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Is your WhatsApp last seen on or off?

62 replies

myauntyfanny · 04/04/2026 22:07

And do you have the same on/off setting for everyone or is it different for different people ?

Mine is on .. at the moment ...

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stickydough · 04/04/2026 23:06

GlovedhandsCecilia · 04/04/2026 22:52

Blue ticks?

Oh is that not what we are talking about?! 😂

MoonWoman69 · 04/04/2026 23:06

It depends on who I want to know I'm available or not. At the moment it's on for all. But that could change!

HitMePlease34 · 04/04/2026 23:07

Off as I was getting too obsessed with looking at what other people were doing, mostly my ex during the divorce. It's a weight lifted now it's gone (and we use a parenting app so no communication on Whatsapp).

cainteoir · 04/04/2026 23:10

Last seen off but blue ticks on

7238SM · 04/04/2026 23:15

I'm clearly the only person on this thread who has no clue what people are talking about?

Is the on/off thing so other people can't see if you've read their message or so you don't get disturbed by their message? 🤷‍♀️

TwistedWonder · 04/04/2026 23:16

Off for everyone. All my SM and messaging is private

ImDoneOnceAndForAll2 · 04/04/2026 23:20

Off for everyone
Read ticks are also off for everyone

missmotivation · 04/04/2026 23:52

Off for everyone, as are the read ticks and the ability to add me to groups and if I'm in any groups they're locked. I'm a delight 😅

Tollington · 04/04/2026 23:55

Everything switched off

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 05/04/2026 00:58

Off. I’m not interested in when people are online except for my 13 year old.

TheTortiePuffinNeedsHerBreakfast · 05/04/2026 01:02

Off for everyone. I don't think people need to know this information.

someon · 05/04/2026 02:06

Off as someone else up thread says and I was getting the same with some people who felt like they were entitled to a prompt response

Monty27 · 05/04/2026 02:11

juicelooseabootthishoose · 04/04/2026 22:22

Off! Its not information i wish to share or think anyone needs to know. I would never share my location either. But appreciate that increasingly that makes me in the minority.

@myauntyfanny always off. Why do you display your activity online.
I suppose it's a choice.

whattheysay · 05/04/2026 02:14

On. I don’t care who knows and sees when I’ve been online, no idea why anyone would even care and if they do that’s their problem.

justjuggling · 05/04/2026 04:20

Off for everyone!

HatKat · 05/04/2026 04:42

OriginalSkang · 04/04/2026 22:23

Off for everyone. I hate being on show and people knowing what I'm doing. I also hate seeing that other people have been online but not read my message! So best to just leave it off

Me too... even though I do it to them 😃😂

HatKat · 05/04/2026 04:43

Mine is off for everyone and has been for as long as I can remember! I like to be able to go on WhatsApp and reply when I like 😂

HelpMeGetThrough · 05/04/2026 05:24

It’s on for me. Doesn’t mean I’ll respond to someone any quicker if they know I’ve been online. I’ll still take says to get back to them.

GlovedhandsCecilia · 05/04/2026 05:39

7238SM · 04/04/2026 23:15

I'm clearly the only person on this thread who has no clue what people are talking about?

Is the on/off thing so other people can't see if you've read their message or so you don't get disturbed by their message? 🤷‍♀️

WhatsApp lets you display the last time you opened the app. So it will say "last seen at 530am".

This is separate to the person opening your chat to read messages you've sent. So they can be online on the app, but not have read your messages so they won't "blue tick".

Kimura · 05/04/2026 06:23

Don't know, don't care.

The day that someone pesters me about not replying to them when they can see I'm online is the day that chat gets muted 😅

ParadiseIsNoBunker · 05/04/2026 06:37

Read receipts, last seen, status and location - all off and have been for years. No one needs to know any of the above and I don’t need to know about anyone else’s statuses.

fouroclockrock · 05/04/2026 06:44

Ive had the ‘last seen’ thing turned off. I did it years ago when a school mum I got to know started bombarding me with messages and voice messages asking why I hadn’t answered because I had a blue tick at x o clock and then later i had one tick/two ticks, grey/blue etc. Before this I had no idea what the ticks meant and noone I communicated with had chased me up on my replies and vice versa. I told her I was at work and may have glanced but not registered or thought to respond. I backed out of that friendship growing fairly pronto.

Brightbluesomething · 05/04/2026 11:54

Everything is on. No one has ever complained I don’t respond quickly enough but if they did they’d get an appropriate response.
Usually I don’t care whether people respond to me quickly, except my DC’s who always seem to be unaware when there’s a time limited question. Such as I’m ordering a takeaway, what do you want?.
Most people have notifications on so they can read the message without it being read on WhatsApp so switching it off is pointless.

Gertrudeprune · 05/04/2026 12:03

Mine is off ffor everyone and has always been since I downloaded it. Notifications off.