bloody hell just did a huge reply and it cleared!
anyhow, I think PA is still grieving for KP not jorden, irrespective of what he says, and i'll be buggered if that woman is in a 'happy place' or good place as she puts it - jsut looking a thte pictures the woman's broken in two, and tbh I think jorden has come out as it's her way of dealing with the split - J. is the alter ego who can escape and doesn't give a crap.
I have to agree with PA as well, he's not saying and I don't believe he's ever said she has to stay celibate he's saying she should be more respectful, esp as the kids don't even know they've split up yet!! To have another man in the 'martial bed' is not right so early on, it is disrespectful to the kids - for their sake she should be more discrete, i'm not saying PA doesn't get his jollys, the bloke prob does, but his isn't in the papers, he doesn't parade around half naked floloping over a girl.
I think that's the pangs of hurt he has, irrespective of the fact he walked away form her, he's upset that his wife, katie can be so cruel, and bascially come back to jorden, and take another man into the bed - Something I think to be fair most of us would have a pang of hurt about - even if we had walked out on our partners.
I'm camp pete all the way - I dont' think it's a case of he's saying poor me, but I do think she's doing a bloody good job at buggering things up for herself, where as he's letting her get on with it.
also I think he should ahve residency, but on the other hand he wouldn't be allowed for Havey and after everything it's not fair on the kids to split them up.
So all's i'm saying is Kate, there are single mums out there, no one's saying you can't enjoy yourself, no one's saying you ahve to be a nun, but for gods sake woman show some respect for yourself and your kids - cos they're the ones who are going to be hurting in a few years down the line.