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If you voted Reform, I would love to know why?

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AplineDaisies · 09/05/2026 00:58

I am not here to judge so would just like to hear from Reform voters for their reasoning.

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Bryonyberries · 09/05/2026 08:27

I didn’t vote for them as I don’t agree with a lot of the more extreme things in their policies and I’m not convinced they’ll help low earners but I think many people in this country are desperate for something to change. We can all see it falling apart and nobody seems to be doing anything except take more and more money from the average person.

Housing is very difficult to afford for youngsters starting out who may still be on low wages and it is limiting their ability to move to better paid work.

Single people doing low paid but necessary work ( the people being clapped as key workers during Covid) have wages too low to afford homes and have a proper quality of life even working full time.

Our essential services aren’t able to deliver. It is so hard for many people that people are looking for a way out.

This country is crying out for help, especially those who aren’t wealthy enough to be unaffected by cost of living and can afford private health care.

PoachedSmoke · 09/05/2026 08:31

Labour have slowly destroyed our lovely town. I voted Reform as a protest vote and many others in my constituency did the same.

The point, for many, was to send a message. Labour are not listening to the concerns of the average voter. My Labour councillor ignores my emails and demonstrably couldn't care less about our area.

Do I want a Reform council, or indeed Government? Not really. Would I vote for them again to keep Labour out? Yes. I would.

27TimesAway · 09/05/2026 08:33

Shudacudawuda · 09/05/2026 08:24

Seen a couple of posts from anti Reform types suggesting that people shouldn't be allowed to vote if they're stupid enough to vote Reform.
I'll assume comments like this are unserious.....but, do you have any awareness of how this come across? The arrogance of assuming people have voted without fully considering what they're doing!
The turnout in my area was 38%!! Reform won by a couple of hundred votes, Green coming a close second. Previously the council has been Labour controlled for nearly 50 years.
Do you really think that the 38% that bothered to vote hadn't thought it through? The people who didn't vote at all where the ones who didn't think it through. The minority that actually bothered are the only ones that took it seriously. To just write those people off as thick people who shouldn't be allowed a vote.....for goodness sake. You are the problem. Pay attention to what the electorate are saying.
Democracy is important and should be valued.

For the first time ever I thought about not turning out. I'm 53 and am committed to the democratic process and even i thought about not turning out.

Then did to register my protest vote.

What was interesting though is our average turnout vote in my area went up. It was circa 41% last time- it went up to over 50% this time. That tells me that people were angry enough. . And reform romped it in If Labour are too stupid to fully, and clear-headedly- see what this means then they are fucked.

Personally I think we ought to have compulsory voting. I know that's unpopular here due to 'freedom' or whatever but we don't get a choice about paying taxes. I think we need to vote.

Burritoplease · 09/05/2026 08:33

caringcarer · 09/05/2026 02:26

The UK has almost open borders policy. We cannot afford to pay for the people who already live here and yet almost everyday between 100-200 more illegal immigrants come. To process each on cost £12k. They all need accomodation on average costing taxpayer £41k each per year. They need feeding, healthcare, the children need education and elders need care. These people have paid nothing into the UK economy they just want to take. Meanwhile people who have paid into UK econyall their working lives wait over a year for a much needed operation. Our schools are in desperate need of equipment and old buildings upgrading and modernised. We don't have enough houses for people already living here. We need to accommodate those people who have paid into the UK through taxes ffirst. We need to put a freeze on all immigration for a year whilst we sort the country out. Our country can no longer defend itself. Far more budget should go to defence also boosting our economy as our armed forces buy new British made equipment. We don't have the funding for this whilst 25 percent of the country is disabled according to the Disability Alliance using DWP figures for 2024. Disability benefits should be scaled back and those with mild anxiety, depression or ADHD should not get benefits for disability. UC claimants got an above inflationn rise this year in benefits. I think too many people only work 2 or 3 days a week because they think I'll just stay home and claim UC top up rather than working full time. I think if people choose to work part time instead of full time they should not be given UC top ups. The tax payer should not be funding a lifestyle choice. As a nation we need to get more young people in the workplace. UC as an out of work benefit should have an expiry date of 6-12 months. If people don't even apply for jobs they should lose their benefits. We need to build more houses for social housing boosting our economy and the money saved from UC could be used to restock social housing for hardworking families who may be on minimum wage but often working 60 hours a week. At the moment tax is taken away from these hard working people to fund those choosing to only work 2-3 days a week. I think ex service employees who leave the forces should be given more support to find a job and social housing if they need it. I'm hoping we come out of ECHR and instead create a UK bill of rights that gives same protections but does not recognise rights of immigrants to stay. Especially those already convicted of crimes in their own countries. Honestly they pretend to be gay and persecuted in their own country just so they can stay, yet often have wives and children. Once in the UK having asylum there should be no being allowed to bring across wives, children, parents or siblings. Overseas students should not be able to get money from SLC because so many go back home and never repay this money. If they want to study in UK there own countries should lend them money and get it back after graduation. There are too many EDI people employed at huge expense in public services like the NHS. There is already diversity there.NHS money should go to employing more nurses and doctors, more equipment, to get through waiting lists more quickly. Peywho do not attend appointments should be fined £100 for each missed appointment. If they don't pay the fine on installments if necessary they should go to the bottom of the appointment queue. A missed GP appointment should carry a £50 fine for time wasted. These fines money could fund more NHS dental appointments so every child can have a NHS dentist. Tax bands should start at £15k to encourage more people back into workplace. Stupid tax on farmers should be reversed, as should additional tax on LL's as this tax increase is just passed in to tenants anyway. Nigel won't shy away from making tough decisions.

Nigel get off mumsnet.

Burritoplease · 09/05/2026 08:35

Bryonyberries · 09/05/2026 08:27

I didn’t vote for them as I don’t agree with a lot of the more extreme things in their policies and I’m not convinced they’ll help low earners but I think many people in this country are desperate for something to change. We can all see it falling apart and nobody seems to be doing anything except take more and more money from the average person.

Housing is very difficult to afford for youngsters starting out who may still be on low wages and it is limiting their ability to move to better paid work.

Single people doing low paid but necessary work ( the people being clapped as key workers during Covid) have wages too low to afford homes and have a proper quality of life even working full time.

Our essential services aren’t able to deliver. It is so hard for many people that people are looking for a way out.

This country is crying out for help, especially those who aren’t wealthy enough to be unaffected by cost of living and can afford private health care.

If Reform ended up in power we’d have no NHS before long and as you say, they wouldn’t be able to afford private healthcare. I work for the NHS and it keeps me awake at night sometimes as I love my job and worry it would disappear. Honestly reform will not help working class people. It’s a big fat con. I wish people realised that.

EasternStandard · 09/05/2026 08:35

Burritoplease · 09/05/2026 08:33

Nigel get off mumsnet.

This is so typical. And why people don’t answer the why vote this way threads.

TeenagersAngst · 09/05/2026 08:35

RedTagAlan · 09/05/2026 06:40

I think the small boats really started when the ferry security was tightened up. Co2 sensors checking nobody was in trucks etc. I think the timing was maybe coincidence.

This is true and has been spoken about before. The DA is a red herring. The boats started because lorry and tunnel security was ramped up. The boats were not predictable at that point.

ilovesleep6 · 09/05/2026 08:36

Bryonyberries · 09/05/2026 08:27

I didn’t vote for them as I don’t agree with a lot of the more extreme things in their policies and I’m not convinced they’ll help low earners but I think many people in this country are desperate for something to change. We can all see it falling apart and nobody seems to be doing anything except take more and more money from the average person.

Housing is very difficult to afford for youngsters starting out who may still be on low wages and it is limiting their ability to move to better paid work.

Single people doing low paid but necessary work ( the people being clapped as key workers during Covid) have wages too low to afford homes and have a proper quality of life even working full time.

Our essential services aren’t able to deliver. It is so hard for many people that people are looking for a way out.

This country is crying out for help, especially those who aren’t wealthy enough to be unaffected by cost of living and can afford private health care.

The biggest reason for these things is immigration.

It’s about numbers, supply and demand. There are more people, so houses cost more.

There are more people, so wages will be low as more people want and need a job.

There are more people, so services are stretched. You will be waiting longer for a medical appointment.

There are more people, so more cars on the roads, which means more potholes, more maintenance needed. Etc etc etc.

I am not against all immigration but the massive numbers over the last few decades has made this happen.

Rich people won’t be affected of course, they benefit from the massive housing increases and business owners benefit by being able to keep wages low. They can pay for private healthcare and be sheltered from the realities of the normal man on the street.

Sleepybear1234 · 09/05/2026 08:37

Animatic · 09/05/2026 08:11

The one point you made well here is that public education is truly crumbing, just by the look at the style grammar and reasoning.

How kind 😇

MushMonster · 09/05/2026 08:38

ILikeDinosaurs · 09/05/2026 04:11

Thought I'd share this

Op, why do you also want to get rid of the stronger rights for renters that have been unveiled this month, preventing landlords from unfairly huge rate hikes? Landlords, who you know are Nigel's friends?

I do read the reasons the second poster gives for voting Reform, who is getting a lot of heat here, I think unfairly. They do have lots of points that we need to address, as a nation, in their post. But then, what this quoted post states is what I hear from and above Farage himself.
There is a disconnection between what I hear Reform voters want (whenever it goes further than immigration) and what Farage says. And many times, they are just plainly opposed visions.
Reform is obscure about its purpose, memorandum, vision for UK or council, "colourful" in quite a lot of statements by some of their members, obscure about the source of their funding, and Farage's funding and for whatever reason they have this hate of human rights declaration, equality acts and so on?
One thing is to find something wrong with how a particular bit of human rights is applied in practice or stated in the declaration. And another is to want to be done with it.... very much like Trump DOGE and the other many attacks Trump has done on the US democratic institutions.
Why would we want the risk of something similar in UK is what baffles me?
The difference between the picture voters paint and the picture Farage and the media reporting about him paint. Apnd the picture I see with my very own eyes. They have very little to do with each other.

catspyjamas1 · 09/05/2026 08:38

LoveHearts69 · 09/05/2026 08:22

I’m honestly baffled that anyone could think Reform would be of any benefit to us. Farage is all for the 1% rich. He gets more donations than any other party and is bought out by oil and gas companies etc. He is so far removed from being for the working class and would sell off and privatise absolutely everything!

I also don’t think anyone voting understands the devastating impact a USA based healthcare system would have on us. Insurance does NOT pay out for everything. Even after insurance payments, people are still having to pay out £10,000 for giving birth for example. I’m a member of a homebirth group and there’s so many women from the US on there opting for a free birth (no midwife present) because they physically can’t afford the costs. People are losing their homes and going into horrendous debt.

If anyone really thinks that immigration is impacting them more on a daily basis than a Farage government would then I don’t know what more to say tbh. I’m just devastated so many people have lost their minds.

Here is a fact check on Reform, Farage and the NHS: https://fullfact.org/health/reform-nigel-farage-pay-for-nhs-labour/

Anecdote: I've had several French people reporting to me over the years in London. ALL travel back to France for medical treatment beyond basic GP services because they believe the quality of healthcare they receive is better. Including maternity care and birth.

Farage is completely correct that the current financial and delivery model of the NHS is broken and needs to be reviewed properly. I don't believe he has said at any point he wants to go down the US route but happy to be proven wrong.

Is Labour right to claim Reform UK would ‘scrap the NHS’? – Full Fact

In the run-up to the local elections, Labour is warning Reform UK would make people pay to use the health service—a claim the party’s strongly denied. Full Fact looks at the evidence.

https://fullfact.org/health/reform-nigel-farage-pay-for-nhs-labour/

PropertyD · 09/05/2026 08:39

MyTrivia · 09/05/2026 06:10

There is no excuse for voting for Reform. None. They will not benefit anyone and populism is a world wide, nonsensical trend which has way more to do with the rise of social media than anything else. Blaming people who can see through it is a nonsense. We are all responsible for our own choices.

You would think the turkeys that voted for Christmas (Brexit) would have learned from their mistakes but no…

This sort of response is why parties like Reform do well. Who are you to sit on high dismissing other people’s views and concerns.

ilovesleep6 · 09/05/2026 08:41

catspyjamas1 · 09/05/2026 08:38

Here is a fact check on Reform, Farage and the NHS: https://fullfact.org/health/reform-nigel-farage-pay-for-nhs-labour/

Anecdote: I've had several French people reporting to me over the years in London. ALL travel back to France for medical treatment beyond basic GP services because they believe the quality of healthcare they receive is better. Including maternity care and birth.

Farage is completely correct that the current financial and delivery model of the NHS is broken and needs to be reviewed properly. I don't believe he has said at any point he wants to go down the US route but happy to be proven wrong.

People who say Reform would get rid of the NHS are scaremongering. Something like that would take longer than a 5 year term, and if it was suggested there’s no way they’d be voted back in to carry it out.

Whysnothingsimple · 09/05/2026 08:41

NorthXNorthWest · 09/05/2026 02:37

That's like a visual assault! Is the plan to make sure that nobody reads it? Where are the paragraphs?

Where is your actual argument? The post was perfectly clear. It’s almost like all of those points were valid snd you have no way to argues against them

PropertyD · 09/05/2026 08:42

catspyjamas1 · 09/05/2026 08:38

Here is a fact check on Reform, Farage and the NHS: https://fullfact.org/health/reform-nigel-farage-pay-for-nhs-labour/

Anecdote: I've had several French people reporting to me over the years in London. ALL travel back to France for medical treatment beyond basic GP services because they believe the quality of healthcare they receive is better. Including maternity care and birth.

Farage is completely correct that the current financial and delivery model of the NHS is broken and needs to be reviewed properly. I don't believe he has said at any point he wants to go down the US route but happy to be proven wrong.

I don’t believe NF has said he wants a US system. Why do people keep spouting this? What we do need to do is have a sensible cross party review of the broken NHS. It’s become a monster. Look at some of the EU countries for another option.

Stop scare mongering

Sherbs12 · 09/05/2026 08:43

Pugglywuggly · 09/05/2026 05:56

They have. This is a national fight. It's attitudes like this that will mean we end up stuck with them in a general election. Council elections are predictive, and if the other parties remain complacent and arrogant enough to dismiss the threat that reform pose then they will absolutely get into power.
Many people will have voted reform because they are sick to the back teeth of the status quo, not because they radically believe all that is said. Unfortunately that is also how parties like the Nazis got into power.

Yes to this.
I think something that also often gets overlooked is the significant amount of people who don’t vote - either through apathy, confusion, or whatever; Reform are winning councils on less than 40% turnout. With low voter turnout, the left and centre vote split, a Conservative Party in tatters, Reform have a clear route in on the right, and they are well-funded and well-organised in terms of their media spin and messaging (obviously not on policy). I hate that it’s happening, but I can see how we got here and I’m worried about where this is heading.

As a further point, I think it’s helpful to know why people voted Reform, but we really need to be looking harder at who has been and is funding both Reform and Farage - right back to when he was an MEP, UKIP, Brexit Party, etc.

Bloozie · 09/05/2026 08:43

amylou8 · 09/05/2026 02:59

You ask the question like it's something strange and unusual. More people voted for reform on Thursday than voted for any other party. They voted for reform because they agree with what they are saying. Well done for signalling your virtue by not judging us on a mumsnet post.

74% of those that turned out voted for parties other than Reform.

Booboobagins · 09/05/2026 08:44

caringcarer · 09/05/2026 02:26

The UK has almost open borders policy. We cannot afford to pay for the people who already live here and yet almost everyday between 100-200 more illegal immigrants come. To process each on cost £12k. They all need accomodation on average costing taxpayer £41k each per year. They need feeding, healthcare, the children need education and elders need care. These people have paid nothing into the UK economy they just want to take. Meanwhile people who have paid into UK econyall their working lives wait over a year for a much needed operation. Our schools are in desperate need of equipment and old buildings upgrading and modernised. We don't have enough houses for people already living here. We need to accommodate those people who have paid into the UK through taxes ffirst. We need to put a freeze on all immigration for a year whilst we sort the country out. Our country can no longer defend itself. Far more budget should go to defence also boosting our economy as our armed forces buy new British made equipment. We don't have the funding for this whilst 25 percent of the country is disabled according to the Disability Alliance using DWP figures for 2024. Disability benefits should be scaled back and those with mild anxiety, depression or ADHD should not get benefits for disability. UC claimants got an above inflationn rise this year in benefits. I think too many people only work 2 or 3 days a week because they think I'll just stay home and claim UC top up rather than working full time. I think if people choose to work part time instead of full time they should not be given UC top ups. The tax payer should not be funding a lifestyle choice. As a nation we need to get more young people in the workplace. UC as an out of work benefit should have an expiry date of 6-12 months. If people don't even apply for jobs they should lose their benefits. We need to build more houses for social housing boosting our economy and the money saved from UC could be used to restock social housing for hardworking families who may be on minimum wage but often working 60 hours a week. At the moment tax is taken away from these hard working people to fund those choosing to only work 2-3 days a week. I think ex service employees who leave the forces should be given more support to find a job and social housing if they need it. I'm hoping we come out of ECHR and instead create a UK bill of rights that gives same protections but does not recognise rights of immigrants to stay. Especially those already convicted of crimes in their own countries. Honestly they pretend to be gay and persecuted in their own country just so they can stay, yet often have wives and children. Once in the UK having asylum there should be no being allowed to bring across wives, children, parents or siblings. Overseas students should not be able to get money from SLC because so many go back home and never repay this money. If they want to study in UK there own countries should lend them money and get it back after graduation. There are too many EDI people employed at huge expense in public services like the NHS. There is already diversity there.NHS money should go to employing more nurses and doctors, more equipment, to get through waiting lists more quickly. Peywho do not attend appointments should be fined £100 for each missed appointment. If they don't pay the fine on installments if necessary they should go to the bottom of the appointment queue. A missed GP appointment should carry a £50 fine for time wasted. These fines money could fund more NHS dental appointments so every child can have a NHS dentist. Tax bands should start at £15k to encourage more people back into workplace. Stupid tax on farmers should be reversed, as should additional tax on LL's as this tax increase is just passed in to tenants anyway. Nigel won't shy away from making tough decisions.

Look at the research on immigration to get a true picture of the devastating impact a small population will have in the next decade. We sadly need immigration but we need them working not sponging. That's what needs to change.

Reform don't have a clue. They incite racism. Congrats, you think you know what the issue is but base your view on what's in the press versus real research....

We are doomed.

catspyjamas1 · 09/05/2026 08:45

cloudtreecarpet · 09/05/2026 08:21

I think Reform gaining more councils could actually be a good thing to happen this long before another General Election because they will demonstrate their incompetency and failure to deliver and then people might start to realise they really AREN'T a viable option to run the country.

Or, it could swing the other way and be a roaring success. Almost all of our Reform candidates locally were ex Conservative and Labour, many with experience of doing things locally including in the Labour run Council. As is the case up and down the country.

Imdunfer · 09/05/2026 08:45

WheretheFishesareFrightening · 09/05/2026 04:35

How exactly? The only link I can see is people have stupidly and erroneously voted for national issues in a local election. I truly despair for the general public.

And I’m a right wing voter.

You obviously don't understand that the strong vote will change the national policies presented by all the main parties at the next election. Or that many people will have voted Reform to make that happen and not with any intention of electing them into Westminster in 2028/9

And you have dared to call Reform voters stupid 🙄

PropertyD · 09/05/2026 08:46

Booboobagins · 09/05/2026 08:44

Look at the research on immigration to get a true picture of the devastating impact a small population will have in the next decade. We sadly need immigration but we need them working not sponging. That's what needs to change.

Reform don't have a clue. They incite racism. Congrats, you think you know what the issue is but base your view on what's in the press versus real research....

We are doomed.

I do a lot of work in Birmingham - there is a disturbing rise from people who want to introduce their own cultural differences into the UK. There are 4 MP’s who have no interest in the UK bar getting Gaza onto the front page.

TeenagersAngst · 09/05/2026 08:47

Callmeback · 09/05/2026 06:48

Most British universities would close their doors without being propped up by international student fees because they can't charge more for UK students because of the fee cap. There's been a crazy number of university redundancies just to stay afloat. They'd be gone without those international students. Those same students can't get a loan from SLC.

That’s because the university model in this country is broken. We need to let some fail.

EasternStandard · 09/05/2026 08:49

Imdunfer · 09/05/2026 08:45

You obviously don't understand that the strong vote will change the national policies presented by all the main parties at the next election. Or that many people will have voted Reform to make that happen and not with any intention of electing them into Westminster in 2028/9

And you have dared to call Reform voters stupid 🙄

Yep it’s the most effective way to put pressure on at a national level, people seem a bit unaware.

MissyMooPoo2 · 09/05/2026 08:50

Dogstar78 · 09/05/2026 08:15

Exactly what I was thinking. This is the scary thing about letting people vote when they don't really understand what they are voting for. This influences the lives of others significantly. We have the right to vote, but also a responsibility to have a basic understanding of the voting system and how your vote will influence your local area, in a LOCAL election.

And what would you suggest we do instead? Should we allow only those with a certain level of education or economic activity to vote?!

Thought not.

PropertyD · 09/05/2026 08:50

TeenagersAngst · 09/05/2026 08:47

That’s because the university model in this country is broken. We need to let some fail.

Universities love overseas students to get the additional fees. Look up how much Vice Chancellors pay themselves at say Exeter University. Then there are universities which are not fit for purpose. Colleges that are above a kebab shop.

We need a review of this. We won’t do it because all those VC’s on their Defined Benefits pensions along with their staff will be in uproar