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Mumsnetters voting Reform

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Illjustplayostrich · 04/01/2026 08:02

Mumsnet mothers have always leaned Labour. Now Reform is ahead

https://www.thetimes.com/article/dbd39087-465c-4587-9eaa-292606ffb775?shareToken=a99daa444e8bc0f9444cca2bf01f3851

I'm slightly startled by this. I'm a centrist, slightly more right leaning perhaps but frankly I'm open to any government who will get a firm grip on the public finances and go about growing the economy in a sustainable way. My impression of this site is that it's definitely more left leaning and and Reform enthusiasts tend to get shouted down. Personally, I think we should be talking about them a lot more as it's highly likely they will form part of the next government.

My impression is that they are promising the earth but don't have people with the necessary skill set to make that happen. I really worry that they will get voted in and find out that they can't fix all the problems within 18 months, leading to yet more disillusionment amongst voters.

Mumsnet mothers have always leaned Labour. Now Reform is ahead

Rising support for Nigel Farage’s party — if not the man himself — may worry the government

https://www.thetimes.com/article/dbd39087-465c-4587-9eaa-292606ffb775?shareToken=a99daa444e8bc0f9444cca2bf01f3851

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Playingvideogames · 04/01/2026 14:21

Playingvideogames · 04/01/2026 14:16

You seem to care very much, if this thread is anything to go by.

And btw nobody is ‘apologising’ for being right wing, it isn’t a dirty word. They seem quite open about it.

Oldandgreyer · 04/01/2026 14:21

https://www.electoralcalculus.co.uk/fcgi-bin/seatdetails.py?postcode=M40+0FJ

This is an interesting site.
Not my postcode, but that of FC United the local football team.

Blackley and Middleton South:
Such a Labour stronghold. But predicted to fall to Reform.

Seat Details - Blackley and Middleton South

https://www.electoralcalculus.co.uk/fcgi-bin/seatdetails.py?postcode=M40+0FJ

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 04/01/2026 14:21

EasternStandard · 04/01/2026 14:18

In the end all these things just get returned. Too far gone, fuckwits, apologists, whatever else is just added to the rhetoric but in return.

Ik you say you don’t care about that but I also don’t see the point in ramping it all up in this way.

Perhaps you don't see any point. From my perspective, all I can do at this point is register my disgust. Reasoning with people doesn't seem to work and the alternative would be to remain silent while watching the shitshow unfold.

None of the options are very appealing right now tbh.

EasternStandard · 04/01/2026 14:23

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 04/01/2026 14:21

Perhaps you don't see any point. From my perspective, all I can do at this point is register my disgust. Reasoning with people doesn't seem to work and the alternative would be to remain silent while watching the shitshow unfold.

None of the options are very appealing right now tbh.

But whatever you say about people applying the same to you that’s also the case for whomever you’re aiming it at.

It’s just a bunch of people hurling insults at each other whilst they say so what if you think that.

Playingvideogames · 04/01/2026 14:24

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 04/01/2026 14:21

Perhaps you don't see any point. From my perspective, all I can do at this point is register my disgust. Reasoning with people doesn't seem to work and the alternative would be to remain silent while watching the shitshow unfold.

None of the options are very appealing right now tbh.

I’m happy to be reasoned with and consider myself a very objective person who can, and does, concede by reminding myself I don’t know everything and that admitting defeat is far more gracious than clinging to an untruth.

You’re welcome to debate with me, but your endless tirade of ‘racist’ and ‘fuckwits’ suggests you’re far less reasonable than those you insist are stubborn and disgusting

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 04/01/2026 14:24

Playingvideogames · 04/01/2026 14:21

And btw nobody is ‘apologising’ for being right wing, it isn’t a dirty word. They seem quite open about it.

Well, that's a matter of opinion, but I was using apologist in the traditional sense of the word, rather than suggesting that anyone was actually apologising for their repugnant views. If only...

grindergirl · 04/01/2026 14:24

I would vote Reform as I think they are most likely to sort out the immigration mess. This is nothing to do with racism. I would be fine with an Australian-style points system for skilled workers. However, far too many immigrants and their dependants are welfare recipients rather than contributors. They are either on benefits or receive top up benefits. Yes, some work in the NHS but even more are using its resources. Once given indefinite leave to remain, they can compete for scarce social housing. For me, the disadvantages of immigration outweigh the benefits

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 04/01/2026 14:25

EasternStandard · 04/01/2026 14:23

But whatever you say about people applying the same to you that’s also the case for whomever you’re aiming it at.

It’s just a bunch of people hurling insults at each other whilst they say so what if you think that.

I don't dispute that, but I have also long since stopped seeing MN as a forum for reasoned debate.

TheNuthatch · 04/01/2026 14:25

Legolava · 04/01/2026 14:20

But that’s exactly what you’re doing on this thread no? Just throwing around insults and abuse, telling everyone how morally superior you are whilst being hugely offensive and abusive to anyone who doesn’t think like you.

If you really don’t want to engage with posters who don’t think like you, why are you posting on this thread?

I don’t support Reform FWIW but there is only one poster throwing around abuse on this thread and it’s you. It’s a very clear example of why MN has become more right leaning IMO. This site was unbearable before the election if you didn’t support Labour. The abuse and bullying was next level. The ignorance around real life issues that people experience are also dismissed out of hand. It’s a perfect storm.

Hear hear.

The OP's point had been proven by the pp.

EasternStandard · 04/01/2026 14:26

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 04/01/2026 14:25

I don't dispute that, but I have also long since stopped seeing MN as a forum for reasoned debate.

Ok. But you have added to that outcome with the insults.

Playingvideogames · 04/01/2026 14:27

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 04/01/2026 14:24

Well, that's a matter of opinion, but I was using apologist in the traditional sense of the word, rather than suggesting that anyone was actually apologising for their repugnant views. If only...

Let me make a case.

From your boast of having numerous countries to move to should you wish, I assume you’re either a) from a multicultural family or b) in well paid, qualified employment which opens the world to you or c) both.

Which is correct?

bombastix · 04/01/2026 14:30

grindergirl · 04/01/2026 14:24

I would vote Reform as I think they are most likely to sort out the immigration mess. This is nothing to do with racism. I would be fine with an Australian-style points system for skilled workers. However, far too many immigrants and their dependants are welfare recipients rather than contributors. They are either on benefits or receive top up benefits. Yes, some work in the NHS but even more are using its resources. Once given indefinite leave to remain, they can compete for scarce social housing. For me, the disadvantages of immigration outweigh the benefits

I would just like to point out that we do now have a points based system in the UK like Aus.

And while the point you make about contributing is an important one, unless a British taxpayer is hitting higher rate tax then they are not likely to be a contributing in monetary terms.

The UK has problems but migration is probably not the real driver imo.

peacefulpeach · 04/01/2026 14:30

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 04/01/2026 13:22

I have no issue with people who have different opinions. But those who have been captured by the far right are a lost cause in my opinion, and I make no apology for that.

Racists are inferior in my view.

Christ on a bike. You are just so aptly demonstrating the point others are making, it’s incredible to see.

Your internal logic is telling you that ANYONE who votes for Reform is racist and ‘far right’. What you simply cannot see is that millions of everyday people are scared and worried about the future.

Labour are not listening to their worries, Labour are - like you - calling them racist and ‘far right’. And totally invalidating them and their lives.

Just wow.i don’t know why I’m surprised by your increasingly hateful incoherent messages, but I am. Surprised I think that you’re so openly bigoted and narrow minded. But there you are.

EasternStandard · 04/01/2026 14:32

bombastix · 04/01/2026 14:30

I would just like to point out that we do now have a points based system in the UK like Aus.

And while the point you make about contributing is an important one, unless a British taxpayer is hitting higher rate tax then they are not likely to be a contributing in monetary terms.

The UK has problems but migration is probably not the real driver imo.

People usually reference the Australian system not just for work visas.

Dragonflytamer · 04/01/2026 14:33

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 04/01/2026 14:14

Oh I am angry, and I do care. I am desperately sad to see the trajectory that this country seems to be on.

I just don't care what far right voters and their apologists think of me, and I don't see any benefit in arguing the toss with them on the Internet when it's obvious that they're already too far gone.

It is a Labour government that is setting the trajectory. The left chance to turn it around is now. They need to get on with it. If there is a swing to the right driven by the failings of a Labour government then there isn't really anyone else for the left to blame but themselves.

Dragonflytamer · 04/01/2026 14:38

bombastix · 04/01/2026 14:30

I would just like to point out that we do now have a points based system in the UK like Aus.

And while the point you make about contributing is an important one, unless a British taxpayer is hitting higher rate tax then they are not likely to be a contributing in monetary terms.

The UK has problems but migration is probably not the real driver imo.

Migration is the core driver of the housing crisis. We can't build houses at a fast enough rate for the number of people who want to move here.

MissyMooPoo2 · 04/01/2026 14:38

dylexicdementor11 · 04/01/2026 08:38

I agree. I’ve been here since the beginning and there has been a massive shift to the right and a (not necessarily related) shift in the class/educational level of mumsnetters.

Very interested to hear the direction of this supposed correlation (that may not necessarily be related) between a shift in right wing opinions and the class/educational level of mumsnetters. I’m not sure who you are trying to insult.

Cunningcub · 04/01/2026 14:38

I don’t believe Reform is the answer, but then who is?
I voted Labour last time, but I can’t see myself doing that again (I’m naturally more right wing especially economically) and I can’t vote for the Conservatives after their disastrous performance over the past ten years.
I’ve voted Lib Dem in the past, but only because I didn’t want to vote Labour - I don’t believe in Lib Dem any more than I believe in Reform, frankly. I was pissed off with the Tories after Brexit so I wasted my vote on them basically.
I’ll never vote Green.
What party can I vote for?
I also disagree with much of what Trump does and stands for, but at the same time I can see the truth in a lot of what he says too. Not everything is black and white.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 04/01/2026 14:40

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 04/01/2026 13:29

There are fuckwits everywhere - can't avoid them. But hopefully we won't end up with a situation where they're all simultaneously in power everywhere. If that happens, then the world will be well and truly fucked and it won't much matter where any of us live in any

Fuckwits in power is pretty standard across the globe.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 04/01/2026 14:41

WaryCrow · 04/01/2026 14:39

Trajectory is not likely to change.

https://news.sky.com/story/budget-2025-how-youre-being-quietly-hammered-with-stealth-taxes-13489549

I am not a natural Tory voter but New Labour was a disaster for young working class people at the time, like myself, and Starmer is not showing improvements so far. How they can continue to prioritise that generation is beyond me.

Another picture of a fuckwit.

WaryCrow · 04/01/2026 14:41

And pre existing wealth of course. Thats the issue, they all prioritise pre existing wealth and that is what has killed the working economy.

It was never going to do anything else.

Sherbs12 · 04/01/2026 14:42

Iocanepowder · 04/01/2026 14:01

The tories originally introduced the expansion of funded childcare. It was incredibly helpful for me as a working parent with 2 kids in nursery.

Now we have Labour who intended to tax the fuck out of me and my pension and use it to pay other parents not to work.

We’ve also been hit by tax under Labour - my husband is also a small business owner, so we’ve been hit on tax there too. But I also want to see investment and improvement in public services. And I hear you on parents who refuse to work, but it’s much more nuanced than that for many. I would also say that whatever the circumstances, it’s never the fault of the children, and making an investment in those children now through extra funding, education, free school meals, Sure Start type centres, etc. is exactly the way to improve their life chances long-term and that will benefit us all.

WaryCrow · 04/01/2026 14:42

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 04/01/2026 14:41

Another picture of a fuckwit.

Insults again. The failure to engage with working younger generations has denied us our future.

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