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I don’t think there is any way to stop people calling me a completely different name to mine

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inmyhome · Yesterday 18:25

And I really wish it did not bother me, but it does.

My name is very uncommon, but it is virtually identical in spelling to another slightly more common one. However, the pronunciation is different.

I am selling my house. It has been let out for over a decade with the same estate agents. They still call me the wrong name.

It doesn’t seem to matter how many times you correct people and there really does come a point where there aren’t enough hours in the day.

Weirdly, it’s only in the area I grew up in this is an issue. Has anyone else had this?

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OutOfApricots · Yesterday 21:45

Lots of people stick a random 's' on the end of our (extremely common and only has four letters) surname, turning it from the singular to the plural. Think 'Kites' instead of 'Kite' but not that, obviously.

I've come to the conclusion that people are just dim.

MaidMiriam · Yesterday 21:49

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · Yesterday 18:50

I get this.

I’m named after a famous Shakespeare character, my name is one letter different from a very famous boat and is pronounced EXACTLY as it’s written.

People still say it wrong.

If I’m in a bad mood I just ignore people when they get it wrong. If people phone me and ask if they’re speaking to +wrong name+ I say “no” and hang up. If I correct people and they STILL insist on the batshittery pronunciation I walk away/hang up.

If they can’t be arsed then neither can I.

Titania pronounced with a slightly long first 'a' in all the productions of A Midsummer Night's Dream that I've ever seen - Tit-AH-nia.

I vaguely know someone called Titania who pronounces with a short 'a' though - like the a in cat. It's not you is it?!

wifty · Yesterday 22:22

is it something similar to people calling you alesha? but your name is pronounced alicia (ah-li-si-a)?

some people at my work put the pronunciation underneath and people STILL say it completely wrong!

irks me and it’s not even my name!

Justhereforthebants · Yesterday 22:24

CrawlingBackToYou · Yesterday 19:01

The blame lies fully with the person/people who named you.

As someone who has to call out silly made up names being endlessly corrected with “it’s blah blah”

Honestly couldn’t care less; you’ve made your child’s life unnecessarily hard. I’ll forget your child’s name and how it’s meant to be pronounced the minute you walk out the door. Play stupid games win stupid prizes.

Are you being serious? My name is not “silly” or “made up” in any way, it’s just not that common in this country. Do you go abroad and correct people’s names there, too? Just because you haven’t heard a name before or can’t be bothered to pronounce it correctly/educate yourself, doesn’t make you right. It makes you RUDE.

StarCourt · Yesterday 22:42

I have a very common everyday name that is spelled the way everyone would spell it. I am often called by 2 similar names and have no idea why.

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