Common scenario:
Parents separate. Co-parent amicably for a number of years without court involvement. One parent (usually the dad) then gets a new partner / gets her pregnant / has a baby. Suddenly there are contact issues or concerns raised. One party (usually dad) files a C100 as his contact is now being restricted and/or he wants more contact. Suddenly a slew of allegations are made that he was a serious domestic abuser. This is despite their being no previous allegations and a number of years of co-parenting, where there were never any issues raised around his capacity to look after the children or any issues raised around their marriage.
That was a daily occurrence. Having experienced it for a number of years, it got to the point I could predict what would happen and what would be alleged. Can you genuinely not see an issue or any skepticism with that?
I am not saying that everyone was disingenuous or making false allegations or trying to gain an advantage by the way; I am saying it followed a very common theme and pattern, and it’s interesting the circumstances to which all of these allegations were brought to light. I was responding to someone who was asking why allegations are made years later, and I responded with lived experience.
It’s a well known occurrence within social services and the police of allegations being raised during family court disputes.