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Soham Monster attacked in Jail.

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Netcurtainnelly · 26/02/2026 14:08

I hate saying his name.
The vile creature who killed Holly and Jessica in 2002. Has been seriously assaulted in prison.

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DuchessofStaffordshire · 26/02/2026 18:57

plantseeds · 26/02/2026 14:23

Irrespective of the awfulness of his crimes, there is something very ugly about those who celebrate and encourage extreme violence.

Hmmm......it is a bit Old Testament in here.

ilovesooty · 26/02/2026 18:58

plantseeds · 26/02/2026 18:54

So everyone who expresses unease about people crowing with delight about violent attacks is a narcissist?

Apart from being wrong, that makes no sense at all: a narcissist is someone with an unhealthy preoccupation with themselves. I don’t see how that fits with anything I’ve said at all, even if you don’t agree with it!

You don't have to be narcissistic to think that vigilante violence makes prisons unsafe places and isn't something to applaud, agreed.

onelumporthree · 26/02/2026 18:59

plantseeds · 26/02/2026 17:00

I am not clear whether this is suggesting that anyone with a daughter who was ten circa 2002 will have a particularly strong response to this crime and delight in Huntley’s assault or whether it is suggesting that if I don’t have a daughter I won’t understand. I do have a daughter but she is only two. I don’t think escalating brutality and violence is ever something that’s going to be a positive thing, regardless of how many daughters I have or their age.

My dd was a similar age to those girls when it happened. It was at that point it dawned on me what I would be prepared to do in order to save her from someone like that.

SerafinasGoose · 26/02/2026 19:01

plantseeds · 26/02/2026 18:41

You are assuming incorrectly. I have two children.

The girls were beautiful, but I don’t think that matters. It would not be a less heinous crime if they were plain, would it? And they were not nine, they were both ten, weeks away from turning eleven.

The problem with what you’re saying is that if you have a quick look at some of the notable inmates at HMP Frankland, you’ll see some notorious names. Levi Bellfield is one; he killed numerous beautiful daughters. Are we going to laud him a hero and shake his hand if it transpires he was responsible? How about Wayne Couzens, or John Duffy?

And they are the ones we know about, because they got so much press attention. When I was at secondary school, a nine year old little girl from one of the local primaries vanished and was later found washed up on the shores of the river some eight weeks later. There was very little press attention. She had been raped and strangled. Her killer is now free, which I would personally argue is wrong but his actions were as cruel and as inhumane as Huntley’s.

So we feel justified in our hatred of Huntley but I’m not giving his sentence to Bellfield or Duffy or any of the others in there, thanks. I’ll turn your point around - what if it was my daughter? Indeed; what if my daughter’s killer killer Huntley? Is that going to vindicate for his crime? No it is not. I think if I lost my daughter in such a senseless way I’d feel passionately against violence and murder, not wanting to encourage killers to carry on killing.

I think differently. We are all only human. We can only think hypothetically - and hope we're never in a position to discover otherwise - but I think it's entirely possible that if this man had murdered my child I'd want to see him suffer in the worst ways possible. The mealy-mouthed rhetoric on the theme of 'forgiveness' is not one I've ever had a great deal of time for.

And - had the decision as to what happened to the killer been left in my hands - when enough time had passed that I was able to process other things as well as the scale of that loss, I'd end up with it on my conscience. Bereaved parents have been handed more than enough terrible cards as it is, without subjecting them to this. There is a good reason why bereaved families are not part of the judicial process: justice has to be impartial.

Would a bereaved parent be blamed for wishing harm on him? Of course not. Should this be encouraged, or should it be the way in which we heckle for our justice/punitive systems to be run?

Again, absolutely not.

PolkaDotPorridge · 26/02/2026 19:02

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Sometimessmiling · 26/02/2026 19:04

plantseeds · 26/02/2026 14:23

Irrespective of the awfulness of his crimes, there is something very ugly about those who celebrate and encourage extreme violence.

I also worry about security in the prisons. It's bad news if violent people are going for other violent people. It feels like prisoners run the place which is scary. Obviously the man is evil

BIossomtoes · 26/02/2026 19:05

a desire for revenge isn’t how Jessica Wells’ father feels anyway. He said

"Time doesn't heal, someone got that wrong," he said. "It anaesthetises. Grief does not diminish, but you can manage the intensity and learn to live with it.

"Murder has the capacity to destroy more lives than the one taken. I recognised that from the start, so I tried to take control, to make plans and to exert positive thought.

"I clung to my family, my community, my work, sometimes to God and sometimes to a late-night tumbler of whisky. I chose to believe in the future, a future I could craft from the life we once had. Really, all I wanted was for us to be the ones who'd made it out the other side."

CanSeeClearlyNowTheRainHasGone · 26/02/2026 19:08

Netcurtainnelly · 26/02/2026 16:44

There's always one isn't there.
I'm sure he's grateful your concerned.

Fortunately there are many that believe in the rule of law and think mob violence is a bad thing.

You are celebrating violence. it's not a good look.

Today the victim is someone who committed heinous crimes.

Tomorrow it could be someone wrongly accused or wrongly convicted who is attacked.

Jails should be safe. We argue that for women in jails, why would we not argue that for everyone?

Dontlletmedownbruce · 26/02/2026 19:12

@NotnowMildrid you are making huge assumptions here. You think a childless person can't feel horror at these crimes? You think all parents of girls automatically agree with your view. I have a just turned 12 girl here beside me and the idea of what happened makes me feel sick to the core but I'm still with @plantseeds here. Violence begets violence and I don't agree with inmate vigilantes handing out moral punishments (if that's what this was).

ThatLilacTiger · 26/02/2026 19:13

CatsCatsCatsCatsCatsCat · 26/02/2026 14:10

I really wish the press would stop reporting on this monster. It must be so triggering for the families of the girls.

Nice to hear he got his face smashed in though. I can't imagine a day goes by for them where he isn't on their minds so may as well be because someone battered him half to death.

LBFseBrom · 26/02/2026 19:15

Sometimessmiling · 26/02/2026 19:04

I also worry about security in the prisons. It's bad news if violent people are going for other violent people. It feels like prisoners run the place which is scary. Obviously the man is evil

You are right there.

There's a hierarchy in prison and, no matter what an inmate has done, they like to have someone or some people, on whom they can look down. They punish them accordingly if opportunity presents.

It's not just hard cases like Huntley who daily live in fear of fellow inmates, there are some inadequate people, and youngsters, inside for relatively petty crimes, who can be bullied, coerced into things and attacked. It's not surprising that suicides amongst young prisoners happen fairly often.

NotnowMildrid · 26/02/2026 19:20

plantseeds · 26/02/2026 18:54

So everyone who expresses unease about people crowing with delight about violent attacks is a narcissist?

Apart from being wrong, that makes no sense at all: a narcissist is someone with an unhealthy preoccupation with themselves. I don’t see how that fits with anything I’ve said at all, even if you don’t agree with it!

Narcissistic in the sense that you are unable to understand the pain and intense emotions involved.

Describing posters as being akin to Huntley if they don’t agree with your opinion regarding the attack, is pretty disgusting, disrespectful and low.

DuchessofStaffordshire · 26/02/2026 19:21

NotnowMildrid · 26/02/2026 19:20

Narcissistic in the sense that you are unable to understand the pain and intense emotions involved.

Describing posters as being akin to Huntley if they don’t agree with your opinion regarding the attack, is pretty disgusting, disrespectful and low.

Not narcissistic though..

BIossomtoes · 26/02/2026 19:23

NotnowMildrid · 26/02/2026 19:20

Narcissistic in the sense that you are unable to understand the pain and intense emotions involved.

Describing posters as being akin to Huntley if they don’t agree with your opinion regarding the attack, is pretty disgusting, disrespectful and low.

Correct though. It’s completely illogical to deplore violence in one context and celebrate it in another.

onelumporthree · 26/02/2026 19:31

DuchessofStaffordshire · 26/02/2026 18:57

Hmmm......it is a bit Old Testament in here.

What - 'Thou Shalt Not Kill'?

Or is it 'An eye for an eye' (Exodus & others) you mean? Otherwise known as:
Let the punishment fit the crime.

DustyMaiden · 26/02/2026 19:32

loislovesstewie · 26/02/2026 14:24

His attackers are probably other murderers. Perhaps think about that?

It’s an ill wind

DuchessofStaffordshire · 26/02/2026 19:36

onelumporthree · 26/02/2026 19:31

What - 'Thou Shalt Not Kill'?

Or is it 'An eye for an eye' (Exodus & others) you mean? Otherwise known as:
Let the punishment fit the crime.

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Do you follow all of the OT laws then, or just select the ones you find fit your narrative?

Pabbel · 26/02/2026 19:38

So pleased, pity they didnt hit him harder !!

Waitingfordoggo · 26/02/2026 19:42

StasisMom · 26/02/2026 18:24

Hopefully he’s in a lot of pain. I saw that the air ambulance was sent to him although not used, wtf?!

People applaud when someone like this is assaulted in prison. And then the same people are outraged that NHS services have to be deployed to treat the injured prisoner. Medical professionals in this country have to treat everybody- the NHS isn’t run on the basis of whether you’re a nice person or a brutal killer. You can’t have it both ways. 🤷🏼‍♀️

purpleygrey · 26/02/2026 19:45

Ilovegoldies · 26/02/2026 15:44

I can't celebrate this. Not because of any sympathy for the evil man but because I would put my life savings on the attackers not doing this out of any sense of justice for those poor girls but because its just another excuse for men to be violent. Ian Watkins wasn't attacked for what he did it was allegedly due to drugs.
These attackers dgaf about women and girls.

Absolutely this.

I remember in the IW thread people were hailing the perpetrator a hero. In reality it was someone who was owed money from him. No ‘moral Justice’

I would guess this is a similar situation or IH would have been killed in prison years ago.

Translatethedog · 26/02/2026 19:45

Simonjt · 26/02/2026 15:15

I hope the poor prison staff weren’t put at risk, people who don’t mind prisoners being attacked need to remember that attacks put the lives and wellbeing of staff members at risk.

Do you know how often people ask this? Never! So thank you for even considering it.

Netcurtainnelly · 26/02/2026 19:48

muggart · 26/02/2026 14:51

It’s ok really. Huntley deserves far worse than any punishment we can legally give him, so this way he gets a punishment “top up” and some scummy murderers stay inside longer than whatever weak sentence they probably initially got for their other crimes, and society has still maintained the moral high ground.

it’s really not worth getting upset about.

I believe in the USA they say “the trash taking out the trash”, a win all round.

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Agree. Bet he didn't have to wait long for an ambulance unlike others. Bet it was immediately.
Just hope nobody's operation got cancelled or nobody else suffered because the ambulance has gone to him and not them.

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Netcurtainnelly · 26/02/2026 19:51

SirChenjins · 26/02/2026 17:08

I'm sure they don't - but when it inevitably happens, it shouldn't come as a surprise. He made a decision and now he lives with the repeated consequences.

It's about time they did think, fuckin idiots as well as being incredibly evil and nasty , they are as thick as two short planks.

Huntley threw the girls tops in his own bin I mean come on also came forward to say he'd seen them that evening.😱

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AnotherDayanotherNameChangeX · 26/02/2026 19:52

I hope he’s in unbearable pain

Netcurtainnelly · 26/02/2026 20:00

CanSeeClearlyNowTheRainHasGone · 26/02/2026 19:08

Fortunately there are many that believe in the rule of law and think mob violence is a bad thing.

You are celebrating violence. it's not a good look.

Today the victim is someone who committed heinous crimes.

Tomorrow it could be someone wrongly accused or wrongly convicted who is attacked.

Jails should be safe. We argue that for women in jails, why would we not argue that for everyone?

Load of balloney.

He would already be segregated for his one safety. They do as much as they can and escort him as much as they can. Which is actually more than he deserves.

However there will be times when he has to mix with others. Occasionally there will be opportunities, staff can't be everywhere and don't have eyes in the back of their heads.

In case you didn't know there is a shortage of prison staff also.
Are you surprised, that numbers have been cut and people don't want to work alongside some of the scummiest people in society?

Maybe as your so concerned you could apply for a job though not.

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