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Does your house feel like home?

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ToastedSmores · 20/02/2026 17:12

Just pondering today as I have been off work so I have been pottering around the house!
Previous house was a large end terraced property, ideal on paper for a family of 4, 3 huge bedrooms, massive kitchen diner, epic ceiling height etc. Lived there for 15 years, redecorated every room multiple times and it never felt like it was 'my home'.
I couldn't take it anymore and rather than redecorate (again) we decided to move. We bought a mid terraced property with exactly the same floor plan as the old house but it is much smaller (most would see this as a downside!?) The kids still have their own rooms but they are about half the size of the old house and we are now on a main road. Sounds awful right?
I absolutely love this house, from day one it felt like it was 'mine'! Like I have always lived here, I didn't need time to settle, I never pined for the old house - in fact I couldn't wait to get out and move here.
I never even think about my old house, the amount of money and sodding hard work we put into the place and it's like my brain has just blocked it out!
I was wondering, as there are a few threads about people that move and miss their old place if there are others like me that have moved without a backwards glance to their 'real' home?

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MarmaladeSandwich7 · 19/07/2026 10:33

Absolutely. It’s a bit of a tip as there are a lot of piles (mostly things waiting to be photographed & uploaded onto Vinted) and it needs redecorating, new carpet etc. The carpet is awful! But as soon as I walk through the door, I exhale. It’s my sanctuary. We used to live on an estate in a big 4 bed detached house which was lovely but I often felt on edge there as we used to get kids calling round a lot plus DH & I went through a terrible phase in our marriage. Where we live now is much smaller & the garden isn’t as nice but I would take this house over the previous one any day.

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