I'm currently looking at the Cheeky Wipes system but I can see there are quite a few brands.
I've (kind of) got over the Eeewww although I'm not sure what can be more Eeewww than dragging a piece of flimsy paper over one's arse.
I have a bidet bottle thingy and that works well - also hugely less expensive than a bidet loo. Wash with that, dry with flannel, flannel into wash.