.

Nah, woteva

psychologist who peddles quasi-research that nurseries harm children aged under 3.his methodology and results are poor and badly interpreted

much loved by precious moments mamas and those who think child should be welded to your hip,and working is an aberration

he used to be pro-nursery ,now anti. guess it sells books?

being called a fucker is a term of endearment, IMO

actually fucker isnt such a bad insult,can be positive.as in he she is madfucker etc

actually, when I grow up I want to be called "whatever scottishmummy said"

get that as tshirt,or screen saver.sage advice

Ah, I see. All those authors tend to merge into one mass of "yadayadayada".

I wouldn't post on a website where everyone agreed with me.

To me there's something thrilling about having a debate....ney full frontal scrap with someone. I love it IRL and I love it on the internet.

Makes me positively moist. I don't take it personally and it's forgotten the next day...unless in cases where someone conducted themselves with tenacity and verve in which case I remember who they are and admire them from afar.

Why would you seek to deprive me and others like me of these simple pleasures OP?

aye i just think jibberjibbercluck tills are a'ringing

'I wouldn't post on a website where everyone agreed with me.'

Ha! I would ..perhaps not everyday but when i was pissed off and needed an ego massage I would visit welovemumcentreplus.co.uk in a shot!

well victoria.mn is your spirtual home then.arselicking and fawning is so not on

ROFL; at, " stabs op viciously and repeatedly"

I will not be supporting you. Sorry. Learn how to take criticism and accept not everyone will agree with you.

'Fucker'?
Rhyming slang for 'mucker'?
As in 'my old mucker'
Don't know where it comes from though
Sounds Laandan to me

Now it's my turn to be offended
Scottishmummy you called me an 'acolyte'
Take this humphy face and shove it right up yer -

is that worst you been called on mn.you're as flaky as the op then