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to wonder how some people manage to afford so much "stuff"

142 replies

Pushmeinthepool · 23/10/2010 17:32

My friend is a student and single mum, and it seems that literally all she does is spend. She lives in a largeish house, for which she's told me the mortgage per month is £850. She has a new car every year and she and her DD have 2 foreign holidays per year too. She buys clothes for herself on a weekly basis from fairly expensive clothes and her DD is completely kitted out every season in brand new Next gear and 3 pairs of Clarks shoes. Also her DD does every activity under the sun, some of which are pricey (she has told me the cost of some of them).

Now I know some of you will say it's none of my business etc, but I am just intrigued to know where she gets her funds from. She says she only gets a small amount of maintenance each month, and obviously as a student won't be rolling in it with bursaries and grants (NHS student). I know some of it may well be on credit but surely there is a point where credit runs out, and in the current climate it's not easy to get more credit.

Am just curious, not jealous.

OP posts:
JajasAKASarahBeaniesLawyer · 23/10/2010 18:56

I do think that it's a bit smug for some posters to suggest that it wouldn't even cross their minds if a friend had seemingly unlimited access to funds without have any obvious source. You don't have to be nosy to muse over things sometimes.

OP, I'm a tad Hmm at how rude you have been to some posters though mmmm....

expatinscotland · 23/10/2010 18:58

Oh, yes, and every single one of you fuck off.

There. A nice blanket statement covers it and saves the OP from having to type it over and over again.

HalfTermHero · 23/10/2010 19:08

Only if you fuck off first, Expat.........

Grin
expatinscotland · 23/10/2010 19:09

Yes, indeed. I'm off to fuck. I love that expression, here in Scotland, of telling some to go to or get to fuck.

Where exactly is fuck?

Does anyone know?

monkeyfacegrace · 23/10/2010 19:16

fuck off expat.

nomedoit · 23/10/2010 19:17

I have had to dramatically reduce my use of the F-word in the US. Use it amongst the Moms and you are looked at in horror.

Oh My Gosh is acceptable.

forehead · 23/10/2010 19:18

I might as well join in ,FUCK OFF all of you

TethHearseEnd · 23/10/2010 19:18

Fuck off, TethHearseEnd

expatinscotland · 23/10/2010 19:19

I told you I was already fucking off.

I'm going to fuck.

nancydrewrocked · 23/10/2010 19:20

I wasn't going to fuck off, then I did fuck off so now I am back, but just to say fuck off.

RunawayPumpkin · 23/10/2010 19:21

A] credit
B] bank of mum and dad
C] dead rich gran/great aunt
D] on the game
E] the tax payer

expatinscotland · 23/10/2010 19:23

F] fuck off

HalfTermHero · 23/10/2010 19:24

Runaway you forgot:

F] FUCK OFF

HalfTermHero · 23/10/2010 19:25

Great fucking minds, Expat.....

RunawayPumpkin · 23/10/2010 19:25

Off I fuck....

expatinscotland · 23/10/2010 19:26

:o

I haven't been able to go off to fuck yet because I can't find it!

Someone tell me where it is!

HalfTermHero · 23/10/2010 19:27

Nancy, I wondered when you would show your fucking face. You are the fucker who provoked all this....

RunawayPumpkin · 23/10/2010 19:27

I think it is the second left turn after jog on

nancydrewrocked · 23/10/2010 19:28

Ask the OP - she appears to be familiar with the location...

HalfTermHero · 23/10/2010 19:28

Expat, go half way to fuck then fuck uff some more!

nancydrewrocked · 23/10/2010 19:28

Oh fuck off!

usualsuspect · 23/10/2010 19:30

I think you should all fuck off

HalfTermHero · 23/10/2010 19:32

Right back at ya, girlfriend!

(have I won the argument yet, you must all be impressed with my logical reasoning and detailed thought filled comments, yes?)

HalfTermHero · 23/10/2010 19:33

This has become a veritable fuck fest Smile

RunawayPumpkin · 23/10/2010 19:34

you lot still fucking here?
Well I never its like a Hugh Grant sound alike contest here