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Why is adhd not as "respected" as other ND conditions?

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elliejjtiny · 22/06/2026 16:46

I'm wondering if it's because autism can mean anything from what used to be called Aspergers syndrome and profound autism with profound learning disabilities and people with adhd are more likely to either not have learning disabilities or have learning disabilities with a separate diagnosis.

But Nigel Farage has been in the news again saying he is going to get rid of PIP for people with mild anxiety and adhd as their primary diagnosis. I don't think anyone gets PIP for mild anxiety, I certainly don't anyway. But adhd can be extremely debilitating and require PIP.

OP posts:
littleorangefox · 24/06/2026 10:11

Wellyesidothinkso · 24/06/2026 10:03

Are you asserting that it doesn’t stand for disorder?

No I'm "asserting" that it doesn't stand for disordered.

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 24/06/2026 10:12

littleorangefox · 24/06/2026 10:10

It doesn't stand for disordered.

OP, this level of pedantry is exactly why people switch off.

littleorangefox · 24/06/2026 10:17

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 24/06/2026 10:12

OP, this level of pedantry is exactly why people switch off.

😂

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Wellyesidothinkso · 24/06/2026 10:36

littleorangefox · 24/06/2026 10:11

No I'm "asserting" that it doesn't stand for disordered.

Uh-huh…

Shrinkhole · 24/06/2026 16:15

Error404BrainNotFound · 24/06/2026 09:11

@Shrinkhole Can you cheat a QbTest?
@BurnoutBee Gabor Mate thinks everything is trauma, including asthma. His work is interesting, but not entirely helpful in the here and now

I wouldn’t think you could cheat that test but most private clinics I have seen people assessed at aren’t using it. It’s not mandatory for diagnosis and it should not be relied on as a stand alone test as the reliability is not good enough for that. There’s around a 30% false positive rate which is pretty high.

questioneverything01 · 25/08/2026 18:42

ThatBlueJumper · 22/06/2026 17:00

I think the issue is so many have ADHD symptoms from excessive screen time and poor diet. They do get mis-diagnosed with ADHD, this makes it hard to tell if genuine ADHD and means lots are questioning the entire diagnosis…

Did it occur to you its the other way round?

questioneverything01 · 25/08/2026 18:53

Wellyesidothinkso · 22/06/2026 21:25

I completely agree. All the women I know who are getting themselves diagnosed are just peri/menopausal. It’s going to damage understanding of the menopause which is already woefully misunderstood and dismissed.

“But that’s what you’re doing with adhd- dismissing it”

Yes, I am. I think what more and more people are classing as adhd and slapping a sticker on themselves, is well within the normal range of human experiences. We’ve moved on from “I’m so OCD” to “my adhd brain”. Something else will come along next.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12538516/
perimenopausal symptoms in women with and without ADHD: A population-based cohort study

Perimenopausal symptoms in women with and without ADHD: A population-based cohort study - PMC

Knowledge of the impact of perimenopause on women with attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is lacking. We compared levels of perimenopausal symptoms and prevalence of severe perimenopausal symptoms among women with and without ADHD ...

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12538516/

questioneverything01 · 25/08/2026 18:59

JeepHeet · 24/06/2026 09:15

At some point aren't you supposed to be responsible for your own life and deal with your own problems?

my mother - 'why do you have to bring the childhood?' when i started therapy
she cant deal with the stigma as there might me something wrong with her genes as her younger brother was spastic cerebral palsy.

'I treated you like a problem when your were a child, but once you turned 18 you could make your own decisions, and what have you done with your life? '
parents supposed to prepare a child and support for adulthood.
First time I could afford therapy was when I was 43.
I am 45.
I am ASD/ADHD

Chloejane1 · 30/08/2026 18:21

ADHD can affect people very differently, and for some it can have a serious impact on everyday life. Support should be based on how much someone’s condition affects them, rather than assumptions about a diagnosis alone.

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