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What automatically makes you think people are idiots?

965 replies

FMLGFastMovingLuxuryGoods · 05/02/2026 16:00

For me it’s:

people who think that Michael Jackson isn’t a pedophile.

people who say things like “Londanistan” “Bradfordistan”

People who say “If the Holocaust is real, why do the tattoo numbers only go up to 5 digits”

OP posts:
HorrorPudding · 05/02/2026 19:11

justtheotheronemrswembley · 05/02/2026 17:29

Believers in homeopathy's ability to cure anything despite the absolutely resounding evidence it can't work.

Have you never heard of the placebo effect?

Yes, very familiar with the placebo effect @justtheotheronemrswembleyand perhaps if someone pays a lot of money for a homeopath to tell them that something with no active ingredients will solve their condition then wanting to believe it will help is enough. Let’s hope so.

emilysquest · 05/02/2026 19:12

People who voted for Brexit.
People who voted for Trump (or defend those who did).
Moon landing deniers.
Sexists.
Racists.
"Trad wives".

FMLGFastMovingLuxuryGoods · 05/02/2026 19:13

CrouchEndTiger1 · 05/02/2026 19:10

You don't understand irony either. Imbecile.

Honestly your OP is weird. Ive never heard anyone say any of those things.

Is it rage bait?

I do understand irony hence the winky face and “oh wait”. I was being ironic. Did you not get that?

Youve never heard of a holocaust denier or someone saying the MJ is innocent? really?

OP posts:
Changedmynameagain20 · 05/02/2026 19:13

Candlestickinthediningroom · 05/02/2026 18:58

Mumsnet is FULL of exists and stbexist

At the risk of being the idiot on this thread: what are those things?

Globules · 05/02/2026 19:14

Vegans

Gowlett · 05/02/2026 19:14

youalright · 05/02/2026 16:11

Conspiracy theorists and antivaxxers although these are usually the same people. People who say do your research, how I don't have a lab and a science degree oh wait you mean read facebook posts

And watch YouTube videos… I have an ex-friend who thinks that every famous / powerful woman is actually a man & vice-versa. She doesn’t figure that there are just masculine-looking women & feminine-looking men. I do wonder how she applies it IRL. Like, would she say to an elderly lady, with short hair, wearing a pair of slacks, no longer full of youthful hormones, on the bus “you are a man!” No, she wouldn’t. Because she never leaves the house. She’s too busy researching…

Bikergran · 05/02/2026 19:18

People who support Trump or Farage.

Holocaust deniers.

People my age (I'm 72) who don't understand why young people aren't homeowners, not acknowledging the huge difference in affordability of property relative to income nowadays.

People who buy UPFs as the majority of their/their children's diet, especially if they then whinge about health/weight/expense.

People who immediately share posts on SM without checking their veracity.

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 05/02/2026 19:19

I’m not an anti vaxxer, but I understand why others might be.

I’m not anti abortion, but I can understand why others might be.

I’m not a trump supporter, but I can understand why others might be.

People with completely steadfast opinions who think anyone thinks differently is an idiot, is probably an idiot.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 05/02/2026 19:19

CompanyOfThieves · 05/02/2026 16:24

People who can't spell

What, you mean like pedophile, hopefully they're American, who speak English, they just don't know how to spell in English 😂

Bigtom · 05/02/2026 19:20

Pricelessadvice · 05/02/2026 18:34

This.
The instant I see or hear this I’m afraid I assume the person is poorly educated/thick.

My DH says this, but he has a PHD so definitely not uneducated! It’s regional apparently …

TheIceBear · 05/02/2026 19:20

Bertiebiscuit · 05/02/2026 17:43

Also anti - vaxxers
Anyone who uses "cis", pronouns, (especially the they themmers), anyone who says "non binary" with a straight face or claims that people can "change sex", or goes on about "gender".
Huge tattoos on face, arms, legs etc
Nose or lip piercings
People who still smoke tobacco
People who still think it's cool and clever to smoke weed
Men who call each other "bro" and do stupid hand shakes /fist bumps

Oh dear, much judginess 😱
i just know i can't respect anyone who does any of these , i think they are just 🐑🐑🐑🐑

I don’t smoke weed myself , not a fan at all. But I don’t think most weed users think it’s “cool “ or “clever “ they just smoke it the same way that people would have an alcoholic beverage. I find people who are “anti weed because it’s illegal” a bit dim myself. If people grow a little bit for personal use it’s no worse than alcohol. Some would argue alcohol is much worse actually.

GhettoSnoopystar · 05/02/2026 19:20

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 05/02/2026 19:19

I’m not an anti vaxxer, but I understand why others might be.

I’m not anti abortion, but I can understand why others might be.

I’m not a trump supporter, but I can understand why others might be.

People with completely steadfast opinions who think anyone thinks differently is an idiot, is probably an idiot.

I’m not a trump supporter, but I can understand why others might be.

Can you? As in actual reasonable ones, even at this stage? Find that fascinating.

BowLeeBee · 05/02/2026 19:21

Scrunchy bum leggings.

Prisonbreak · 05/02/2026 19:22

EarthSight · 05/02/2026 18:22

Snob.

Educated

ChillingWithMySnowmies · 05/02/2026 19:22

FairKoala · 05/02/2026 18:42

Tbh I pulled DS out of school because he wasn’t actually getting an education in school.

What you have to realise about quite a few Home Ed parents is they have tried school and if your child needs extra help because of SEN then getting a school to help them can be a losing battle.
The school will deny and deny there is an issue
Going to school doesn’t equal getting an education.

I know that for some parents school is great and has helped their SEN child but for a lot of parents this isn’t the case.

Ds’s teacher told me it was unfair on ds being in a main stream primary
They told me he needed a Special School and he would never be able to look after himself and would need 24 hour care.

This was based on DS’s end of year 3 exams where he scored 0

Because he couldn’t read the questions

Apparently not being able to read wasn’t an excuse for not answering the questions on the test.

What does that have to do with uneducated/illiterate parents taking their kids out of school to Home Ed them? Parents shouldn't be home educating their kids if they don't have basic education or literacy skills themselves.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 05/02/2026 19:22

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 05/02/2026 19:19

I’m not an anti vaxxer, but I understand why others might be.

I’m not anti abortion, but I can understand why others might be.

I’m not a trump supporter, but I can understand why others might be.

People with completely steadfast opinions who think anyone thinks differently is an idiot, is probably an idiot.

Very balanced 👌

Catchycatchytune · 05/02/2026 19:22

BowLeeBee · 05/02/2026 19:21

Scrunchy bum leggings.

😂

Prisonbreak · 05/02/2026 19:23

DistractMe · 05/02/2026 17:59

Oh that's not fair. My DH literally cannot pronounce "TH". He can't help it and it really annoys him.

But mine is anyone who does not know how to use a reflexive pronoun correctly.

it goes without saying that a speech impediment is very different

Dymaxion · 05/02/2026 19:23

For me it’s people who believe their political party is 100% right about everything and the opposition are 100% wrong about everything. People who can’t acknowledge the “wrong side” may have a point or have done something positive, ever.

God yes to this, the divisiveness of it all, utterly ridiculous !

Also that politicians from the different parties are at each others throats all the time, its more likely to be someone from the same party, and actually they all muddle along together and share some common goals and take part in cross party things a lot more than people seem to think. A lot of the point scoring at PM's questions is just theatrics.

nomas · 05/02/2026 19:23

People who start sentences with 'Honestly'

People who call their good-for-nothing partners an 'Amazing dad'

People who hold minorities to higher standards

Womaninhouse17 · 05/02/2026 19:24

Changedmynameagain20 · 05/02/2026 18:49

People who accuse theists of believing in a "sky fairy".

People who believe in a 'sky fairy'

Limehawkmoth · 05/02/2026 19:24

CompanyOfThieves · 05/02/2026 16:24

People who can't spell

Wow. Think you need to re-examine this one

I’m very bad at spelling. I’m over 60. Still find spelling very difficult but it’s a specific thing …words with a lot of vowels or small curves constants …decison always gets me for instance.

but I speed read , skim read. I still read a lot, but as a child/teen i was always reading.

my mum was English teacher. Believe me she tried. As did my teachers. My brothers have exactly same issues. Some of our kids do, and some don’t. We all excelled in English language, with one of my siblings doing English at uni .

I worked deligently at school and being judged by spelling on all subjects was a real handicap - but I achieved 9 0 levels/4 A levels . I have a “ good” joint degree in maths and chemistry. That was down to sheer hard graft - chemistry was not a natural subject for me I found out too late. Worked my whatits off. Had a “successful career” which did involve a lot of tech writing. Which I love. I still write now, I do a lot of voluntary committee work involving writing and documentation in my retirement. Most people see me for what I can do, and don’t judge that occasionally there’s the odd spelling error that got through spell checking.

I still struggle. I simply can see shape of word in my head, but not the individual letters. The invention of spell checking was a game changer, but doesn’t stop it as sometimes I can’t get past 2nd or 3rd letter.

I certainly don’t think I am highly intelligent. I do know I’m not stupid though. Like all reasonably intelligent people and curious people I know what I do know, and know there’s a hell of a lot of stuff I don’t know. And I know I’m not perfect and spelling is one of the those things I simply am not good at.

You’re basically saying everyone who is dyslexic is stupid. You’re also saying the following famously poor spellers but successful people are also stupid (go do a search on various quotes and commentary on their spelling prowess)

Winston Churchill
Jane Austin…yes…even she reader
Keats
Agatha Christie
Albert Einstein- this is so well known, he was a complete failure at school
Yeats
Scott Fitzgerald
George Washington
Even leonardo di Vinci sort of made it up as he went along
And Alfred butts - who invented scrabble Fgs

Yep, all stupid. Automatically.

Morethanthis71 · 05/02/2026 19:24

People who can’t control their dogs. Yesterday, a large dog, on a lead, jumped up at me as I was getting out of my car. He hit me with his claws and then wrapped his teeth around my handbag, which I was fortunately holding Maggie Thatcher style in front of my stomach.

Womaninhouse17 · 05/02/2026 19:24

nomas · 05/02/2026 19:23

People who start sentences with 'Honestly'

People who call their good-for-nothing partners an 'Amazing dad'

People who hold minorities to higher standards

Edited

Kill?! I think they are murderers as well as idiots.

Changedmynameagain20 · 05/02/2026 19:25

Womaninhouse17 · 05/02/2026 19:24

People who believe in a 'sky fairy'

I don't think anybody does? Certainly, the deity I believe in is neither a fairy nor resides in the sky.