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to be spooked by FB request

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Jasonthunderpants · 07/08/2010 21:38

I got a friend request on facebook from someone with the same name as me with the same spelling
I found this quite scary.what do I do?
Does he want to form some sort of secret society with people of the same name

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misdee · 07/08/2010 21:40

ah i thought it was mumsnetters stalking you

Imisssleeping · 07/08/2010 21:41

There is someone else called Jason Thunderpants ? Wow what are the chances.

Eskimoo · 07/08/2010 21:42

I think lots of people do this (not me i might add)......... Very strange that there are two people in the world called Jasonthunderpants though.........

PotPourri · 07/08/2010 21:42

just ignore (first check they are not trying to be you - their profile is open for a couple of weeks to you following s frienf request. Mark it as ignore request and i don;t know this person at sll.

Personally i dont find it scary as such, but yes, it is weird

misdee · 07/08/2010 21:42

its called googlewhacking.

PussinJimmyChoos · 07/08/2010 21:42

Jason - if they count peppers in supermarket bags, accept the request Grin

orangehead · 07/08/2010 21:43

I have had the same, sad is'nt it. I would just ignore

fedupofnamechanging · 07/08/2010 21:43

I have heard of this before. My DH was contacted by someone with the same name on fb and now I think there are loads of them.They have bugger all in common, apart from a name. Not sinister imo, but a bit odd

ASecretLemonadeDrinker · 07/08/2010 21:43

Are you sure you didn't send it to yourself...?

usernamechanged345 · 07/08/2010 21:44

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StormyWeather · 07/08/2010 21:46

I've had it too and when I looked at the person's profile they had a few of us. I ignored it. Got no interest whatsoever in being online friends with people I don't know. I just have real friends and family on there.

misdee · 07/08/2010 21:47

not yet puss. but am still thinkings its another girl :)

AgentZigzag · 07/08/2010 21:48

Isn't googlewhacking typing something into google that only returns one website in the search results? As in the Dave Gorman prog.

Lavitabellissima · 07/08/2010 21:49

I used to be email pals about 10 years ago (before facebook)with a girl who had my name as her hotmail address. Like this - [email protected] so I had to have it the other way round [email protected]. She was a journalist who lived in Canada.

Jasonthunderpants · 07/08/2010 21:51

Jasonthunderpants is not my real name
you fools

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wukter · 07/08/2010 21:54

My friend does this, she has a v unusual. you are so not down wiv da kids Jason

AgentZigzag · 07/08/2010 21:55

'Jasonthunderpants is not my real name '

Shock what?? Tell me that's not true.

Imisssleeping · 08/08/2010 20:05

thought not, Jason is a weird name!

LynetteScavo · 08/08/2010 20:08

So you parents didn't actually all you Jasonthunderpants?

My parents called me Lynette. Confused

RealityKicksArse · 08/08/2010 20:08

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LynetteScavo · 08/08/2010 20:14

You tricked us Jason! I've found you!

Dimtan · 08/08/2010 20:22

I get fb requests from people with my name.
Unfortunately my name is very popular with american men, so it's a bit weird.

FindingMyMojo · 08/08/2010 20:30

yes it's ok. haven't you done this?

I've got 3 people with the identical first & last name as me as friends on FB. 3 FMM's live in London & one up north. All in UK. I'm from NZ. Weird but nice. I'd like to have an FMM lunch one day - like Come Dine With Me but just one night, one name.

faeriefruitcake · 08/08/2010 20:32

I did that, cause out of the millions on facebook we are the only two with the same name.

I only messaged her to say hello I didn't want to be her friend. Maybe It's one of those Dave Gorman types who want to be friends with everyone who shares a name.

cupcake09 · 08/08/2010 20:42

jasonthunderpants your now going to have alot of friend request!!