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Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?

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KnottyAndPistey · 02/03/2026 19:12

We bring such sad news, lovely wafflenose has lost her younger daughter (L) through tragic circumstances and we are just so desperately sorry, thoughts very much with waffle, her family and all who loved her daughter. Really really devastating. Life has been desperately cruel. You may well recognise waffle from music/education/Extra-curricular threads here on MN. Both her lovely daughters have been involved with Mumsnet.

We are so glad waffle would like to receive a Woolly Hug. For those new on here, this is a long standing tradition on Mumsnet where folk come together to make a blanket for one of our own who has been bereaved. There will be love crafted into every stitch. We want it to be a tribute and full of memories. We hope it may give whatever comfort it can.

People have described L as a quiet light, the gentlest of souls. Let us make something truly beautiful in her honour.

So we come again asking for help and shall need both crafters and donors of funds of wool. Can you help us? We would be truly grateful. Thank you

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

We have some ideas for themes..
Initials please E, G, L and K

She played the recorder, the clarinet and the cello, but focused mainly on the clarinet latterly and played in the National Children's Orchestra Under 10s for a while. Her NCO hoodie was bright blue - a bit like Yarnsmith dark turquoise.

She loved art and reading and was very creative. Loved Harry Potter and would probably have been in Hufflepuff house had she been at Hogwarts.

She had a quirky mind and used to love lego.

She was quite a fashionista. Loved Vogue magazine and Miss Dior perfume

Favourite colours were pink and white (pink more than white).

English literature was the love of her life. We are hoping someone can recreate a bookshelf square? One of her favourite books was Jane Eyre. She had also been studying Plath and Hughes.

She loved swimming and the great outdoors, particular the Quantock Hills. (Photo) We are hoping this may act as an inspiration.

Work/volunteering: she did Brownies and Guides and volunteered as a Rainbow Guider and also volunteered on a hospital ward for a while. She worked as a waitress and at the village pub.

She was interested in philosophy and was planning to become a psychologist/counsellor.

She liked Fleetwood Mac.

She kept tropical fish, hamsters and gerbils and loved all other animals especially cats.

She also liked art and photography.

She was very passionate about being an organ donor - and several people have now received life-saving operations because of her. A truly wonderful young woman.

Lots of ideas and ways to get to know L better. If you can recreate a theme on a square, wonderful, but we also need simple squares, A square in one of her favourite colours is perfect too.

The MAIN Colours. We will be using her favourites,
Pinks from pale baby pink through to magenta.
Cream, but only please Drops Merino Extra Fine - Off White (01) or Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - Off White (3045)
Lighter silvers
Greens pale to mid. Think nature inspired

Then embellishments and accents ONLY please (not whole squares)
Blues - sky to navy inc turquoise.
Sunset shades - red, orange, yellow, gold, but only if creating a sunset!
Browns taupe to mid
Charcoal grey
Black

The Yarn we will be Using for Consistency ….
Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - a BIG sale at Wool Warehouse. Has the widest range of colours
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK only available on Love Crafts
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK.
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued or have become less easy to find- Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK, Patons Merino Extrafine DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

Posting will be Teddington, please message if you need the address. If you'd like to include a card for her family , please send with your squares. And please don't forget to include your name!

If you can upload photos of your squares on here as we go along, that will be a lovely record, especially if you have donated yarn.

Will set the last posting date once we are underway but it will be approx 6 weeks hence

Thoughts and love very much with waffle, we are so so sorry. Remembering L Star

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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Llttledrummergirls · 30/03/2026 23:19

Dh posted mine today, here's hoping they are with you tomorrow.

Boiledbeetle · 31/03/2026 01:28

Oh Maud!

Use a glass.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
KnottyAndPistey · 31/03/2026 09:23

I wondered where all the milk had gone!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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KnottyAndPistey · 31/03/2026 09:24

She should have probs rinsed that one better. 😇

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KnottyAndPistey · 31/03/2026 09:27

Maud and Fawley aren’t even up yet and we have treasure!

💐 @ChristmasStars ⭐️ Beautiful crochet, all super gorgeous.

thank you!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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KnottyAndPistey · 31/03/2026 09:37

And more!

💐 @littledrummergirl ⭐️ check out that bookcase! Beautiful squares. Gorgeous.

Thank you!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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Boiledbeetle · 31/03/2026 10:04

KnottyAndPistey · 31/03/2026 09:24

She should have probs rinsed that one better. 😇

As someone who used to do a milk round I'll be having words with her about that!

Boiledbeetle · 31/03/2026 10:38

KnottyAndPistey · 31/03/2026 09:27

Maud and Fawley aren’t even up yet and we have treasure!

💐 @ChristmasStars ⭐️ Beautiful crochet, all super gorgeous.

thank you!

She's up.

She's currently running late for her furdressers appointment so only had time to look at @ChristmasStars squares as she spent a lot of time trying to work out the best camera angle and filter!

She will continue her knitted square admiring on her return.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ChristmasStars · 31/03/2026 11:16

Boiledbeetle · 31/03/2026 10:38

She's up.

She's currently running late for her furdressers appointment so only had time to look at @ChristmasStars squares as she spent a lot of time trying to work out the best camera angle and filter!

She will continue her knitted square admiring on her return.

Love this! So glad all arrived and that Maud has done her inspection!

Boiledbeetle · 31/03/2026 11:37

ChristmasStars · 31/03/2026 11:16

Love this! So glad all arrived and that Maud has done her inspection!

She did mess around with the colour filter quite a bit whilst trying to get her perfect shot, but I think she managed to get at least one photo of each set of squares looking the rightish colours.

She was very impressed by your squares!

ChristmasStars · 31/03/2026 11:43

Boiledbeetle · 31/03/2026 11:37

She did mess around with the colour filter quite a bit whilst trying to get her perfect shot, but I think she managed to get at least one photo of each set of squares looking the rightish colours.

She was very impressed by your squares!

😍😍😍

Boiledbeetle · 31/03/2026 11:48

ChristmasStars · 31/03/2026 11:43

😍😍😍

Maud forgot to put them away in her rush to get to her appointment.

What could possibly go wrong with squares left unattended?

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ChristmasStars · 31/03/2026 12:10

Fawley!

Do you think Fawley has noticed that the one next to the fish is a cat, or does he think it's a teddy like all my family did.

Boiledbeetle · 31/03/2026 12:25

ChristmasStars · 31/03/2026 12:10

Fawley!

Do you think Fawley has noticed that the one next to the fish is a cat, or does he think it's a teddy like all my family did.

Fawley is slowly removing all the squares that aren't the cat and the fish. Then when down to the two she's really interested in will be spiriting them away to her wool stash hiding place if Maud doesn't hurry up and get back home.

Boiledbeetle · 31/03/2026 12:29

Maud is back from the furdressers.

Honestly you can't even tell she's had any trimmed off.

She's currently admiring the work @Llttledrummergirls

In her rush she's accidentally undone the bit on one that joins two halves.

I'm sure @KnottyAndPistey can sort that!

She's currently taking a better look at a couple in the daylight.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
IoWfairy · 31/03/2026 16:00

ifIwerenotanandroid · 30/03/2026 16:02

These two followed on from the previous granny square as I tried to make them deliberately 'the great outdoors'. So at the centre it's grass, then there's a square of trees & then a cloudy sky. The first is day, the second is a moonlit night.

I am just catching up with latest news of squares and the ongoing adventures of Maud and Fawley - so much has happened in a couple of days.
@ifIwerenotanandroid I love your ‘great outdoors’ squares. Kaleidoscopic views of a beautiful country landscape, as if through a tube of mirrors, amazing!

Boiledbeetle · 31/03/2026 17:27

Seriously Maud stop playing with the filters on your camera. That looks nothing like @ChristmasStars square!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ifIwerenotanandroid · 31/03/2026 17:41

IoWfairy · 31/03/2026 16:00

I am just catching up with latest news of squares and the ongoing adventures of Maud and Fawley - so much has happened in a couple of days.
@ifIwerenotanandroid I love your ‘great outdoors’ squares. Kaleidoscopic views of a beautiful country landscape, as if through a tube of mirrors, amazing!

You're right! I need one of those cylindrical mirrors people put on a splodgy painting & suddenly you can see the real image. I guess it would work better if the trees finished in a circle instead of being squared off, but you can't have everything.

I'm sure I did a Photoshop manipulation that came out a bit like the squares; can't remember which one. It made a world somehow, out of a photo.

@Boiledbeetle Write out 60 times (10 per leg) 'I must learn the difference between knitting and crochet'. 😂❤I'm sure we all forgive you, because of your work as Maud's PA.

ChristmasStars · 31/03/2026 17:46

Boiledbeetle · 31/03/2026 17:27

Seriously Maud stop playing with the filters on your camera. That looks nothing like @ChristmasStars square!

That's brilliant! I so much want to add to the original now to make it look like this!

Boiledbeetle · 31/03/2026 17:50

ifIwerenotanandroid · 31/03/2026 17:41

You're right! I need one of those cylindrical mirrors people put on a splodgy painting & suddenly you can see the real image. I guess it would work better if the trees finished in a circle instead of being squared off, but you can't have everything.

I'm sure I did a Photoshop manipulation that came out a bit like the squares; can't remember which one. It made a world somehow, out of a photo.

@Boiledbeetle Write out 60 times (10 per leg) 'I must learn the difference between knitting and crochet'. 😂❤I'm sure we all forgive you, because of your work as Maud's PA.

Crochet, knitting... both use a ball of wool and a stick thing, but the crochet stick thing has a hook at the end and the knitting stick thing comes in 2s but you occasionally need 3 if you're good at knitting.

And that is the total of my knowledge.

Boiledbeetle · 31/03/2026 17:52

ChristmasStars · 31/03/2026 17:46

That's brilliant! I so much want to add to the original now to make it look like this!

You should see what she did to your fish!!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ChristmasStars · 31/03/2026 17:57

Boiledbeetle · 31/03/2026 17:52

You should see what she did to your fish!!

I am never going to make a square again without consulting Maud and Fawley for design ideas!

ifIwerenotanandroid · 31/03/2026 17:57

This is a pretty accurate rendition of my cat. Now, if you could just make the eyes a little more desperately pleading (before cheese Dreamies) or hurt & betrayed (when cheese Dreamies are 2 seconds late) that would be him 100%. 😹

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Boiledbeetle · 31/03/2026 17:59

ChristmasStars · 31/03/2026 17:57

I am never going to make a square again without consulting Maud and Fawley for design ideas!

Be warned, their hourly Dreamies and Battenberg cake rate is eye wateringly high.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 31/03/2026 18:04

Boiledbeetle · 31/03/2026 17:59

Be warned, their hourly Dreamies and Battenberg cake rate is eye wateringly high.

Loved the cake in her dressing gown pocket when she was midnight snacking!

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