How long has he got left of this course?
If it's not that long, the reason he could be professing undying love for you is because he has you 'hooked' starting all over again to find someone dumb enough to give him his papers is too high risk.
Have seen this happen over and over and over again, and they all say all the things you say.
Worse is that you are planning to have another DC with this bloke you know very little about.
What would your DS think? 3 years down the line and he's dumped you and gone and got his own wife from his own land, and brought her here? Cos you give him papers and that is exactly what he can do.
This is not about you, it's about if your DS would be proud of you shacking up with a bloke, having his kid and really struggling hard in a strange area. Stopping all your DS activities so you can pay the bills, taking him from his friends, for what? So you can bring up his child.
Believe me, if this bloke begrudges your DS these activities now, when he's not even with you, how's it going to be when he is?
Someone who would deny a boy of these things without even thinking is hardly EVER going to be father of the year. Any man worth his salt will be thinking how can I work hard and earn enough for salizchap to spend MORE on herself, how can I give this boy an even better life than he has now?
Until you know EXACTLY how people in his country are raised, their attitudes to children, their attitudes to women, to the male role in the household, don't do it.
Oh yes, and by EXACTLY, I mean at first hand, don't believe HIM, he'll tell you everything in his land is right, is lovely and everyone is treated fairly.
H told me that Under no circumstances would women be mal-treated in Egypt, they are afterall, he said, our sisters, our mothers our daughters....
People say Egypt is child friendly.
What utter bollocks! But it took me years of living there to fully appreciate the extent of the utter bollocks I'd been fed.
Women are only really allowed out with permission, they can't do certain things, go certain places unless they have the express permission of the man. husband or brother can withdraw that right whenever they like, for whatever reason they like, or none at all if it suits, and she can't raise her voice. EVER. They are never, ever allowed to open the door to any man that is not their brother, father or H. If she does, she is a whore, not only will she be in dire trouble from her family/H, the bloke she opens the door to will see it as an invitation and try it on, by force if need be.
Children are tolerated until they are old enough to do stuff for the parents. Play facilities are often dangerous, sand pits are cat toilets and no-one does anything about it. Boys never, ever hear NO, girls are dragged into the kitchen as soon as they are tall enough to reach the stove. The men get fed first mostly. Women are on call 24 hours a day for the H. Children often don't have set bed times, so are out all night, and you hear them screaming their heads off through tiredness all through the small hours. Parents utterly clueless as to what to do.
Women can be hit, and it's her fault, the whole family will support this too. She runs home to her family, first thing they will do is to take her back to him.
I realised that my H was not the open minded, friendly supportive person I thought he was. He is weak, insecure and desperate not to be different from his people. He lived in the UK for 20 years before we went 'back to his country' he reverted to Egyptian Alpha male in the 3hours it took to drive from the airport to Alexandria.
I've told you all this OP as a snapshot of my life for the last 10 years, it may not be the same country, that is actually by the by, what it does do is to illustrate that even with someone who had all his papers, someone I lived with for 5 years before having his DS (at age 38) can turn out to be a stranger, a controlling emotionally and physically abusive stranger, and you are trapped under the same roof as them.
H never said anything to me about what I could or couldn't do while we were in this country, and never with MY money! This bloke is not even living with you, is not paying your bills, is not going out to work to support you, but he feels able to tell you how you can live your life and what you spend YOUR heard earned money on.
He is a wrong-un. He is on the make, I guarantee it.