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With forest fires burning across Europe and another heatwave on the horizon, how much are you personally willing to change your lifestyle for future generations?

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Chocolatefreak · Yesterday 20:19

Genuine question for discussion purposes. Let's assume, for the sake of argument, that you believe tackling climate change and environmental degradation is a shared responsibility, involving not only governments and corporations but also individuals.

With that in mind, how much would you personally be willing to change your lifestyle if it meant giving future generations, including your children and grandchildren, a better chance of living on a stable, healthy planet?

For example, would you be willing to:

a) Dramatically reduce your consumption of meat and dairy, so that more agricultural land could be used to grow food directly for people rather than feed livestock?
b) Restrict air travel and most car journeys to occasions where they are genuinely necessary?
c) Stop buying more than you need, only getting clothing, gadgets, and other consumables only when they are genuinely necessary rather than for convenience or entertainment?

If not, where would you draw the line? What changes would you consider reasonable, and which would you consider asking too much?

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Sdmfn · Yesterday 23:50

Sdmfn · Yesterday 23:24

If you had DC and they wanted to move to Australia. They wanted to do the working holiday thing their government allows people to do.. how would you recommend they get there?

Guess no one can answer this.

Leopardyduvet · Yesterday 23:52

I enjoy listening to luxury travel podcasts as a kind of escapism (I haven’t been able to travel in years really due to various commitments). One thing that comes up a lot is very wealthy people describing how a tour of Antarctica is really life changing because they really saw the effects of climate change first hand. Of course their trip was all careful and well organised and caused minimal disruption and blah blah blah. I find the cognitive dissonance and arrogance astounding. It reminds me of the 90s rich kid gap year students who trotted off to Galapagos voluntourism turtle saving projects.
Anyway in answer to the question I do what I can to live sustainably but probably more motivated by finances, health, and a quest for simplicity than climate change if I’m honest.
I’m not 100% certain that if I won the lottery I wouldn’t be travelling a hell of a lot more. I’d still buy second hand everything though, apart from pants. And I’d draw the line at swanning around Antarctica.

Sdmfn · Yesterday 23:52

And everyone's ignoring the carbon intensity of the economy. China's dirty coal driven economy.

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ButtercupYellow26 · Yesterday 23:55

Meanwhile other countries are destroying the planet with war and weapons.

GeneralPeter · Today 00:04

JennyForeigner · Yesterday 22:16

Because it would be 40 degrees when we got there, and what used to be sunflower farms and rivers are now parched and brown. The change around what used to be our family is very striking and very sad.

And also because I don't want to get on a plane and implicitly validate the whole business. That's like telling myself I can buy from temu but as long as I donate to charity it's fine. It is not fine.

On the first point, fair enough.

The second point just feels irrational to me. Obviously there’s an option d where you stay home and buy those same offsets four times a year, which would be even better for the environment.

But leaving that one aside, if you pick a over c becuase it makes you feel better, how’s that morally different from people who buy the 4x4, knowing the numbers, because it makes them feel better?

mathanxiety · Today 00:15

marbIecake · Yesterday 20:39

I'll do my bit where it makes sense.

Frankly though, what I'm utterly sick and tired of is the implication that the future of the planet depends mainly on whether ordinary people have the occasional burger or holiday, while those with the greatest influence escape the same level of scrutiny.

You asked for honesty.

Yes to this.

I live in the US where data centers occupy entire counties and guzzle natural resources.

I do not own or operate a data center.

I do drive a small suv. It is a safe car with all wheel drive, which I need in snowy/icy winter conditions.
I haven't bought new clothes or footwear for at least 15 years (I buy secondhand).
I make do and mend.
I cook from scratch and eat very little meat, stick to seasonal ingredients.
I never order stuff from Amazon (packaging, transport).
I fly to see my elderly mum whenever I can afford a transatlantic flight and get the time off work.

GeneralPeter · Today 00:17

Chocolatefreak · Yesterday 22:10

We have finite resources, and there is a limit to how much carbon dioxide the atmosphere can safely absorb. So therefore carbon offsetting makes no sense, since it doesn't reduce either of those things.

What would work is an individual carbon budget, for people to spend on what they wanted. E.g. eating meat OR driving a car OR flying once a year.

Sure it does.

If I decide to stop burning wood to heat my house and instead switch to efficient modern heating, that reduces carbon emissions.

Just like switching from eating beef to eating vegetables in your example. If you reject that, you reject the logic behind home insulation, heat pumps, etc too.

If I instead pay to ensure someone else stops burning wood for fuel then the benefit is the same. It doesn’t stop becuase it’s too cheap or they are too foreign or something.

Why would it?

Gingerkittykat · Today 00:27

Sdmfn · Yesterday 20:45

People who haven't been on a plane in years. Okay you take the train to Paris, Amsterdam or Brussels. Perhaps you take a ferry to Ireland? But what if you want to go further into Europe? What if you want to go Cyprus?

My dd is going to Dublin at the beginning of August for 5 days, her return flights were about £90 from Edinburgh.

I just googled and a ferry from Scotland to Belfast costs a minimum of £155 with 4 hours of driving on each leg of the journey.

This is why people use cars and planes instead of trians and ferries.

mathanxiety · Today 00:30

BashfulClam · Yesterday 23:16

It won’t make much difference when countries like the USA continue with their habits. Drive absolutely everywhere, use disposable cookware and plates, run A\C and dryers…they dwarf us in population so anything we do is cancelled out a million times over.

It's so easy to bash people whose lives you clearly know nothing about.

I really wish MNers would stop sneering at AC and repeating silly tropes like 'use dryers' and 'drive everywhere' without making any effort to understand that millions of Americans don't have handy back gardens with swivel clothes lines to hang out their washing on. They live in apartments, which save land and preserve the natural environment. Similarly, millions of Americans don't, in fact, drive everywhere, because they rely on public transport in the cities where they live, from busses to local trains to commuter rail, or even ferries.

And as for AC - it's not a mark of moral rectitude to boil your way through the heat and humidity of summer (or the other three seasons if you happen to live in a part of the US where it's always hot and humid). It is 94°F (approx 34°C) where I live today, and the humidity is about 72%. I make no apologies for turning on the AC and leaving it on all night. I need to sleep because I have a job to get to tomorrow.

Disposable cookware and plates? Seriously...

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · Today 00:41

We've cut down on flying from (almost) once a year to once every five years. We're not prepared to stop flying completely when so many others aren't prepared to cut down at all.

We don't have a car at the moment and travel mainly by public transport.

I don't eat meat and DP only has it occasionally.

We're trying to be less wasteful when it comes to shopping, especially when buying single-use plastics and cheaply-made items which won't last long.

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · Today 00:47

abracadabra1980 · Yesterday 22:08

100% agree with this. Also, as the majority of folk on Mumsnet seem to be southern-I can hand on heart say that most people I encounter in the north east-mainly professionals, care very little on a personal level about global warming being something they can actually do much about, until the likes of China and India fall into line - the UK's 1% contribution to global warming bears no relevance in daily life.

Who do you thinking is making most of the (non-food) items we buy? We can't just outsource our manufacturing to other countries and say the pollution caused by their factories is nothing to do with us!

SummerFeverVenice · Today 00:56

mathanxiety · Today 00:30

It's so easy to bash people whose lives you clearly know nothing about.

I really wish MNers would stop sneering at AC and repeating silly tropes like 'use dryers' and 'drive everywhere' without making any effort to understand that millions of Americans don't have handy back gardens with swivel clothes lines to hang out their washing on. They live in apartments, which save land and preserve the natural environment. Similarly, millions of Americans don't, in fact, drive everywhere, because they rely on public transport in the cities where they live, from busses to local trains to commuter rail, or even ferries.

And as for AC - it's not a mark of moral rectitude to boil your way through the heat and humidity of summer (or the other three seasons if you happen to live in a part of the US where it's always hot and humid). It is 94°F (approx 34°C) where I live today, and the humidity is about 72%. I make no apologies for turning on the AC and leaving it on all night. I need to sleep because I have a job to get to tomorrow.

Disposable cookware and plates? Seriously...

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Well it is true the average American generates 3x the carbon emissions of the average Brit. Your lifestyle does need to change.

The USA is in the top 10 of world polluters by capita.

The bashing is warranted, even if the specific examples are not very good.

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