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So if AIBU isn't the right place for a rant...

26 replies

Jacksmybaby · 12/08/2010 11:43

... then where is?

Seen quite a few threads following the below pattern recently:

OP: [rants]
All: YABU
OP: I just wanted to come on here for a rant.
All: Well you've come to the wrong place. FFS. Get a grip. Oh and you can't spell. etc.

Just interested.

OP posts:
PersonalClown · 12/08/2010 11:44

We need a Rant Room!Grin

CaptainKirksNipples · 12/08/2010 11:44

I think if you just want a rant and for people to be sympathetic then it is the wrong place. Try _Chat instead if you don't want people to disagree with you.

What was the thread?

AnyFucker · 12/08/2010 11:47

chat is a good place for a rant, I think

Jacksmybaby · 12/08/2010 11:50

Rant room! I love it!

CKN I now realise I can't remember any of the specific threads.

Chat, ahh, ok.

OP posts:
TrillianAstra · 12/08/2010 11:52

Rant in AIBU if you like, but expect people to rant right on back at you Grin

If you just want a rant with no comeback you really shouldn't be asking 'Am I Being Unreasonable?', you should be saying 'I Am Right Everyone Back Me Up'.

Even then they might not.

Altinkum · 12/08/2010 11:56

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thesecondcoming · 12/08/2010 12:53

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Morloth · 12/08/2010 12:56

AIBU is fine for a rant, just don't chuck your toys if people tell you you are a dick.

SpringHeeledJack · 12/08/2010 12:57
Grin

it does seem sometimes as though everyone's sat in a circle all grumpy and furious waiting to vent the day's spleen onto any hapless individual who happens to blunder in

Ilythia · 12/08/2010 12:58

Meh, rant room won't work, I started a thread specificall saying I was In A Bad Mood and still got told to go to bed and calm down!

nickelbabe · 12/08/2010 12:58

hmm.

i think a rant room sounds like fun.

i've just realised i'm bloody starving and i want something to eat.

Grin
ChickensHaveNoEyebrows · 12/08/2010 12:59

If you rant in AIBU, and don't particularly care whether you are BU or not, then just don't go back to the thread. You get to vent, so feel better, and everyone who's pissed off gets to argue. It's altruism in it's truist form.

Altinkum · 12/08/2010 13:00

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cornsilk1010 · 12/08/2010 13:00

I think the problem with AIBU is that other posters who are having a shit day and feel up for a ruck can see it as a place to let off their own steam. I may even have done it myself... (looks at feet)

skyeplusbump · 12/08/2010 13:01

i want a rant room!!!

((stomps feet))

Grin
cornsilk1010 · 12/08/2010 13:01

When posters put RANT! in their OP things don't usually kick off though do they?

ProfessorLaytonIsMyLoveSlave · 12/08/2010 13:04

Do it in Chat and title it "Just having a rant..."

needafootmassage · 12/08/2010 13:10

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PueriSimilisCanis · 12/08/2010 13:12

a bit mean to bitch about a specific poster Altinkum

AnyFucker · 12/08/2010 13:16

well, if it's any help, I wouldn't visit a "rant room"

I think it would be a bit boring, tbh

full of moany, whingy people

I like a bit of fun mixed in with my ranting and mean responses to ranters, tbqh Wink

MathsMadMummy · 12/08/2010 13:16

we absolutely MUST have a Rant Room board, that is fantastic! :o

perfect for those who just want to vent. as I do, frequently :)

thesecondcoming · 12/08/2010 13:31

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SpringHeeledJack · 12/08/2010 13:59

ooh Pueri I've just worked out who you are

Grin

I for one would love a Rant Room. I would name change daily and be on it everyfuckingnight

grrrrrrrrrr

then I'd switch off the pc and be my normal Julie-Andrews-type self

snurk

NiceShoes · 12/08/2010 19:39

Altinkum, It is bad form to bitch about someone and bring up previous ishoos you have had with them. Maybe, you are one showing "very twattish and childish behaviour" by not moving on?

ChippingIn · 12/08/2010 20:32

Chat is a better place for a rant.

AIBU is also fine for a rant, so long as you say, that you just want to rant....

What isn't ok is the following:

OP: Yadda yadda yadda yadda AIBU.

95% of Posters: Yes, YABU.

OP: No I'm not and you are all bitches.

          OR

 No I'm not because (then a crap load of by stealth shit)

Rant away, but state your intention and don't ask AIBU Grin

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