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Most ridiculous complaint.

238 replies

sashh · 09/01/2026 12:43

I got a supermarket delivery and it arrived about 10 mins before the time slot. I was happy with this but joked with the driver about it being early.

He said some people do make genuine complaint if he is early.

At one house he knocked on the door, the door was opened and he was told to come back at the allotted time. It was 2 mins.

OP posts:
Nourishinghandcream · 09/01/2026 20:35

petermaddog · 09/01/2026 19:39

drunk woman came inmy momsstoremad because we didnthave 30 yards of drapery damask fabric only ordered the when paid for
she threw 100 0n the counter after 15minutes of bitchin remember she was shitfaced.left .mom put the money in the safe she never came back after6 months mom gave me the money
many inthat store my highschool home ec teachers came in and 'i want o talk to the manager" i was .mom was in the back doing some sewingour bread and butter...she came out front and with her cool voice said she is as good maymbe better out her so if you dont want to deal her you can leave thank you
not lovable but the backs her kids big time

Edited

Sorry....... got a bit lost on that one.😖

Bobiverse · 09/01/2026 20:41

petermaddog · 09/01/2026 19:39

drunk woman came inmy momsstoremad because we didnthave 30 yards of drapery damask fabric only ordered the when paid for
she threw 100 0n the counter after 15minutes of bitchin remember she was shitfaced.left .mom put the money in the safe she never came back after6 months mom gave me the money
many inthat store my highschool home ec teachers came in and 'i want o talk to the manager" i was .mom was in the back doing some sewingour bread and butter...she came out front and with her cool voice said she is as good maymbe better out her so if you dont want to deal her you can leave thank you
not lovable but the backs her kids big time

Edited

Are you drunk? 🫤. What does that say?

Farticus101 · 09/01/2026 20:44

Musicaltheatremum · 09/01/2026 14:31

I really get annoyed when callers do this. It really bugs me more than if should...I'm like "get to the point!"

Just say 'fine' - like everybody else! No need to be annoyed.

Rainydayinlondon · 09/01/2026 20:45

AgentPidge · 09/01/2026 13:41

I wouldn't go that far (report you) but it really winds me up if people ask me how my day is going. Why should I have to think of something to say? Am I supposed to ask you back how yours is going? ( I have no idea. I am ND.) Do you really want a conversation, because if not, what's the point of me saying "Fine"? Just say "Hello" ffs.

I agree. They ask you this while you’re actually concentrating on something else. But if you then reply “nothing much” it appears rude.

Gofaster2023 · 09/01/2026 20:46

I was by myself on the shop floor when everything started to go black just as a man came to the till. I had to put my face about 10cm from the phone to make out the numbers to page the upstairs staff and i apologised profusely and managed to mumble that someone would be down immediately but I was about to faint. He started shouting at me and was still shouting as I fell to the ground! He was served by my manager and was clearly in such a rush that he made a complaint about me!

thisfilmisboring123 · 09/01/2026 20:50

Rainydayinlondon · 09/01/2026 20:45

I agree. They ask you this while you’re actually concentrating on something else. But if you then reply “nothing much” it appears rude.

I tend to not want a conversation when I’m shopping so my default is usually just to say, nothing much.

I don’t think that appears rude at all.

Imisscoffee2021 · 09/01/2026 20:53

I worked at a place that had lots of ponds in the grounds with swans, someone complained to us he'd seen a heron eat a cygnet and what are we doing about it ... hope he never watched Springwatch its a brutal time of year in nature!

Shouldhavebutdidnt · 09/01/2026 20:53

NotDarkGothicMama · 09/01/2026 14:20

I had it the other way round once when my groceries were delivered 20 minutes early. I wasn't home from work yet and the driver kept calling me asking when I'd get there, getting increasingly tetchy that I was keeping him waiting Hmm I arrived before he was due and didn't complain about him but didn't say thankyou or apologise for keeping him waiting. I'm sure that showed him.

I had the same - they were really arsey and I was home 15 mins before they were due. I always book them for after the school run.

I phoned and complained to the company because he was so rude about my not being there 25 mins before my slot 🤪

Ilovesandwiches · 09/01/2026 20:55

had this before! they were a few minutes early, thought nothing of it, just opened the door and the driver apologised for being early- explained people do get really funny!

bedtimestories · 09/01/2026 21:09

@ToadRage I wish I'd encountered more people like you during COVID. Especially when they were behind a fixed screen with a mask on. I had no chance of hearing them. I usually ended up putting my ear to the hole used to pass stuff through

Manename · 09/01/2026 21:18

Work on a national helpline - my opening line “good morning my name is X - do you want help with Y”
Shouted response “why are you so rude and you don’t help, I’m going to make a complaint- you talk to me like shit. I want to complain - tell me where you work”
Conversation did not get better. As far as I know no complaint.

HelenaWilson · 09/01/2026 21:22

we used to get complaints (mainly from Americans, it has to be said) from people asking why we'd built the castle on top of such a steep hill.

I've heard stories of Americans asking why they built Windsor Castle so close to the airport.

Someone I knew was once outraged when a delivery driver phoned her to say he was running early, he was parked round the corner, and could he make the delivery now. The outrageous thing was not that he wanted to deliver early, but that he was parked round the corner. She seemed to think it was equivalent to stalking or something; I don't know what she thought he should have done instead.

HarvestMouseandGoldenCups · 09/01/2026 21:25

Not so much a complaint but when I was a reporter I interviewed someone who said they disliked a certain location because they felt the local men sexually harassed them a lot. Men from said location then proceeded to send me emails and messages threatening to rape or kill me for spreading such ‘lies’.

Proved her point. And missed the point of who was making the statement.

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 09/01/2026 21:25

I work in a primary school, I'm not sure you're ready 😆

HarvestMouseandGoldenCups · 09/01/2026 21:39

Bobiverse · 09/01/2026 20:41

Are you drunk? 🫤. What does that say?

A drunk lady came into her mothers shop - they sell fabric and her mother does sewing and alterations. The lady was angry they didn’t have a damask fabric and had a go at them for 15 minutes, then ordered the fabric and paid by throwing £100 on the counter and walking out. The lady never came back for fabric, money nor change so the mother eventually gave the poster the £100. Another time, a teacher asked for the manager to complain about the poster so her mother came out from the back and said ‘she’s as good if not better than me so if you don’t want to deal with her then leave’.

The poster then states that her mother is not lovable but backs her children.

Jom222 · 09/01/2026 21:53

I was called stupid in a fabric store when I was unable to define the measurement system of wales in corduroy. It was a man natch, he was furious I couldn't explain what exactly 10 wales meant.

I was too young and nice then to tell him to fuck off, today I'd do that.

RetainersinSpainnotontheplane · 09/01/2026 22:03

Ahh that would be the bloke who became incandescent with rage when I wouldn’t sell him cough syrup for his wife. She was coughing up blood and I insisted he sought medical attention for her.

He raged and screamed and spat at me (luckily it missed) ‘All she needs is buttercup syrup and this thick cunt won’t give it to me!’.

Galatine · 09/01/2026 22:05

TwattyMcFuckFace · 09/01/2026 12:59

Yeah, 2 minutes does sound like they were WFH.

Then again, they should probably plan their delivery for when they're not working.

Ours can be anything up to 2 hours early but DH doesn't work on the day it's delivered.

No two minutes sounds like an entitled tosser! Mumsnet is full of them!

marmitegirl01 · 09/01/2026 22:06

I worked in medical room of secondary school. 14yr old came in at end of lunch break saying he was dizzy. Let him sit it out for 10 mins. Got him to go to lesson but said return if still feel unwell. He came back after twenty mins so I called parent & she collected him. Next day she made a complaint about me as he had a broken arm and I hadn’t diagnosed it. Hmmm the 14yr old lad told me he was dizzy, he got up & down from medical bed, picked up his bag and put his coat on. Never once mentioned pain anywhere let alone his arm!!!
shame on me for not realising eh!

Ladybugheart · 09/01/2026 22:07

Glittertwins · 09/01/2026 12:46

Two mins might sound petty but if the person is in an online meeting and trying wrap things up before the delivery window, it could be annoying for them.
Tesco always calls if they are going to be early though and they’ve always said they’re happy to wait for me if I haven’t got home yet or am finishing up at work.

My Tesco is often early, sometimes by 20 minutes or so and they have never called! Is never complain but it is a bit annoying as I've booked a time slot for a reason.

schopenhauer · 09/01/2026 22:14

I taught a student once who was very smart and got an A* in the A level that I taught him and got in to Cambridge. On results day, he emailed the school to complain that I hadn’t taught him well enough!

Diondra · 09/01/2026 22:18

I was recently furious with a supermarket delivery person who came early, hammered repeatedly on the door and then leant on the doorbell while I was in a work meeting. I don't think I was the one being unreasonable. He obviously disagreed.

Ocado are good, though, for not doing this.

Glittertwins · 09/01/2026 22:20

I must be lucky with our delivery drivers here. I agree with you on the slot you picked was done for a reason too, mine is specifically picked for when I finish work and before I have to go out later on.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 09/01/2026 22:21

We get a Sainsbury delivery , sometimes the house across the road has their delivery slot a few hours ahead of us and the driver will ask if they can do ours after .
They always ask , never assume and it is fine . We don't book a 1 hour slot anyway , usually 4 hour so prepare to be flexible .

estrogone · 09/01/2026 22:23

AgentPidge · 09/01/2026 13:41

I wouldn't go that far (report you) but it really winds me up if people ask me how my day is going. Why should I have to think of something to say? Am I supposed to ask you back how yours is going? ( I have no idea. I am ND.) Do you really want a conversation, because if not, what's the point of me saying "Fine"? Just say "Hello" ffs.

Don't move to Australia. It is considered incredibly rude not to ask after somebody - be It cashier, salesperson, receptionist. We start every interaction with "how is your day going"?

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