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PerkyOchrePeer · 2026-03-08T09:21:30+00:00

I went to ask for advice on a journey and possibly buy a ticket to go on the jour. It turns out that I can use my bank card so I want to go back and thank the person.Would that be too creepy. I would only do it after the journey. The person works at the train station advice office

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PerkyOchrePeer · 19/03/2026 07:16

BauhausOfEliott · 18/03/2026 23:49

According to a previous thread of hers, OP was told she had some autistic traits at a work assessment in relation to her being unable to cope with her job, but she refused to accept that she has ND traits and was angry and offended at the mere suggestion.

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To get a proper diagnosis , it has to be done by a psychiatrist, not an office worker who thinks they can give you a few tests and diagnose. You. It was not a formal diagnosis. It was just a bunch of tests to satisfy their curiosity. I have now had it with thus site. I prefer to be around people who treat me with respect, which quite a few people in my personal life do so.I'll stick with them and I won't come back here any

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McSpoot · 19/03/2026 07:19

PerkyOchrePeer · 19/03/2026 07:16

To get a proper diagnosis , it has to be done by a psychiatrist, not an office worker who thinks they can give you a few tests and diagnose. You. It was not a formal diagnosis. It was just a bunch of tests to satisfy their curiosity. I have now had it with thus site. I prefer to be around people who treat me with respect, which quite a few people in my personal life do so.I'll stick with them and I won't come back here any

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Bye bye!

FiveShelties · 19/03/2026 07:30

PerkyOchrePeer · 18/03/2026 22:13

When i was 17 i loved in a block of flats and a boy aged 15 from another flat fancied me. He used to watch me and if j sat in the communial garden, he would come out to chat to me. I did not fancy him. Each time I sat out I felt that he would cone and try to chat to ne. I didnt think of it as stalking or weired until one day I found a diary outside our flat and I picked it up and realised it was his. He had written things about me me in it, saying I was the nicest girl he had met abd that I was pretty . He asked ne if I had found his diary which he said he lost. I knew it wasn't lost but put outside my door deliberately so I could find it and read the stuff in it about me. I never told him I found it and key it for a laugh but threw it away later. He eventually got over me

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That's lovely OP, so sweet and romantic it almost sounds like you made it up.

Unfenced · 19/03/2026 07:50

PerkyOchrePeer · 19/03/2026 07:16

To get a proper diagnosis , it has to be done by a psychiatrist, not an office worker who thinks they can give you a few tests and diagnose. You. It was not a formal diagnosis. It was just a bunch of tests to satisfy their curiosity. I have now had it with thus site. I prefer to be around people who treat me with respect, which quite a few people in my personal life do so.I'll stick with them and I won't come back here any

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As numerous posters pointed out on that thread, it never pretended to be a formal diagnosis. You were assessed at your workplace in the context of doing a job you couldn’t cope with, and the results suggested some autistic traits. It will have been done for a work-related reason, not out of ‘curiosity’. Pursuing a formal diagnosis is obviously up to you.

BauhausOfEliott · 19/03/2026 12:05

PerkyOchrePeer · 19/03/2026 07:16

To get a proper diagnosis , it has to be done by a psychiatrist, not an office worker who thinks they can give you a few tests and diagnose. You. It was not a formal diagnosis. It was just a bunch of tests to satisfy their curiosity. I have now had it with thus site. I prefer to be around people who treat me with respect, which quite a few people in my personal life do so.I'll stick with them and I won't come back here any

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Nobody said it was a formal diagnosis. Nobody on your thread said that. Nobody is saying it now. The therapist didn’t say it either. They didn’t say you were autistic. They just said you had some autistic traits - which, having read your many threads, it’s clear that you definitely do. That doesn’t necessarily mean you’re autistic and nobody said it did.