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Has anyone ever gotten where your accent is from wrong?

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PunnyBeaker · 29/04/2026 16:13

Been told I am from Birmingham , really from Coventry

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fitflopqueen · Yesterday 14:33

Accent is never mistaken here in UK, but in US I sound Australian even though i am from Derbyshire.

Piglet89 · Yesterday 15:30

Calliopespa · Yesterday 14:30

Well a lot of people do ask these things in a very intrusive sort of way - kind of "I want to know, so tell me."

I get it a lot with my dc's school uniform, which is quite distinctive. You see someone looking, then they kind of march up and demand to know: "What school is that?"

Never any social oiling, like "Isn't that a sweet uniform, do you mind me asking what school it is?" Just fire the question, then give no real response when you tell them. They just sort of blink and walk off. I do find that rude - and, yes, kind of offensive really.

Where I am much more tolerant is with the expression of reasoned opinions but then many people get very offended by that.

Well, just to blink and walk off is a bit rude: but asking where someone’s accent is from is really just harmless curiosity (and, in my case, professional interest). I have never met anyone whom the question actually offends. Most are delighted to talk about it and find accents and dialects almost as fascinating as I do.

Marching up and asking which school your kid’s uniform is from is far weirder and more intrusive.

Calliopespa · Yesterday 15:44

Piglet89 · Yesterday 15:30

Well, just to blink and walk off is a bit rude: but asking where someone’s accent is from is really just harmless curiosity (and, in my case, professional interest). I have never met anyone whom the question actually offends. Most are delighted to talk about it and find accents and dialects almost as fascinating as I do.

Marching up and asking which school your kid’s uniform is from is far weirder and more intrusive.

I am sure if you are delighted to talk about it, you are probably not being rude in your manner.

But I don't always like having questions shot at me by strangers, and sort of a propos of nothing, just because they are curious and then want to leave it there. But there are ways and ways of doing it, I agree.

Livpool · Yesterday 16:29

I am a Scouser and have been asked a few times I am from Leeds. Maybe I have a generic ‘northern accent’

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · Yesterday 17:02

Been told I have an Aussie accent. I’m SE London.

Pastit12 · Yesterday 17:08

Also in the US seem to think I am Australian went to buy some shoes in shop once and assistant kept asking me about Australia , I told her I am Londoner but she wouldn’t have it insisting I was Australian,
Another time waiting to get on tourist boat at Niagra Falls and guy in queue asking me about Australia and where I was from the amusing thing was couple in front of us were Australian they just kept looking at me and laughing rolling their eyes
Mind you a lot of Americans when you meet seem to be under the impression we all know members of the royal family personally 😄

Oldandcobwebby · Yesterday 17:16

Many years ago, I got talking to a lady during a theatre interval, who instantly placed my accent to a South Wales village only 2 miles from where I was born! Chatting further, I discovered that she had briefly dated my grandfather!

JohnTheRevelator · Yesterday 17:18

Born in greater London,lived here all my life. I was asked a few months ago if I was Polish. I said 'No,why do you ask?'. They said I sounded like I had a Polish accent. 🙄

UnctuousUnicorns · Yesterday 17:18

Livpool · Yesterday 16:29

I am a Scouser and have been asked a few times I am from Leeds. Maybe I have a generic ‘northern accent’

I can't really imagine how anyone can mistake a Liverpool or Merseyside accent for anything else, because to me, it's so distinctive, but that's probably because I'm native to there (Merseyside but not Liverpool), so I'm used to it.

RaraRachael · Yesterday 17:22

I read a review of a hotel I'd stayed at in Inverness that complained about the lift announcer being Polish.

The lift announcements were in a very local Inverness accent 😅

Partridgewell · Yesterday 17:27

Birmingham and Coventry are pretty close! I would know the difference but I lived in Coventry for years. To others, it just sounds West Midlands-y.

I'm from Oxford but have lived all over the country. I've been teaching in South Derbyshire for years and most of the kids think I'm from London or Bristol. Again, I don't think the accents are alike at all but to the kids I'm just some form of Southern.

UnctuousUnicorns · Yesterday 17:50

RaraRachael · Yesterday 17:22

I read a review of a hotel I'd stayed at in Inverness that complained about the lift announcer being Polish.

The lift announcements were in a very local Inverness accent 😅

To be fair, when I was at Glasgow uni in the 90s, we had an Orcadian lecturer. Many of the home students, and I, were puzzling over which country he was from.
"Do you think he's Dutch? Austrian? Norwegian? etc." Until we found out that he was as Scottish as they were. 😅

SerendipityJane · Yesterday 17:55

Calliopespa · Yesterday 10:25

I actually do think it's quite rude to ask people where their accent is from.

It's kind of like saying "you sound different" and challenging them on it. And there is nothing wrong with different but unless I accompany a comment on difference with a compliment - to be clear - I don't comment.

So I might say: "what gorgeous auburn hair?" but never just "who did you get your hair from?"

It's over-stepping. People should be able to go about their business without being grilled. If I really was interested, I'd provide both compliment and context as to why I was asking.

I can;t remember being asked but I'd like to think if I am asked soon I might say something like "I don't answer personal questions from strangers." ETA Or "What region are your manners from?"

Edited

With the caveat that tone and context are obviously critical here, I have always found people absolutely delight in any opportunity to tell you about themselves.

(Whether they know it or not 😀)

RaraRachael · Yesterday 18:08

@UnctuousUnicorns it made me laugh as it used to be said that Inverness was one of the purest accents.

Bumblebeeforever · Yesterday 19:07

I’m from the North East and live in the Midlands, I had to take lessons to modify my vowels because when I said my name the locals would hear a completely different word, and it drove me up the wall every time I went to collect something from a shop or make an appointment. I’ve been asked many times if I’m Irish.

Calliopespa · Yesterday 19:45

SerendipityJane · Yesterday 17:55

With the caveat that tone and context are obviously critical here, I have always found people absolutely delight in any opportunity to tell you about themselves.

(Whether they know it or not 😀)

I must be a miserable old curmudgeon! I hate having very direct questions flung at me by people I don't know well.

You are right that tone makes a difference though.

Lozza70 · Yesterday 19:54

Have had people insist I’m from the southern states of the USA. I’m from Northern Ireland. Never set foot in the US.

The other one is Dutch but think that is more due to the way I look??

UnctuousUnicorns · Yesterday 19:54

RaraRachael · Yesterday 18:08

@UnctuousUnicorns it made me laugh as it used to be said that Inverness was one of the purest accents.

Damn these Scottish accents that don't sound properly Scottish! It's confusing! 😤 😅

Sheknowsaboutme · Yesterday 20:25

When i speak welsh, people have no idea where im from.

EBearhug · Yesterday 20:52

Sheknowsaboutme · Yesterday 20:25

When i speak welsh, people have no idea where im from.

Do you mean Welsh speakers can't place your accent, or other people don't recognise the language?

Right2BareArms · Yesterday 21:01

Yes. 'I can tell you're from [town with a distinct accent]' . I'm not from anywhere near there.
'You don't sound like you're from [city].' I've only been there 3 times and it's about 130 miles away.

Right2BareArms · Yesterday 21:04

Them: 'These Germans, don't they realise we can understand what they're saying'
Me silently to myself: 'Ffyc off Sais.'

PancakePatty · Yesterday 21:11

I’m from a town close to the Scottish border (English side). When I go over the border to Scotland, it’s assumed I’m a geordie.
When I go to Newcastle, they all think I’m Scottish.

Right2BareArms · Yesterday 21:14

PancakePatty · Yesterday 21:11

I’m from a town close to the Scottish border (English side). When I go over the border to Scotland, it’s assumed I’m a geordie.
When I go to Newcastle, they all think I’m Scottish.

Wooler?

ProfessorBinturong · Today 01:22

Lozza70 · Yesterday 19:54

Have had people insist I’m from the southern states of the USA. I’m from Northern Ireland. Never set foot in the US.

The other one is Dutch but think that is more due to the way I look??

Bizarre. I would have thought Southern US and NI have very little common ground (although I've now made a mental note that if I ever meet Dolly Parton I need to ask her to say 'power shower' - that should settle the question).