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Boomers please take note

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Crushingdandelions · 19/04/2026 10:04

First sign you're of a certain age...you always pay in cash and count out every last frickin' bit of change no matter how big the queue is behind you.

Just don't? Use a card please. I don't want to count out your 5p pieces.

Also - why do you need a receipt when you have bought 2 items worth £1.49?

OP posts:
DreamyJade · 19/04/2026 10:20

I always get a receipt when I’m buying things for my elderly neighbour or she will heavily hint that I’m defrauding her. I think she’s still mentally working with pre-EEC prices.

Crushingdandelions · 19/04/2026 10:21

@MrThorpeHazell you are so right - I literally could not have coped 😄

OP posts:
LaMarschallin · 19/04/2026 10:21

I sneakily try to pass for X, it has connotations of Billy Idol

I'm early GenX and I do take great comfort in the BI connotations.

Lomonald · 19/04/2026 10:22

LaMarschallin · 19/04/2026 10:18

I wondered that.
Get a bit muddled between card and cash, OP?
Must take a while to sort out.

Must be confusing between the fiver and the bank card! I wonder if they faff about with their change holding the queue up.

Holidayworry1 · 19/04/2026 10:22

Indont mind people counting change but i do object to very anal people having to precisely pack their shopping in a very very set way
I find it incredibly selfish

CaptainMyCaptain · 19/04/2026 10:22

Crushingdandelions · 19/04/2026 10:18

@CaptainMyCaptain You are welcome in my shop - I never said ANYWHERE that all boomers pay with cash. Lots of older people are definitely moving with the times ie paying by watch or phone.... or just a usual fiver or tenner - whatever.

What I am objecting to is the fastidious counting out of every last little penny.

Your thread title suggests you were aiming your insults at a whole generation. Perhaps those people dont have much money and need to count every penny, nothing to do with age. Some smaller places I go prefer cash and I have to apologise fir not carrying any. We were in a cafe during the week that was Cash Only.

You're just not a very pleasant person are you? If I knew where you worked i could avoid it and take my contactless payments elsewhere.

Charlize43 · 19/04/2026 10:23

So rude on a sunny Sunday morning!

I think I am going to make a jug of Pimms.

Youspurnme · 19/04/2026 10:24

Fuck off OP. If you have a problem with people paying in legal tender then I suggest you educate yourself on the fundamentals of economic transactions.
FYI my parents are ‘boomers’, they were the first generation to use ATM cards, debit cards, and yeah they invented the fucking internet.

MagnoliaTreeBlossom · 19/04/2026 10:24

Crushingdandelions · 19/04/2026 10:04

First sign you're of a certain age...you always pay in cash and count out every last frickin' bit of change no matter how big the queue is behind you.

Just don't? Use a card please. I don't want to count out your 5p pieces.

Also - why do you need a receipt when you have bought 2 items worth £1.49?

I pay cash often and happily count out the exact change. Age isn't a factor as I have done this from childhood. Money is legal tender and a perfectly acceptable way to pay.

The length of the queue is the shop's responsibility to manage, not the shopper. Have more cashiers available and all tills open.

People take receipts as proof of purchase not just for high cost items but if they are going to several shops, they can show they bought the items elsewhere.

No need for the ageist comments. First sign of a certain age indeed!

Vodka1 · 19/04/2026 10:24

I'm 34 and I like to pay with cash. And I'm not going to be sorry about it because it's literally your job to take it?

I don't understand how it affects you at all. You're not going home early because grandad Jim paid by card today.

italianlondongirl · 19/04/2026 10:25

WearyAuldWumman · 19/04/2026 10:12

"I am a boomer myself".

Hmmm. Are you really though....You're not a sneaky little Generation Jones wannabe...?

If you were truly a Boomer, you'd glory in the beauty of someone giving you a £5 note and 63 pence to pay for a £2.63 bill.

Haha yes! I’m not a boomer, but the number of “young folk” who look so perplexed when my mother does this!

Trinity65 · 19/04/2026 10:25

@MagnoliaTreeBlossom Well said 👏👏

LuckyBitches · 19/04/2026 10:26

Ageist crap

corblimeygvnr · 19/04/2026 10:26

Crushingdandelions · 19/04/2026 10:18

@CaptainMyCaptain You are welcome in my shop - I never said ANYWHERE that all boomers pay with cash. Lots of older people are definitely moving with the times ie paying by watch or phone.... or just a usual fiver or tenner - whatever.

What I am objecting to is the fastidious counting out of every last little penny.

What is it they say read the room? Do you object to a single mum on benefits counting out her cash too?

SisterThorn · 19/04/2026 10:26

Crushingdandelions · 19/04/2026 10:08

Because I'm standing behind a till all day taking their money? I would have thought that was sort of obvious. TBF I am a boomer myself.

No need for swearing dear@Gall10

Well "boomers" are old enough to fucking swear if they want to

Lomonald · 19/04/2026 10:27

Crushingdandelions · 19/04/2026 10:18

@CaptainMyCaptain You are welcome in my shop - I never said ANYWHERE that all boomers pay with cash. Lots of older people are definitely moving with the times ie paying by watch or phone.... or just a usual fiver or tenner - whatever.

What I am objecting to is the fastidious counting out of every last little penny.

But it is cash sitting in their purse/pocket why shouldn't they spend it? Is it too much for you to sort into your till tray. Are you one of those scary Aldi cashiers that throw your shopping at you so have no patience to wait for £2.40 ?

italianlondongirl · 19/04/2026 10:27

Even in the 80s lots of people paid with a mixture of cash and card, so we had to do two different transactions… take the cash first and then do card ( with blue ink paper ) for the balance

Ithinkofawittyusernamethenforgetit · 19/04/2026 10:27

Chewbecca · 19/04/2026 10:08

Also - why do you need a receipt when you have bought 2 items worth £1.49?

Because they're on a state pension and need to keep track of every penny they spend? Checking it off each month. It's quite sensible to keep a log of your spending actually.

Also I feel uneasy walking out of a shop when I’ve paid on Applepay without a receipt, let alone cash - no proof of purchase at all apart from the cashier’s word for it. Mind you, sounds like OP would remember me forever if I paid cash in her store.

Mischance · 19/04/2026 10:28

Tell me where you are and I will come with a bag of pennies!

Theresmagicwheretheflowersgrow · 19/04/2026 10:28

Crushingdandelions · 19/04/2026 10:18

@CaptainMyCaptain You are welcome in my shop - I never said ANYWHERE that all boomers pay with cash. Lots of older people are definitely moving with the times ie paying by watch or phone.... or just a usual fiver or tenner - whatever.

What I am objecting to is the fastidious counting out of every last little penny.

Couldn't you just take a minute to try to work out and understand why some people, older or not, have to count out every penny?

Cyclebabble · 19/04/2026 10:28

You lost me at boomer...

SunnyAfternoonToday · 19/04/2026 10:28

Crushingdandelions · 19/04/2026 10:04

First sign you're of a certain age...you always pay in cash and count out every last frickin' bit of change no matter how big the queue is behind you.

Just don't? Use a card please. I don't want to count out your 5p pieces.

Also - why do you need a receipt when you have bought 2 items worth £1.49?

As a pensioner myself I never use cash, only card. However some pensioners have so little money to spend that the only way they can budget is by using cash, which needs counting out when they spend it. As for wanting a receipt, what is wrong with you? How long does it take for you to give out a small piece of paper! One day you too will be old.

ChubbyPuffling · 19/04/2026 10:29

I am a tail end boomer (61yo) and use cash a lot. I am one of those who will give 10.50 for a 5.50 total, so I get a fiver back, and not a pile of weighty coins.

I also ask for a receipt - because yours is not the only shop I will be going into and I seem to have the "mad cat lady/ditzy accidental shoplifter" look where I need to prove I bought my branded toothpaste in Savers, not (for 2 quid more) in Waitrose. Contactless is by default receiptless, and not every shop assistant knows the key combo to print off the receipt after the fact.

Dollymylove · 19/04/2026 10:30

Ooh your wear your bitterness and envy like a millstone round your neck. Its not our fault we were born between 1947 and 1964 but hey, heres something else to piss you off....we are mortgage free yay whoop whoop 😂😂🤣😍🤭😆

FairKoala · 19/04/2026 10:31

WearyAuldWumman · 19/04/2026 10:09

"First sign you're of a certain age."

Based on experience, I'd say that it's a toss up between the arthritis and the wrinkles.

The counting out the change doesn't come into consideration, because we've always done that - no cards when we were growing up...

I am a “Boomer” and haven’t used cash since the 1980s and I would get a receipt for £1.49 for 2 reasons

  1. if I leave and security decide I have shoplifted (has happened on more than one occasion) I can produce my receipt and be on my way. Have always had one of those faces security guards assume to be definitely a shop lifter.
  2. I run a business so that £1.49 might be an expense I can put against tax

Please use some imagination. I find it’s the ones who are middle aged who are more likely to use cash

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