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If you have a cleaner what do you usually do

63 replies

Wolverine23 · 11/06/2026 15:34

For payments? Would you Pay them after every clean within days? Straight away usually? Also, if you needed constant reminding would you set up a standing order given that it can be flexible? Last minute cancellation maybe on both sides sometimes

is leaving to 2-3 weeks without paying acceptable?

OP posts:
LizzyTango · 11/06/2026 16:24

Cleaner comes twice a week. For first couple of months paid her by bank transfer the evening of each clean. Couple of times I forgot and I paid after a day or two. Since she’s proved so reliable, and I now think fair to pay her even when we don’t need her eg we’re away, I have a weekly standing order for the day after her second clean.

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 11/06/2026 16:24

Leave cash out on the day

dottiedodah · 11/06/2026 16:39

I think cash for them that actual day is fair .They often rely on their ages hugely

curious79 · 11/06/2026 16:41

In cash, on the day

Leaving 2-3 weeks is unacceptable. I leave cash in tin if I'm away. We have a long term, trusting and strong relationship.

HauntedRavioli · 11/06/2026 16:45

I have both had a cleaner and been a cleaner and it's always been cash on the day.

If you've left your cleaner waiting for payment for 2-3 weeks, you need to put that right immediately.

If you are the cleaner, it's time to make it clear to your client that you won't be returning until you've been paid for the work you've already done.

Hotpants123 · 11/06/2026 16:49

I pay after each clean, transfer to her bank.
There are occasions I have forgotten, she gently reminds me.
She knows if I haven't paid her by the end of the day I have forgotten, so she might send me a text but very amicable.

shuddacuddadidnt · 11/06/2026 16:52

Pay by bank transfer on the day. My cleaner has been with me for almost eighteen years and I dread the day she decides to retire.

caringcarer · 11/06/2026 16:52

I pay money into cleaners bank account before she leaves my house after each clean. If I go on holiday I pay money across before I go.

Daffodilsinthespring · 11/06/2026 16:54

Bank trans the evening of the clean. Very occasionally the next morning if I forgot.

SanSeb · 11/06/2026 17:03

As soon as I remember after the clean - always that evening.

doesanybodyhaveamap · 11/06/2026 17:05

I’m very forgetful about this kind of thing so have a standing order that goes out the day after a clean. Then if for any reason our cleaner can’t come one week I can pause the SO.

I also make it known I don’t at all mind being reminded!!!!

xyzandabc · 11/06/2026 17:07

I used to bank transfer on the day. But it was too easy to forget. Our cleaner was lovely whenever I forgot and reminded me but I didn't like being a bad payer. So set up a standing order to pay every 4 weeks in advance. She's been cleaning with us for over 10 years and is 100% reliable.

Leaving it 2-3 weeks is totally not acceptable

LittleGreenDuck · 11/06/2026 17:08

Bank transfer as soon as I get home from work on the day. The clean house is my visual reminder to pay! Would never pay later than the day of the clean.

mrsbowes · 11/06/2026 17:12

My cleaner won't come back to you if you don't pay by the end of the day 😂

Moveoverdarlin · 11/06/2026 17:13

Leave cash on the day.

DivorcedButHappyNow · 11/06/2026 17:14

Bank transfer within 24hrs of clean

CowTown · 11/06/2026 17:33

By bank transfer that evening or the next day. 2-3 weeks is really unfair, and would easily get muddled as you’ll have overlapped sessions and it might not be clear which sessions have/haven’t been paid for.

FridayFeelingIsTheBest · 11/06/2026 17:39

Our cleaner comes twice a week and for a few months we paid straight after each clean. After that she asked us if we would mind paying her on the 25th of each month, so that is what we have done for many years now.

butternut123 · 11/06/2026 17:43

I do a month at a time upfront

Melom · 11/06/2026 19:22

Standing order once a month from my bank to hers.

GameOfJones · 11/06/2026 19:29

Always bank transfer on the day she has been.

PancakeCloud · 11/06/2026 20:17

2-3 weeks is not acceptable. Bank transfer / cash on day of clean.

JustFrustrated · 11/06/2026 20:18

muddyford · 11/06/2026 15:56

I pay by cheque each time she comes.

The only surprising answer on here….
cheque? Why?

EmeraldDreams73 · 11/06/2026 20:29

I leave cash on the day. Of course 2-3 weeks is completely unreasonable.

MrsMrsD · 12/06/2026 18:55

2-3 weeks without paying is absolutely not acceptable. Cash on the day. You wouldn't walk out of Tesco and say I'll pay you in 2 weeks. The cleaner did the work so pay them as soon as possible.

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