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Does anyone have a parrot?

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canthavetoomanylights · 24/07/2026 19:54

Thinking of rescuing one. We’re retired so have plenty of time at home, but don’t want another dog or cat. The house is quiet tho and we would love something.
Would welcome any thoughts or advice.

OP posts:
Fiftyandnotsonifty · 25/07/2026 16:31

malloryknox123 · 25/07/2026 13:33

Yes. I have a 5 year old conure. He is delightful, talks, does lots of cute things and is quite intelligent.

BUT

he bites, he screams and he poos. He can’t be left alone too long because he cries and gets stressed. He has fallen in love with my DH and considers him his mate, and me an interloper.

he injured himself flying into our balcony door, dropped like a stone onto the floor and then he actually cried. Hearing a parrot cry in pain is heartbreaking.

if you are serious, be aware that it’s like having a toddler for 35 years

Please don’t take my question as a dig or anything like that it’s just a genuine question? Why did you think it was a good idea to get one?

Allseeingallknowing · 25/07/2026 16:54

canthavetoomanylights · 25/07/2026 14:00

I’d never have a goldfish. I hate seeing the poor things just swimming round and round a bowl or tank.
Do note I said ‘rescue’ a parrot and I had posted as part of lots of research I intended to do(but now won’t be haha).

It’s ok- apparently goldfish have a 30 second memory. Every trip round the tank will be a new place for them!

Somersetbaker · 25/07/2026 17:11

I have heard a (possibly apocryphal) story about somebody leaving a parrot in a room with an Alexa smart speaker, then finding out several days later that the parrot had been ordering things from Amazon.

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malloryknox123 · 25/07/2026 18:01

Fiftyandnotsonifty · 25/07/2026 16:31

Please don’t take my question as a dig or anything like that it’s just a genuine question? Why did you think it was a good idea to get one?

Because he’s delightful and cute and I love him very much. even though he bites me and flies at my head to stop me from getting anywhere near my DH, he’s a lovely pet.

malloryknox123 · 25/07/2026 18:04

@saveforthat

Does anyone have a parrot?
Does anyone have a parrot?
Pedallleur · 25/07/2026 19:11

Friend of mine had one. Beautiful bird but all the reasons on here not to have one. Long lived, highly intelligent, require company. It liked my friend but not his wife. I've never seen such a mess as they leave. Feathers and dust everywhere and when eating seeds and nuts it was like watching a spraying machine so you are vacuuming constantly. Big cage required but obviously you let them out. It was devious as well. My daughter loved it but feared it's seemingly gigantic beak. Eventually my friend rehomed it in a sanctuary.

Pedallleur · 25/07/2026 19:14

gamerchick · 25/07/2026 13:25

They're like toddlers that can fly. They need a lot of stimulation and will pick up swear words like toddlers do.

I grew up with them, it was like having loads of siblings that liked to bite your toes.

Great description. Like having a toddler for poss 40 years.

Pedallleur · 25/07/2026 19:16

canthavetoomanylights · 24/07/2026 21:13

Oh wow. Well I’m glad I asked (I think). I do want personality. I def don’t want just a caged animal or bird ( im a bit uncomfortable with anything being caged tbh). But I don’t think I want damage!

You don't get an option. Amazing creatures but they demand attention. The wild is the best place for them. Somebody mentioned vets. That's expensive and apparently you can do a test with a plucked feather but good luck getting one.

Pedallleur · 25/07/2026 19:24

Fiftyandnotsonifty · 25/07/2026 16:29

I thought I was finished with this thread, but now you’re talking OP lol. I’d love to have a menagerie of reptiles, I love them all, my dream pet would be a Komodo dragon, obviously just a dream.

What could wrong owning a large carnivorous reptile with a mouth full of deadly bacteria?

Springbuck · 25/07/2026 19:39

Fiftyandnotsonifty · 25/07/2026 13:15

And here is a fine example 😡, the poor thing got too much for you so it got passed on yet again!

Did you bother reading the last paragraph of my op. Yes we had to rehome him and with hindsight agreeing to take him was a big mistake.
However, we spent 14 months interviewing potential new homes and turned down a lot of potential owners due to them having children, neighbours or other pets.
He is much happier now so you can stop hoiking your judgy pants.

Shloopie · 25/07/2026 19:42

Don't they live for something like 60 years? That's a heck of an undertaking even if they're in their 20s already!

Springbuck · 25/07/2026 19:43

Fiftyandnotsonifty · 25/07/2026 13:17

Exactly! That’s why so many poor animals are dumped in rescue because owners do not do sufficient research! Do not get a parrot! They are far more than just looking pretty and saying cute words, they are very emotional animals and destructive. Have you considered a goldfish instead? I appreciate how my post can come across, but I’m very passionate about animal welfare.

Edited

As am I, indeed just yesterday I drove a round trip of 80 miles to take a fledgling pigeon to a wildlife sanctuary after it fell from its nest with its sibling. The sibling died and there was no way I could leave the poor thing to the local cats.

Springbuck · 25/07/2026 19:47

saveforthat · 25/07/2026 16:30

I wish those parrot owners who have posted would post one or two pics....please.

There you go

Does anyone have a parrot?
saveforthat · 25/07/2026 20:11

Springbuck · 25/07/2026 19:47

There you go

Beautiful

Poppycorn123 · 26/07/2026 09:08

What a gorgeous bird Springbuck!

Cantyouseethishorselovesme · 26/07/2026 09:16

Zephyr888 · 24/07/2026 20:57

No I don't
No I don't
No I don't
No I don't
No I don't

😂Genius!!

likelysuspect · 26/07/2026 09:23

Ive only read page one, not that I ever wanted a bird/parrot and I dont agree with keeping birds anyway but never knew they were such a nightmare to keep.

Bogstandardname · 26/07/2026 09:26

Loving these anecdotes. I would never home a parrot because of all the mess and destruction, but if you can cope with that then they would seem to be great company and very comical. They would definitely outlive me though.

AliasGracie · 26/07/2026 09:27

I've always wanted a parrot but ultimately it's cruel to keep them as pets. No wonder they're destructive .

Ylvamoon · 26/07/2026 09:48

Fiftyandnotsonifty · 25/07/2026 13:15

And here is a fine example 😡, the poor thing got too much for you so it got passed on yet again!

I would never keep a pet that terrorised one of my DC.

Pedallleur · 26/07/2026 09:54

Shloopie · 25/07/2026 19:42

Don't they live for something like 60 years? That's a heck of an undertaking even if they're in their 20s already!

40 years on average so a lifetime commitment but seems a full time job caring for one plus all the drawbacks mentioned.

vegemitesandwiches · 26/07/2026 09:56

I think it should be illegal to keep them (and most birds) as pets unless you have an aviary and can let them free fly.

Wynter25 · 26/07/2026 10:00

I would love a parrot. They are amazing and very clever

Rubyupbeat · 26/07/2026 10:02

I have had cockatiels, they are lovely pets, we never kept them locked in a cage, so would join us in the living room of a night.
Now we have green parakeets feeding in our garden on the feeders every day, we have flocks of them where we live in the UK, so its lovely to watch them and not have the stress or mess.

Flannelfeet · 26/07/2026 10:11

Springbuck · 25/07/2026 19:47

There you go

Thats a braw big birdie 😍