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Curated ears!

39 replies

Beebeez · 09/09/2026 16:09

I got my daith and a flat pierced yesterday. I’m in love with the daith ring. I’ve definitely got the bug!

so can you show me yours?

Curated ears!
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Millytante · 09/09/2026 16:10

What’s the ‘AIBU’ then?

Beebeez · 09/09/2026 16:15

My bad picked the wrong one. Meant to go into chat.

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FuckoffeeBeforeCoffee · 09/09/2026 16:24

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SomethingNewish · 09/09/2026 16:25

Ask MN to move the thread then OP.
You are opening yourself up to some critical comments in AIBU

Beebeez · 09/09/2026 16:39

Right it’s in chat now.. can I please see your ears? Christ 🫪

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Littledidsheknow · 09/09/2026 16:56

Hi OP, you really dare not take a wrong step here! 🤣

My ears are not yet curated, just two holes in each lobe but I have plans to get some piercings done in the not too distant future.

Watching for ideas. 🙂

Yours are lovely, BTW, OP, love the bee!

Aaloyisha · 09/09/2026 21:59

Also watching for ideas (and to say YWNBU for asking….). If anyone has pretty nose piercings I’m particularly here for that.

Beebeez · 09/09/2026 22:23

Aaloyisha · 09/09/2026 21:59

Also watching for ideas (and to say YWNBU for asking….). If anyone has pretty nose piercings I’m particularly here for that.

Thanks 🫣🤣 I’m getting my nose done on pay day

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Aaloyisha · Yesterday 09:28

Beebeez · 09/09/2026 22:23

Thanks 🫣🤣 I’m getting my nose done on pay day

ooooh show us when you’re done! I want the confidence to do it.

TheGriffle · Yesterday 09:35

My daughter wants a curated ear. She’s 13 and currently has 3 lobe piercings in each ear, (stacked, is that the right word? One above the other up her lobe.) that’s her limit at the minute as her school don’t allow earrings and cartilage takes too long to heal, we were pushing it with the 6 weeks for her last lobes, she’s highly annoyed that she now needs to wait a few years!

I love the look of curated ears but for some reason my body does not heal from piercings at all. I’ve had my lobes done 3 times and the top of my ear and all had to be taken out as over a year later each time they still hadn’t healed. I have my nose done which flares up every now and again but they only reason I’ve still got it is I changed it to a ring after 6 months and haven’t changed it since in 2ish years, so I’m sticking with it for life unless I take it out for good.

Beebeez · Yesterday 14:53

@Aaloyisha I love it !

Curated ears!
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beaglescurleduplikebagels · Yesterday 15:11

Here are mine!

Curated ears!
Beebeez · Yesterday 16:54

beaglescurleduplikebagels · Yesterday 15:11

Here are mine!

I love those!! Also love your name!

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Aaloyisha · Yesterday 21:42

@Beebeezabsolutely amazing! I love it!

MrsLFii · Yesterday 21:48

I bloody love piercings, looking great both!
at what point does an ear become ‘curated’ 🤔 I have no photos but;
left ear - conch, forward helix, three helix, two lobe and one ‘high’ lobe (not sure what that’s called 😂)
right ear - four helix, daith, tragus, two lobe
All silver toned, sparkly and a vaguely botanical theme, couple of leaf style etc
plus I got my nose pierced yesterday, nostril, with a wee sparkly stud, on a complete whim and I am delighted with it!

SisSuffragette · Yesterday 22:12

Beebeez · 09/09/2026 16:09

I got my daith and a flat pierced yesterday. I’m in love with the daith ring. I’ve definitely got the bug!

so can you show me yours?

I love them both OP. I have daith pierced both sides and on one side, two lobes and in the other, three plus an upper cartilage. I can't decide what I want in them but wear fairly conservative earrings for work. I'll take a pic in the morning ☺️

Beebeez · Yesterday 23:18

SisSuffragette · Yesterday 22:12

I love them both OP. I have daith pierced both sides and on one side, two lobes and in the other, three plus an upper cartilage. I can't decide what I want in them but wear fairly conservative earrings for work. I'll take a pic in the morning ☺️

thank you! I think I might get the daith done on the other side when this one is healed. I’ve ordered a pillow with a hole 😂

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FeelingALittleWoozyHere · Yesterday 23:21

Here is mine! Love yours OP

Curated ears!
Beebeez · Yesterday 23:25

Aaloyisha · Yesterday 21:42

@Beebeezabsolutely amazing! I love it!

Thank you 🥰 it’s so pretty

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MarshmallowsOnToast · Today 00:14

Beebeez · 09/09/2026 16:09

I got my daith and a flat pierced yesterday. I’m in love with the daith ring. I’ve definitely got the bug!

so can you show me yours?

Your jewellery is so pretty! Especially as you only just had them pierced.

When I get new piercings they will only ever use the boring balls & hoops until it’s healed then swap to something pretty.

On another note. Isn’t the daith piercing absolutely horrendously painful!! 😭🙀

Beebeez · Today 00:16

MarshmallowsOnToast · Today 00:14

Your jewellery is so pretty! Especially as you only just had them pierced.

When I get new piercings they will only ever use the boring balls & hoops until it’s healed then swap to something pretty.

On another note. Isn’t the daith piercing absolutely horrendously painful!! 😭🙀

Edited

He will only put in 18 carat gold, platinum or titanium bars. I went very bougie and got the bee and ring in 18 carat gold. My wallet is extremely empty now 🫣🫣

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Beebeez · Today 00:58

MarshmallowsOnToast · Today 00:14

Your jewellery is so pretty! Especially as you only just had them pierced.

When I get new piercings they will only ever use the boring balls & hoops until it’s healed then swap to something pretty.

On another note. Isn’t the daith piercing absolutely horrendously painful!! 😭🙀

Edited

Also my piercer does ‘ear theming’ which sounds absolutely wank but it basically means that the jewellery you get pierced with can stay in forever and then you can add to the jewellery with other jewellery that matches as you get more piercings. He will source special pieces that match your existing jewellery so I won’t ‘need’ to ever take these out apart from downsizing in 3 weeks or so. 🥰

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Beebeez · Today 01:00

These 2 set me back £300 on Tuesday (oof)

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malefields · Today 07:24

Mine never heal properly :( I’ve tried piercings multiple times throughout my life and it never goes well regardless of care, I’m thinking of maybe getting tested because my mother seems to think I have some allergy but she doesn’t know what (apparently this was also an issue as a child, I remember having them pierced more than once).

jeffsaward · Today 08:13

I’m going to speak to my piercer about designing my nose, I have an unfortunately large surface area so figure I might as well have more than one basic hole! I had it done years ago but it was awful and thankfully closed up! I’m due in a few weeks to get my new helix changed down so will be getting it done then hopefully