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To be freaked out by this..

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headinclouds101 · 05/10/2010 21:04

Strange one...

Have just received a large postcard which says on it "poison-ivy" and shows a womans with an ivy type tattoo on her back. There is no message and I have no idea who it is from.
Post mark a town I left a decade ago - though I lived there for a long time. Have kept up with only a few people from that town (apart from some others I still exchange Xmas cards but nothing else with) and I am satisfied did not come from anyone I am in proper contact with.

Why would anyone do this? Would you find it freaky? Is it some kind of inside joke I do not know about?

My name as written on the card could not have come from electoral register or bank statements etc. - it is how people who know me quite well would address me.

Oh and it is not my birthday or any kind of anniversary

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AgentZigzag · 05/10/2010 21:08

Poison ivy to me is either something children would say, or it's from Batman.

It is a bit weird if you can't think of who it'd come from, could it be possible someone's still thinking about something you did when you were there?

It's a bit of a long shot though, who'd keep a grudge for over ten years and not mention it before?

Feelingsensitive · 05/10/2010 21:09

Weird.

Keep quiet about it though and see if anyone hints to find out if you got it. If you sent something like this you would want a reaction so don't give them one.

Hedgeblunder · 05/10/2010 21:09

Is it hand written? I would be worried too

headinclouds101 · 05/10/2010 21:13

Yes, it is hand written. But it it is done in calligraphy - though not a very practised looking attempt at it.

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AgentZigzag · 05/10/2010 21:14

Defo agree with them wanting to provoke a reaction and for you to keep quiet about it to find out who it is.

thisisyesterday · 05/10/2010 21:15

so... is the "poison ivy" handwritten, or is that printed on the picture?

TrillianAstra · 05/10/2010 21:18

Do you have any enemies in that town?

In the batman film Poison Ivy bewitched men with special powder...

AnyFuleKno · 05/10/2010 21:18

interesting

Mumcentreplus · 05/10/2010 21:18

strange...

nannynobnobs · 05/10/2010 21:19

Strange! If it's somebody from your old town how would they know they'd got a 'reaction' from you? Could it be somebody on your Facebook who is hoping to see a status update about it? Cross check!

headinclouds101 · 05/10/2010 21:25

The poison ivy is printed.

cannot imagine anyone from old town who has my address could have any kind of grudge.

Anyone who might have a minor grudge at the moment (truly no idea why anyone would have a major one) would have had to travel a very long way to post card.

Nannynonobs - thanks for the suggestion - but I am not on Facebook.

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Anenome · 05/10/2010 21:26

Dont mention it to anyone who is not your partner...it could be someone you think is a friend but has some odd tendancies.

headinclouds101 · 05/10/2010 21:27

TrillianAstra - thanks for comment.

have not seen batman so assumed it was threat!
maybe it is a compliment??

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nelliesmum · 05/10/2010 21:30

Is your name Ivy? Maybe someone just saw it and thought of you. Someone a bit weird!

thisisyesterday · 05/10/2010 21:32

i thought people also used poison ivy as a term for anyone who worms their way in and does nasty things?
there was a film too, not batman, about someone who does this

BeerTricksPotter · 05/10/2010 21:42

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mistressploppy · 05/10/2010 21:45

That's creepy. I hope it turns out to be something innocent, like Beertricks' idea

ShirleyKnot · 05/10/2010 21:52

Are you Drew Barrymore?

RandyRussian · 05/10/2010 22:18

Is your name Ivy?

headinclouds101 · 06/10/2010 10:19

No- my name is not Ivy or anything similar.

Most certainly am not Drew Barrymore!

Have slept on it and still have no idea about the origin.

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ruburubyruby · 06/10/2010 10:26

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GypsyMoth · 06/10/2010 10:34

tattoo parlour is all i can think of!

are you tattoed? do you have an interest in them?

WitchyWooWoo · 06/10/2010 10:35

could be for an art show or something along those lines, i have had postcards like that in the past from our local theatre/art gallery

mummyloveslucy · 06/10/2010 10:52

I was thinking of a tattoo parlour too.
Don't worry about it. Smile

PortBlacksand · 06/10/2010 11:03

If you google 'woman with ivy tattoo' you get loads of pictures. Maybe you can get a lead from one of them - esp if it's a new tattoo parlour or nightclub.