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The Gok Thread is Still Alive and Kicking

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mummylin2495 · 29/11/2008 17:17

here e are a nice new thread for us all !! hope you can all find it

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ABloke · 16/12/2008 10:12

Can the police not install some sort of alarm for her? It must be terrible for both of you.

Glad you are feeling a bit better T. Sorry if I was rude yesterday, I am a bit out of sorts atm. It doesn't excuse it though.

Tn0g · 16/12/2008 10:13

It's like he's got a death wish.

do you think the anger management team are right?

seems a bit easy to put it down to the drink.

I can drink to excess but don't get violent...get maudlin and stupid...

I guess drink can affect people differently but surely there is a deeper reason to act so violently.

ABloke · 16/12/2008 10:14

When we have bad colds. We stand in the kitchen and boil the 4 pots of water.

Very steamy. Sometimes I add Karvol but I found out that actually stings your eyes.

ABloke · 16/12/2008 10:14

I was thinking the same thing T.

Sounds a bit like someone I know.

DingDongMummyLinOnHigh · 16/12/2008 10:15

the thing is tnog ,it would take us 20minutes to get to her and by that time he could of done a lot of damage to dd,so its best to call the police because they can get there so much quicker.Dd said she was so glad when they turnd up.she didnt know at that time i had called them.i hope inever have to do i again but if needs be ,i will, no doubt about it.It was the rapid response team that went out to her and i have to say they were excellent.

Tn0g · 16/12/2008 10:15

Blokey, you weren't rude were you?

I got all nasty

didya notice?

Was spoiling for a fight....reckon the fever had me raging in more ways than one.

Thank God M doesn't take umbrage, she handles me well

DingDongMummyLinOnHigh · 16/12/2008 10:17

i think that the anger team are a bit odd,they only asked dd if she is prepared to have her partner there each evening so they can administer her partners detox meds ,how stupid is that ,of course dd said no.im not sure they are that good to be honest.But its what he has been told to attend.

ABloke · 16/12/2008 10:18

Oh wow I did not even notice.

I thought it was me? I went to bed saying to myself that I had left here for good etc etc..

M puts up with a lot. I do worry about how much you must have on your shoulders M.

Your dd, me, T [so she says ] and I know you msn others.... do you have you time?

Tn0g · 16/12/2008 10:18

You did, M, what any loving, concerned, scared, parent would do.

Thank God they have you.

Dh uses proper hankies....they're disgusting.

He has to prise them open to use them

bleurghhhhhhh

DingDongMummyLinOnHigh · 16/12/2008 10:19

i have a hide like an elephant sometimes tnog i value your friendships too much to take umbrage.

VienneseTart · 16/12/2008 10:21

hip

horay

for mummylin

off to collect zippy

and try to keep my eyes open

DingDongMummyLinOnHigh · 16/12/2008 10:21

yes i make time abloke,i think that others who have problems shpould have someone to at least talk to and if i can help anyone at all even by listening then i will,that is the one thing i can give ,my time.I know how important it is because of what my own sister went through.

Tn0g · 16/12/2008 10:21

That is odd, M.

I think it has to be zero tolerance, him removed from the family set-up til he shows real commitment toward kicking his habit surely.

But what do I know.

ABloke · 16/12/2008 10:21

I remember that M. They sounds like their heads are up their bottoms to me. idiots

The things is M. If he was still at home and behaving like that it would be no time before SS were involved. Your dd does not deserve all that shit.

DingDongMummyLinOnHigh · 16/12/2008 10:22

maybe tnog you could make a crazy paving path out of dh,s hankies

Tn0g · 16/12/2008 10:23

Oh

I've sort of gone all gooey at that M.

See you later, CC.

Say hi to Zippy and tell him I heard sleigh bells last night...santy must be having a test run.

ABloke · 16/12/2008 10:24

bye tarty.sorry I have not spoke with you for a while.

You are right M. I have made a new friend, she has not had a good time, she was crying last week so I went see her and have a cuppa, just before I left she gave a huge hug and thanked me.

I felt I had done nothing. It was nice.

DingDongMummyLinOnHigh · 16/12/2008 10:25

i spoke to her last night ,she has now set up a different bank account so he cant get her money,so that is a start,i also said i will not be happy if she has him back anytime in the next few months ,she says its her job to protect the children so i told her its my job to protect her.She understands how i feel.She is getting stronger.

DingDongMummyLinOnHigh · 16/12/2008 10:25

xcup ,toss me over one of your cheese scones please,i love them.!!!

DingDongMummyLinOnHigh · 16/12/2008 10:27

sometimes all someone needs is a shoulder abloke and you provided that for her.It can make a lot of difference to someone to know someone cares ,you did do something ,you gave her your time.

ABloke · 16/12/2008 10:28

ah what a life eh?

Full of twists and turns.

How long have we all known each other?

DingDongMummyLinOnHigh · 16/12/2008 10:29

aqnyway folks all will be revealed on friday,i dont know if its morning or afternoon,i have to go and throw my clothes on now as my friend and i are going shopping once again.catch up with you all later,tnog i am goin to come on here at 9pm so we can chat !!!! is that a date ?

Tn0g · 16/12/2008 10:30

Oi, Blokey I saw you posted something about not doing friends on MN.

Bloody cheek.

M, your dd will be like you

strong and determined.

DingDongMummyLinOnHigh · 16/12/2008 10:31

i have been here for 2yrs and 4 months and i started on the word game and that is when tnog and I couldnt stop chatting !!! i feel like i know you all personally and dont go on many other threads ,i stick to the people i know.right have to go ,see you later.x

ABloke · 16/12/2008 10:31

Have a nice day M. [

I am going out soon too. Shopping. As always and I have some work to do.

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