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A question about Henry Nowak….

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CurlewKate · 10/06/2026 14:09

Is there any actual evidence to support the suggestion that this completely awful event had anything to do with with “two tier policing” and was a hideous example of appalling policing and in particular, appalling first responding? It is unforgivable that the police didn’t check Nowak properly for injuries. But there was no weapon at the scene and the police were met with 4 people who had called them and were all telling the same story.They made assumptions which they would probably have made regardless of the ethnicity of the people involved. And in 999 cases out of 1000 the assumptions would have been right. The sort of judgement call the police have to make all the time. So it seems to me that it’s not about policy, it’s about incompetence.

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RedRosesParmaViolets · 10/06/2026 21:27

Wededed · 10/06/2026 21:14

Wow that’s awful.

The hospital was 2-3 mins away.

Gosh. The family stood over him for 15 minutes whilst he begged for an ambulance.

They really should all be in jail.

The call handler did say he called for medical help. I don't understand why the police on the ground weren't aware of this and didn't expedite it because the killers brother played down the injuries so when they arrived they should have IMMEDIATLY hurried that ambo along.

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 10/06/2026 21:27

RedRosesParmaViolets · 10/06/2026 21:23

@Chiapotayto

I'm not sure what view point they were taking the scene from in your eyes ?
My eyes saw the victim full of energy trying to say his eye was hurt which looks fine ?

The so called perp..is weak on the floor desperately trying to trigger help I've been stabbed. .how many fucking times did that boy need to say it whilst life left him .where was that officers duty of care ??

Yeah but yeah but… whataboutery, again remember posters on mn are clear Henry is only one boy…. How bad is that really, and everyone thinks how wonderful and kind and righteous they are

Dollymylove · 10/06/2026 21:28

@chocoluv drunk and acting erratically? He was gasping his last breaths!!
Jesus fucking christ!!!

WatermelonSalad1 · 10/06/2026 21:29

@chocoluv "They handcuffed the person that was drunk and acting erratically, not the person who was calm and being comforted by other people.
I do not blame them as they needed to handcuff the one that was acting in a way that was not calm."

Henry wasn't drunk. His blood alcohol level was found to be low enough that he could've driven a car.

He wasn't acting erratically. And really puzzled by that statement because he couldn't even sit up. So in what way do you think he was acting erratically? I'll be really interested to hear that. He could barely move. He was lying on the ground. And he could barely speak. And in his last utterance, you can hear a gurgling noise which I imagine is him choking on his own blood.

@youalright have you been watching a lot of television? Where would they hide the body? Getting a body off your property in this day and age with everybody having ring doorbell cameras, how would they do that?

RedRosesParmaViolets · 10/06/2026 21:30

@chocoluv what is your definition of calm .
The killer was high on adrenaline and bouncing around like he was high speaking repetitively.

Henry was totally calm and he wasn't drunk .

OneThreadOnlybyN · 10/06/2026 21:30

sesquipedalian · 10/06/2026 18:39

OP, the whole situation was absolutely unacceptable - if there’s someone who is OK and standing up, and someone else on the ground, you deal with the person on the ground. The police hauled him up and then handcuffed him with his hands behind his back. This could have contributed to his death - this is a comment left on X that was posted by a commenter below an article in the Spectator -

Translated from Polish
🟥 Could Henry Nowak have survived?
Dr. Krzysztof Magier, a pediatrician and former honorary consul of the Republic of Poland in Cowes, analyzed footage from a police body camera showing Henry Nowak's death.
Dr. Magier heads the pediatric intensive care unit, with experience in combat medicine training and a specialized course in treating severe injuries (including gunshot and stab wounds).
He disagrees with the pathologist's and judge's opinion that Henry Nowak had no chance of survival and that handcuffing him essentially changed nothing. On the contrary—there is a high likelihood that the police intervention contributed to his death.
He analyzed the autopsy report, which points to damage to the subclavian vein as the main source of bleeding, and explains where the problem lies.
In a healthy person, venous bleeding occurs under low pressure and often self-limits thanks to the naturally forming clot, while simply approximating the wound edges and compressing the surrounding tissues closes the vein enough to slow or even stop the bleeding.
The body camera footage shows that when police arrived on the scene (likely 5-10 minutes after the injury), Henry was conscious enough to speak quite loudly. He was therefore not yet in a terminal state. After his arms were twisted behind his back and handcuffed, the vein was most likely stretched, the clot torn, and bleeding dramatically intensified. Within just about three minutes, he lost consciousness and died.
People with suspected internal injuries should never be moved or yanked abruptly—such actions can destroy the natural clot and lead to massive internal hemorrhage.
Instead of immediately calling a medical rescue team and handing the patient over to paramedics, the police handcuffed him. If paramedics had arrived first on the scene, Henry’s chances of survival would have been much higher. "50%"—writes Dr. Magier.
Paramedics could have quickly started an IV, administered fluids to increase circulating blood volume, and tranexamic acid to stabilize the clot, and if needed, performed needle decompression (inserting a large, long needle into the lung), because the issue wasn’t so much lack of lung function, but compression of the blood-filled lung on the heart and mediastinum, which blocks circulation.
Worse still, the incident took place just a few minutes' drive by car (2–3 minutes by ambulance with sirens) from Southampton University Hospital—a regional Major Trauma Centre equipped with a full team of specialists, procedures, and equipment. "I am convinced that if Henry had arrived there alive, the doctors would not have let him die"—writes Dr. Magier.
In summary: the aggressive police intervention, instead of saving a life, led to death through improper handling of a severely injured person, even though world-class care was just minutes away. "I fear the Judge and pathologist were too lenient toward the police"—writes Dr. Magier.

That's heart breaking

WatermelonSalad1 · 10/06/2026 21:31

RedRosesParmaViolets · 10/06/2026 21:30

@chocoluv what is your definition of calm .
The killer was high on adrenaline and bouncing around like he was high speaking repetitively.

Henry was totally calm and he wasn't drunk .

Yeah, I would also say Vikram wasn't calm

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 10/06/2026 21:31

@WatermelonSalad1 its ridiculous the desperation in the reaching for some to find a way to make his death Henry’s fault.

CanterThroughChaos · 10/06/2026 21:32

They handcuffed him while he was lying incapacitated and dying on the floor whereas his killer was not handcuffed and treated with dignity.

LizzieSiddal · 10/06/2026 21:32

WatermelonSalad1 · 10/06/2026 18:48

@LizzieSiddal "considering the Met police were found to be a racist force only a few years ago, I’d say there is two tier policing but it isn’t against white people."

what sort of timeframe are you looking at? You obviously cannot be talking about the institutional racism report in 1999.

No I’m not talking about the 1990s.

It’s the Louise Casey review from 2023. She found them to be “institutional racist” but the Met police refused to accept that label as it would “hinder” the force.

www.met.police.uk/police-forces/metropolitan-police/areas/about-us/about-the-met/bcr/baroness-casey-review/

youalright · 10/06/2026 21:33

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 10/06/2026 21:31

@WatermelonSalad1 its ridiculous the desperation in the reaching for some to find a way to make his death Henry’s fault.

Nobody is saying the death is Henry's fault its the murderer and the murderers family fault and people need to remember that instead of putting all the blame on the police

RedRosesParmaViolets · 10/06/2026 21:34

I've watched the video and I'm disgusted by it in every way.

The sheer sneery " I don't think you have mate " as Henry used his last breaths on this earth to keep saying I've been stabbed as he was dragged and twisted to get his weak limp arms and hands into bloody hand cuffs.!!
.

chocoluv · 10/06/2026 21:34

RonniePickering · 10/06/2026 21:25

“I do not blame them as they needed to handcuff the one that was acting in a way that was not calm.”

Haha Lord Jesus, dying and bleeding out and trying to tell the emergency services you can’t breathe and have been stabbed is not acting calm.

Have you heard yourself?

You can still get medical treatment for someone who has been stabbed and in handcuffs though.

Their argument is that they needed to keep the situation safe - which is understandable.

The police are taught to make the situation safe.

If they had kept him in handcuffs for over an hour then I would be the first to say they were completely wrong.

But it was a matter of minutes.

I am not sticking up for the police but they are faced with dangerous criminals every day and have to protect themselves and others.

It was a matter of seconds/minutes before they checked him for injuries.

They laid him on his side so he didn’t choke on blood whilst handcuffing him and then checking for injuries.
It happened very fast.

But I stand by my argument that the police should immediately check both parties for weapons and injuries before anything else.

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 10/06/2026 21:35

youalright · 10/06/2026 21:33

Nobody is saying the death is Henry's fault its the murderer and the murderers family fault and people need to remember that instead of putting all the blame on the police

Oh i don’t blame the police fully, they were working within the strict strict guidelines.
i blame the violent murdering twat and his lying pathetic pathetic family.

EasternStandard · 10/06/2026 21:35

chocoluv · 10/06/2026 21:34

You can still get medical treatment for someone who has been stabbed and in handcuffs though.

Their argument is that they needed to keep the situation safe - which is understandable.

The police are taught to make the situation safe.

If they had kept him in handcuffs for over an hour then I would be the first to say they were completely wrong.

But it was a matter of minutes.

I am not sticking up for the police but they are faced with dangerous criminals every day and have to protect themselves and others.

It was a matter of seconds/minutes before they checked him for injuries.

They laid him on his side so he didn’t choke on blood whilst handcuffing him and then checking for injuries.
It happened very fast.

But I stand by my argument that the police should immediately check both parties for weapons and injuries before anything else.

He wasn’t a threat.

RonniePickering · 10/06/2026 21:36

He was on the ground, literally bleeding out. Murderer’s father told the police Henry was bleeding from the mouth and was slumping over, unable to even sit up. Wasn’t in a position to threaten or even stand.
There was ZERO need to put handcuffs on him before they’d assessed the situation.

LessonsinChemistryandLove · 10/06/2026 21:36

Honestly, the way this young man’s death has been used to whip up hysteria and violence by people that are too stupid to make a logical thought, is so disgusting!

This is not evidence of ‘2 tier policing’ whatever the fuck that means. The suggestion that UK police are bending over backwards to accommodate non white people is so fucking offensive it’s unreal.

Henry died because a murderer murdered him! The police were dismissive and lacked curiosity however within minutes, they knew they were wrong and tried to save this man. The murderer was arrested and will rightfully remain in jail for a long time. This is in part, another police fuck up, not a hate crime against white people ffs.

Those of you who truly believe that if Henry was a black or brown man, he would have been treated more favourably seriously need to get out more, read a fucking book. Even in the context of the police being ‘trained to treat none white people better’, there continues to be systemic racism, sexism, homophobia in the police. It’s so offensive and wrong, the person up thread who said people are upset by “hurty words” can fuck off too. I wonder how many white people who think this would truly want to swap places with a black man and experience policing from that perspective.

Henrys family have asked that his tragic death is not turned into a political point scoring. Of course, there are clearly too many stupid people in this country who fail to make a logical point.

I despair at the level you of intelligence in the adult population of this country!

RedRosesParmaViolets · 10/06/2026 21:37

@chocoluv ..ah I see keep the situation safe from a man prostate and weak so weak he had to be dragged out of the corner to get those hand cuffs on. .

However when it actually turned into a murder scene those same police were quite so keen to keep the situation safe. Because they did not handcuff the physically able strapping man who has suddenly became a murder suspect.

What do you think about that ?

Also there are different views on whether he would have lived as mentioned on the thread.

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 10/06/2026 21:37

EasternStandard · 10/06/2026 21:35

He wasn’t a threat.

Well especially if They laid him on his side so he didn’t choke on blood whilst handcuffing him and then checking for injuries.
so they knew he was injured and bleeding to the risk of choking on his own blood and kindly handcuffed him on his side?

1dayatatime · 10/06/2026 21:37

Oh dear yet another "dump a provocative post and run thread" where after happily stirring posters up the OP is never heard from again.

Tiresome

RonniePickering · 10/06/2026 21:38

LessonsinChemistryandLove · 10/06/2026 21:36

Honestly, the way this young man’s death has been used to whip up hysteria and violence by people that are too stupid to make a logical thought, is so disgusting!

This is not evidence of ‘2 tier policing’ whatever the fuck that means. The suggestion that UK police are bending over backwards to accommodate non white people is so fucking offensive it’s unreal.

Henry died because a murderer murdered him! The police were dismissive and lacked curiosity however within minutes, they knew they were wrong and tried to save this man. The murderer was arrested and will rightfully remain in jail for a long time. This is in part, another police fuck up, not a hate crime against white people ffs.

Those of you who truly believe that if Henry was a black or brown man, he would have been treated more favourably seriously need to get out more, read a fucking book. Even in the context of the police being ‘trained to treat none white people better’, there continues to be systemic racism, sexism, homophobia in the police. It’s so offensive and wrong, the person up thread who said people are upset by “hurty words” can fuck off too. I wonder how many white people who think this would truly want to swap places with a black man and experience policing from that perspective.

Henrys family have asked that his tragic death is not turned into a political point scoring. Of course, there are clearly too many stupid people in this country who fail to make a logical point.

I despair at the level you of intelligence in the adult population of this country!

Read a fucking book yourself.

youalright · 10/06/2026 21:38

EasternStandard · 10/06/2026 21:35

He wasn’t a threat.

How would the police know he wasn't a threat in the seconds they had to access the situation you show up to a scene and you have multiple people stood there saying he's this violent person whos just launched a random racist attack on them. I don't know about anyone else but I would go with the majority until I had time to figure out actually what had happened unfortunately they didn't have time to do that as Henry died within a couple of minutes of them arriving

WatermelonSalad1 · 10/06/2026 21:38

@LizzieSiddal oh yes, but I thought that was more about police and how they treated internally

The findings of that review even more surprising given what we've seen from the training material, although I suppose that's a material from 2025

Clearly, that investigation didn't do much good either

it still doesn't explain why when both sides are so speak have told the police that Henry has blood in his mouth and can't sit up even with someone propping him up, why they didn't look him over properly or call an ambulance immediately

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 10/06/2026 21:39

1dayatatime · 10/06/2026 21:37

Oh dear yet another "dump a provocative post and run thread" where after happily stirring posters up the OP is never heard from again.

Tiresome

Nah I’ve seen loads of posts from op, am sure she’s usually a “DEFUND THE POLICE!!!” poster though

WatermelonSalad1 · 10/06/2026 21:39

1dayatatime · 10/06/2026 21:37

Oh dear yet another "dump a provocative post and run thread" where after happily stirring posters up the OP is never heard from again.

Tiresome

The OP is a regular here that's why I responded

And she has replied, and I'm sure she will again