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What thing was ruined because it turned into a rich person's hobby?

377 replies

NewLion · 30/03/2026 21:34

attending Premier League football

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RosesAndHellebores · 30/03/2026 22:34

SanFranBear · 30/03/2026 22:29

But that's a huge amount of money - surely you recognise that 😲

Yes, but the pp mentioned £1000 for five. I was just tryimg to.point out that there is really nice stuff in London, at Christmas, for half that. There were also cheaper seats available. Cheaper still at local theatres.

Dentalmum2 · 30/03/2026 22:36

Gagamama2 · 30/03/2026 21:37

Going to the theatre. I keep trying to take our family of 5 at Christmas but can’t face spending £1000 on it. I mean I could just spend £600 and sit in seats where no one can see what’s going on, or give them their Christmas treat on a random Wednesday in February, but it ruins the magic somewhat 🙄

The sort of theatres where it's £1k for a family were never poor men's haunts that suddenly became MC territory. As a pp said, go to smaller church halls theatres where there is a local drama group.

Thecows · 30/03/2026 22:37

Redheadedstepchild · 30/03/2026 22:31

@EmeraldRoulette Some chip vans are of a fixed location. Like in a layby on a trunk road. We still do have their spiritual cousins here, the pizza van. Running a wood fired oven in small caravan is not for the faint of heart.

Heroes.

You are very funny, I'm thoroughly enjoying your culinary retrospectives! 😁

Beesandhoney123 · 30/03/2026 22:40

Rugby. Our local team beats on about it being open to all and family orientated. They mean rich family orientated.
Pay to park, pay over a hundred quid to get in and stand up, pay at least £10 each for an artisan burger.
The day is easily ruined if anyone feels ill, it rains endlessly and is cold, kids get fed up, get bumped into, or the game is a bit rubbish.
We cost it, we stare at each other, and we silently agree we can't spare that kind of cash.

A few months later we repeat the process, forgetting how disheartening it is.

RosesAndHellebores · 30/03/2026 22:43

The cinema astounds me nowadays. £18 for a ticket, £3 for an icecream and that's taking supermarket drinks.

Smoking Shock

GarlicFind · 30/03/2026 22:44

TheHouse · 30/03/2026 22:09

Concerts.

I think this is because people don't buy music on physical media any more? Streaming platforms pay the artists a pittance, and loads more people use illegal digital copies than used to buy bootlegs.

Live performances used to be promotion for the physical products but, as artists no longer make much from sales, they try to make a profit on gigs. I'd imagine the costs of staging have exploded, too; audiences expect more of a spectacle.

Disturbia81 · 30/03/2026 22:45

SanFranBear · 30/03/2026 22:29

But that's a huge amount of money - surely you recognise that 😲

It’s a different world on here
I can barely afford 1 gig, never mind 14!

PrioritisePleasure24 · 30/03/2026 22:47

AppleKatie · 30/03/2026 22:22

14 gigs a year!!! That is unusual

No it’s not. Plenty of people watch live music in smaller venues for £10 upwards. Not every concert is an arena or stadium show. Loads of bands/ artists to watch out there muchly cheaply and frequently.

Plumblossomsbloom · 30/03/2026 22:48

MidnightPatrol · 30/03/2026 22:32

I don’t think most of these have anything to do with these things being ‘a rich persons hobby’.

eg theatre is expensive because the cost of putting on a show is so huge.

Or have I misunderstood the phrasing of the question?

Edited

Rich person's hobby = ordinary people can't afford to do it/can't justify the cost.

HoppityBun · 30/03/2026 22:48

tnorfotkcab · 30/03/2026 21:40

You're unlikely to be going to 19 concerts a year...

You sound like those companies who know they're expensive and have to break it down to something that sounds reasonable ... like a over priced farm play area family membership or whatever" " only £3.72 per day pp!"

Or “it’s less than the price of a coffee”.

Redheadedstepchild · 30/03/2026 22:50

@Plumblossomsbloom They didn’t try to pull a fast one on you with those so called, "Skin on chips" not neither. Has tha' no spud rumbler?

Your post was poetry. Sheer poetry. I'd kill for for a floured barmcake right now.

TokyoTantrum · 30/03/2026 22:51

Xanadu78 · 30/03/2026 22:17

Sewing, patterns and fabric have gone so expensive.

I agree on this one. Market fabric stalls used to be pretty common and there was a haberdashers on the high street that was pretty reasonable (my local one sold old patterns cheap). When I was learning to sew in the 00s I would buy cotton for £4.50 a metre.
It was a bit of a shock last time I went to look for fabric in person and cotton was £16 a metre. And no, not Liberty stuff. That's more like £35!

Very glad I live in Japan now as fabric is fairly affordable here, even if you're earning yen. If you're a tourist, you're pretty much paying less than half price for cottons and they have loads of fun prints.

Happytaytos · 30/03/2026 22:51

PrioritisePleasure24 · 30/03/2026 22:47

No it’s not. Plenty of people watch live music in smaller venues for £10 upwards. Not every concert is an arena or stadium show. Loads of bands/ artists to watch out there muchly cheaply and frequently.

14 gigs in small venues is doable, like £5-10 a ticket.

14 stadium tour level gigs would require a remortgage.

HoppityBun · 30/03/2026 22:51

Allmydays2 · 30/03/2026 22:10

Caravan holidays,used to be basic now very luxurious home from home (maybe even better)

sam with self catering cottages for holidays. They used to be basic and affordable. Now they’re crammed full of luxuries and unaffordable

NiftyJadeSheep · 30/03/2026 22:54

Theatre
Private school / edcuation
Six nations rugby matches
Concerts
Piano lessons- actually any kids hobbies like stagecoach
Owning pets

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 30/03/2026 22:54

Living in Cornwall, where wages tend to be low.

Going to music gigs. There was a time when gigs were very cheap because they were all about promoting the album.

Aussiesgettingsmashed · 30/03/2026 23:00

tnorfotkcab · 30/03/2026 21:37

🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨 Woop woop here come da police 🚨 🚨 🚨 🚨 🚨

Er that is not the Police. That’s Tommy Cooper’s fez.

coronafiona · 30/03/2026 23:00

Going to London on the train
going to the theatre
going to the cinema
going out for meals
days out
all over £100 for a family of 5

Twirlywirly25 · 30/03/2026 23:01

Oddly, round my way you can go and watch the polo for free in the summer.

Things that have gone expensive: Cinema - rarely go now.

Isanyonereallyanonymous · 30/03/2026 23:02

I remember seeing snow patrol at Wembley and Stereophonics at nec arena, both for less than £50, within the last 10 years. You can't get stadium tickets for even close to that nowadays.
I'd like to go and see Jimmy Eat world for the 20th anniversary gig in Gunnersbury park on my birthday in August. Tickets were £80. I like them, but they're not an £80 ticket band surely.
I absolutely get touring costs have increased and artists miss out on sales from actual music nowadays, but ouch. I have a friend who goes to lots of stadium gigs for very mainstream artists and tickets are often over £100 time 😱
Even smaller artists at mid sized venues like rock city are £20/30 minimum now.

Theunamedcat · 30/03/2026 23:07

For fabric we buy from our charity shop outlet (most things are a pound) and cut up its great if you like patchwork clothing 😂 i haven't done it for ages I must start again

Wool is likewise charity shop salvage

I miss fish and chips at one point i could get gluten free chips quite locally and reasonably priced now i cannot cant even afford it for the kids if they liked it (thankfully they do not really favour chippy tea)

McDonald's is getting expensive now too and before everyone piles on about how shite it is ds likes thin plain burgers and they are really hard to find in the shops without tons of filler in it McDonald's is literally beef salt and pepper some plastic cheese and a few chips he is autistic plain food is his favourite food

Cars are becoming unaffordable too

TheChosenTwo · 30/03/2026 23:09

I went to see a band recently and I think i paid about £30 for my ticket (let’s not talk about the cost of my air BnB for the night 😂). Seeing another in a local venue and it’s £24.
I refuse to go to big stadium tours these days, Hours virtually queueing to discover the only tickets are £350 if you’re lucky, £700+ each if you’re not, to stand in an enormous stadium a mile away from the stage and have to watch the act on a screen anyway surrounded by tens of thousands of others to pay £10 a pint and queue for pissy toilets with no loo roll and then queue for hours to get out of the venue. No thanks, none of that appeals.

nOlives · 30/03/2026 23:11

tnorfotkcab · 30/03/2026 21:36

Lego.

We couldn't afford lego 50 years ago with both parents working. It may have become a not rich persons thing in between but it certainly used to be very expensive.

Lifeomars · 30/03/2026 23:13

RosesAndHellebores · 30/03/2026 22:43

The cinema astounds me nowadays. £18 for a ticket, £3 for an icecream and that's taking supermarket drinks.

Smoking Shock

I have a group of friends and we used to go to the cinema at least once a month. We made an evening of it, an early meal out, a drink at the bar and a film. Used to come to around £27 each. To do the same now is about £50 and none of us can afford it on a regular basis anymore

ChickenAndCustard · 30/03/2026 23:13

Montessori

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