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Would £200 be reasonable for a cooked arrival meal for six?

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zael · 16/04/2026 17:37

We recently stayed at a holiday cottage. We were arriving late and the owner said the housekeeper is a great cook, so could leave a prepared meal for us. Never done this before.

There were 6 adults. We got left 6 large home made cornish pasties, some vegetables, some potatoes, 6 beers, and a home made victoria sponge. It was yummy.

How much do you think the housekeeper charged us for this?

£200

How much would you expect to have paid?

OP posts:
OtterDoBetter · 17/04/2026 09:28

AnnieLummox · 17/04/2026 09:24

This feels like a low level version of those arguments when someone thinks “How would you feel if it was your daughter?” is a valuable contribution to debates around prison sentences.

It isn’t relevant what the housekeeper is being paid, or whether the OP would work for that rate. That is between the homeowner and the housekeeper. The homeowner has chosen to offer a service that requires her employee’s expertise - it is up to her to price up that service and decide if she can offer it at a price that covers her costs, makes her a profit and is attractive to her customer. It’s then up to OP as the customer to decide whether she thinks that price is worth it, or whether she’ll take an alternative instead (if there is one).

OK, if you were an employer how would you set your pay scale?

susiedaisy1912 · 17/04/2026 10:26

Was the holiday in Cornwall hence the reason for pasties? Otherwise it’s an odd choice of meal. I would hate to have a large pasty as a meal as I can’t tolerate all that fat in the pastry then potatoes on top and cake. The indigestion 🤦‍♀️

hellospring26 · 17/04/2026 10:56

Well having just pad £14 ppn for a pasty at the Needles it doesn’t seem far out but pasty, potatoes and vegetables? That’s not a meal.

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AnnieLummox · 17/04/2026 11:22

OtterDoBetter · 17/04/2026 09:28

OK, if you were an employer how would you set your pay scale?

Based on the market rate and the skill level of the person I wanted to hire.

Whether that makes the offer of home-cooked meals at my holiday cottage a viable, profitable service is another question. OP is not hiring the services of the housekeeper for however long it takes to make this meal - she is paying for a services/goods package.

LikeAFeverDream · 17/04/2026 12:00

We have a couple of properties we rent out for holidays and offer meals. I think the price sounds reasonable. We do provide a price list though so guests are aware of the prices upfront.

notnowmaud · 17/04/2026 12:47

Depends where you are £33 per head is the top up of expensive, but I don’t think it’s crazy. Dh went out for our anniversary meal at the weekend one main course and one pudding and two soft drinks was £68.00, it was an average pub. Prices have really, really gone up. I suspect it varies on where you live too, unfortunately we live in an expensive area of the UK, (never used to be).

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 17/04/2026 12:55

You arrived late… what was the alternative? Was everybody hungry? Was there a pub next door still serving food, or a takeaway nearby? Did any of your party fancy cooking?

The cost isn’t in the cost of the food, it’s in the convenience of it all being ready for you on arrival.

Bjorkdidit · 17/04/2026 13:02

If arriving late wouldn't you just eat on the way?

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 17/04/2026 13:26

The price should definitely have been given beforehand, so you could decide whether or not it's worth it to you; but other than that, I think it's one of those things where it's very easy to minimise the costs involved for buying the food, preparing and cooking it, and of course, the housekeeper's time.

So many personalised, small-scale services cost a lot to deliver, but people fail to appreciate that and will not compare like with like. Their time/labour is also very easy for people to overlook: of course, if you're doing something for yourself/your family/your friends, you will give your time free; but would you just randomly give up several hours of your time and labour so that a stranger could get a bargain? If not, why should anybody else?

begonefoulclutter · 17/04/2026 13:34

Feelingworried26 · 17/04/2026 08:30

£32for doing the shopping, veg prep, cooking and clearing up for 6 people? She wasn't doing it as a favour but to make some money. It could easily cost £30 a head in a restaurant serving freshly made high quality food.

I don't exactly call pasties and beers high quality food. £200 is a piss-take.

ThatWaryLimePeer · 17/04/2026 13:41

£180

Feelingworried26 · 17/04/2026 14:11

begonefoulclutter · 17/04/2026 13:34

I don't exactly call pasties and beers high quality food. £200 is a piss-take.

A home made pasty is good quality food . OP didn't have to pay it if she didn't want to. 200 for a meal for 6 people cooked specially is nor excessive ime.

mondaytosunday · 17/04/2026 14:13

@begonefoulclutteryou allow £32 to make and deliver? That’s slave wages!

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 17/04/2026 14:38

begonefoulclutter · 17/04/2026 13:34

I don't exactly call pasties and beers high quality food. £200 is a piss-take.

To be fair, like with actual restaurants, the cost of the ingredients isn't a huge proportion of the overall cost to them. It's everything else - utility bills, property provision and bills, staff costs etc. that represent the majority of the price.

BelBridge · 17/04/2026 14:48

I wouldn’t really count that as a meal to be honest, it’s a big snack in my eyes. Maybe £50 at a push. It’s a pasty, a bit of veg and a slice of cake per person.

bugalugs45 · 17/04/2026 14:49

Meadowfinch · 16/04/2026 18:32

Well made Cornish pasties with proper steak are £15 each. Another £3 each for veggies. £5 for a beer. £20 for a decent cake.

£168 plus their markup. £200 is about right.

£15 worth of steak in a pasty ? Where on earth does this happen ? I know the price of beef has soared but don't be ridiculous . Even including the pastry & veg it isn’t costing anywhere near that

bugalugs45 · 17/04/2026 14:52

I would prob say £20-£25 per person as you can get a decent take away for that amount , and a beer each is £1.50 tops if bought as a multipack in supermarket .

ThatWaryLimePeer · 17/04/2026 16:57

BelBridge · 17/04/2026 14:48

I wouldn’t really count that as a meal to be honest, it’s a big snack in my eyes. Maybe £50 at a push. It’s a pasty, a bit of veg and a slice of cake per person.

And potatoes.

dailyconniptions · 17/04/2026 17:04

OP, people are answering you. Are you there? Is this helping???

AtleastitsnotMonday · 17/04/2026 17:14

I love the way that on this thread people are saying pasties with potatoes and veg, followed by cake is more of a snack than a meal. Yet on plenty of threads asking for snack suggestions, anyone that suggests a sandwich is shot down, as a sandwich is a meal not a snack.
Of course a meat pasty served with veg and potatoes followed by cake is a meal! It may not be everyone’s choice of meal but it is certainly more than a snack!

ThatWaryLimePeer · 17/04/2026 17:15

AtleastitsnotMonday · 17/04/2026 17:14

I love the way that on this thread people are saying pasties with potatoes and veg, followed by cake is more of a snack than a meal. Yet on plenty of threads asking for snack suggestions, anyone that suggests a sandwich is shot down, as a sandwich is a meal not a snack.
Of course a meat pasty served with veg and potatoes followed by cake is a meal! It may not be everyone’s choice of meal but it is certainly more than a snack!

If it was pie, mash and veg people wouldn’t be saying the same.

BelBridge · 17/04/2026 17:22

ThatWaryLimePeer · 17/04/2026 16:57

And potatoes.

Okay, £55 then.

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 17/04/2026 17:40

bugalugs45 · 17/04/2026 14:52

I would prob say £20-£25 per person as you can get a decent take away for that amount , and a beer each is £1.50 tops if bought as a multipack in supermarket .

The price should have been made clear - whether the cottage owner stated it or OP/group organiser asked when told it was an option... but I don't understand why people are specifically looking for ways for the housekeeper/cook to make it as cheap as possible, when it's a luxury service that she offers presumably to make money as part of her livelihood!

I can't see anywhere in the OP where they were forced to agree to it and forced to pay whatever price was charged; I'm sure they could have politely declined the offer and found a takeaway or pub or cooked their own meal at a lower price if they'd chosen to!

bugalugs45 · 17/04/2026 17:57

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 17/04/2026 17:40

The price should have been made clear - whether the cottage owner stated it or OP/group organiser asked when told it was an option... but I don't understand why people are specifically looking for ways for the housekeeper/cook to make it as cheap as possible, when it's a luxury service that she offers presumably to make money as part of her livelihood!

I can't see anywhere in the OP where they were forced to agree to it and forced to pay whatever price was charged; I'm sure they could have politely declined the offer and found a takeaway or pub or cooked their own meal at a lower price if they'd chosen to!

Not quite sure why you’ve quoted my response , but I don’t know that the OP was actually moaning ( and she hasn’t been back to clarify ) but totally agree that price should have been clear , but I was simply saying what I would have ( happily ) paid as was the question in original post .
However I disagree that a Cornish pasty is a luxury dinner however nice it was 😂

Carandache18 · 17/04/2026 21:15

Homemade large pasties with good quality steak and homemade pastry wouldn't come much less than £10 each. I do them now and then, and they are a faff to put together. Plus cake and veg and beers, another £10 per head, and maybe 3 hrs work at £20 an hour. That's £180 and the extra £20 for service.
It's not too bad.