I want my baby back - Panorama

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I hesitate to put this on the board but would be interested in the views of anyone who watches this - it's tonight on BBC 1 at 9pm.

I hope it gives a balanced account. Then there is the Channel 4 programme on Wednesday T 10pm on Finding a Mum and Dad.

well I would actually like to know what her partner actually said in his confession of not caring for the child properly. Supposedly made in order to take the heat of his partner. That was rather skipped over.

I am a web/social media consultant. I have no connection to any of the authorities or John Hemming. I do not bother or badger individuals apart from being (slightly) irritated at miscarriages of justice.

I'm pretty sure you're bothersome to adoptive parents when you're publishing details and photos of children on social media, putting them potentially at risk of harm.

I have no idea? Just assumed I suppose. Sorry he or she? Why? I am member of some sort of secret group too? Quite Funy as I have absolutely no idea who you are all talking about, but what is so wrong about him or her?

Because I am a 'he'

and for the nth time I dont work for anyone involved in these case

So, wizard, all these parents that trust you, how do they find you? And what do they expect you to do to help them? Because I must say if I had a problem like that, I don't think the first person I would turn to would be a web/social media consultant.

^I have two children, I am their birth mother, and I love them dearly and if medical evidence suggested wrongly
that I had absused my children, when I had nt, then of course I would flee the country. ^

It is not just up to you though, is it? I mean, what if the abuser is your partner?

So what do you actually do?

Probono posting about child snatching cases you think worthy of bringing to the publics attention?

@mrsbw - I do not 'publish' anything

had you confirmed that previously Wizard?

Do get your stooges to not make schoolboy errors

then what do you do and why do you do it?

You are the one who brought your involvement in cases like this up...

well actually parents do have rights. They have the right not to have their children that they brought into the world taken illegally

Drank

Shame there's no darn cliff when you need one.

Bwahahahaha

Years ago, I was walking on a cliff (northern Scotland) and me and DH came across a sign saying "Please don't bring your dogs here, because sheep get scared and jump off the cliff".
Must gather all JH there one day

What do you do, wizardpc?

It's been asked before.

Can you give some details? Just in case I ever meet anyone in need of your 'services'?

I have a private reason for my interest - I really am not involved with anyone in these cases

They don't have rights. They have responsibilities not the abuse children in their care simply because they gave birth to them.

so what are you going on about then?

@MrsBw - well if you want a website building love then I might be a good bet!!

They have the right not to have their children that they brought into the world taken illegally

True. Define illegally though.

still waiting for your reply to my previous posts

^Why should anyone be allowed to keep
a child who is not their birth child if the birth parents are able to look after that child^

Why is about the parents, and not the child?

Why should a parent (adoptive, real parent) lose their child when they have never commiteed any abuse? Why should adoptive parents be treated as lesser and deserving to lose their child despite being innocent? Why are they any different to birth parents?

Reversing an adoption will not solve anything. It results (basically) in the state stealing the adoptive parents child from them when they are innocent, but more importantly it would involve seriously traumatising the child by forcing them to lose their whole world and beloved parents.

Generally we are all very supportive. If you look back at our threads you will find several where we were supporting women who have lost their children to adoption. Most of us have a huge amount of empathy for families whose children have been adopted. Because we want this to be a supportive board for ALL members of the 'adoption triad'

The difference is when people who aren't connected to adoption start coming in and claiming that we aren't real parents, or trolling repeatedly, which is happening on is thread. Then we stop being supportive and empathetic. Like bloody Melvin etc.

Now I know why mums sit on these forums all day!!