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Care to share the oddest thing house guests have done in your home this festive period?

624 replies

CharlieWeasleysWife · 01/01/2026 15:32

We've had many guests over the festive period and most have been an absolute delight. However, have just waved off a few of DHs friends and they:

Removed phone chargers and toiletries left in the guest room/bathroom and taken home

Used (a used!) dish cloth to wipe their face then replaced on the sink

Complained we won't allow scary/violent TV until our young children are in bed

WTF?

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Kittycat1969 · 03/01/2026 11:25

AppleDumplingWithCustard · 02/01/2026 16:26

Me too. Every hotel I stayed in in 2025 supplied flannels.

out of about the 15 hotels I’ve stayed in this year none have lol. In the USA I heard they provide them but hardly ever in Europe. I bring my own scrunchie and even if there was a washcloth/flannel I would not use it for hygiene reasons

luckylavender · 03/01/2026 11:26

BigTubOfLard · 03/01/2026 09:44

TOILET PAPER OVER USERS ANONYMOUS

Let me change your life.

  1. Use your left hand.
  2. Reach around behind your backside - yes - way behind with your left hand and wipe from front to back. This forces you to spread your cheeks wide making it much easier to get the job done in only 2 or 3 swipes.

Try it today: nobody but you can see your awkward first attempts but they'll soon notice the massive reduction in paper usage.

You're welcome.

Must be lovely to be so perfect

Dollymylove · 03/01/2026 11:29

SquirrelFan · 03/01/2026 10:55

But surely that's just old-fashioned thriftiness? And better for the environment than buying towels, possibly microfibre ones, specifically for the counters. They are presumably put in the washing machine.

My mum always did this. She grew up in WW2 and absolutely nothing was wasted.
I used old towels for the dog and the cats

gingercat02 · 03/01/2026 11:33

Sam9769 · 03/01/2026 09:38

Dogs are like children. I have a toy poodle and if I was visiting family I would want to take him with me rather than leaving him home alone. He's a lovely little dog, in fact nicer than many people I know!

Not to my house, family or not. My cat would be horrified.

QuaintMauveCrow · 03/01/2026 11:37

Unicornsatonalilo · 02/01/2026 09:08

Not christmas,but I once invited my aunt round for lunch (id just moved into my first house and was so proud of my new home)

She pulled out her Dyson from the boot along with a massive bag of cleaning products and walked in,scrubbed my house from top to bottom,ate lunch,cleaned up again and left

I let her get on with it!

(For context,shes the cleanest person I know,my standards,like any other person,are a bit lower than hers-id eat my dinner off a floor shes cleaned and I half expected something like this)

Sounds like heaven 😂 she’s welcome round mine!

ChattyCatty25 · 03/01/2026 11:38

Sam9769 · 03/01/2026 09:38

Dogs are like children. I have a toy poodle and if I was visiting family I would want to take him with me rather than leaving him home alone. He's a lovely little dog, in fact nicer than many people I know!

Get a dog sitter. No one should have to deal with your stinking filthy animal in their house.

SBGM247 · 03/01/2026 11:38

CurlsLDN · 01/01/2026 20:22

my guess with the chargers and toiletries is that guest A packed up everything in the room, assuming they belonged to guest B - after all they are both perfectly normal things to pack and bring your own for an overnight stay

That's good thinking...

Jugendstiel · 03/01/2026 11:39

GreenSmithing · 01/01/2026 16:07

They've taken your toiletries, like they think you're a hotel? 😂

I did once have a guest uae a screw driver to remove a door handle, but that was an honest mistake

I think we need to hear the whole story about how guests unscrewing doorhandles counts as an honest mistake! Grin

UnhappyHobbit · 03/01/2026 11:40

LamonicBibber1 · 01/01/2026 15:52

None of that here. But a guest once politely brought an edible treat, presented it to me as a gift with a flourish, then clearly decided they wanted it back for themselves and took most of it home, cross country 😂

I laugh now, I didn't at the time, I was really crushed that it was somehow a comment on my hospitality or worth to them or something, as they've gleefully said that they "show love with food". I'd offered a pack up to take with. They had plentiful food at mine. It was really weird, them fumbling about and rewrapping the tin foil and bundling it away..

I also once shared a hotel room with a close friend and they had a shower and wet every single part of the floor and just left it, actual proper puddles, and left wet towels on the ground etc. They've never done it before or since at other places we've stayed, it was really out of character and awkward.

This sounds like my SIL! She makes me a birthday cake for a little family party and the takes it home as she has more kids than me so they will finish it off 😅

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 03/01/2026 11:44

TorroFerney · 03/01/2026 07:33

Americans see them as absolutely essential and are often on Reddit bemoaning the fact that hotels here don't always have them.

The hotels that have them normally place "face" flannels on the bidet.

mydogisthebest · 03/01/2026 11:57

QueenofallIsee · 01/01/2026 15:58

2 people have used 7 loo rolls in 2 nights/3 days. That or they have taken loo rolls home with them - they had exclusive use of the en suite for their stay and I have asked himself
if he had been in to take them and he didn’t. That’s a lot of loo roll!

Surely they must have taken them home. How on earth could 2 people use that many loo rolls? Me and DH use about 2 a week

Hankunamatata · 03/01/2026 11:58

VoltaireMittyDream · 02/01/2026 15:57

Not house guests so much as visitors.

DB’s wife and kids have pretty extreme untreated OCD, which he has been conditioned to accept as normal.

When they come to ours they bring their own food, cutlery, sponges and tea towels. (For some reason our plates are deemed acceptable).

SIL measures out their kids’ food and stands over them hectoring them to make sure they’ve eaten enough of each food group, and keeps checking their water bottles to make sure they’re drinking enough.

SIL has also developed a new thing where she cannot eat in proximity to Christmas trees. She behaved as though we should all have known this, even though she had never told any of us. So she was quite agitated that there was a Christmas tree here at all, but eventually settled for having us shut the door to the living room so she couldn’t see it. She would ask again and again for someone to check the door was shut, as though the tree might be trying to escape and sneak up on her.

It was pretty sad and disturbing all round, and the kids are growing up extremely anxious.

But my brother is a big shot finance bro with several multi million dollar properties and a whole staff of people to run his house and regular holidays to Turks & Caicos, etc - so to his mind this is proof that he and his family are a living formula for success and nothing whatsoever is dysfunctional about the way they do things.

Did she explain why she was treating a Christmas tree as evil incarnate?

MaggieFS · 03/01/2026 12:04

Inertia · 03/01/2026 10:55

We have a reasonably sized hallway with empty coat racks, shoe racks and bag space for visitors.

Nevertheless, my relatives walk all the way through the hall to dump their bags, coats, vape, dirty travel cups, and half eaten food all over my dining table, whether or not we’ve set it for dinner.

Yuck.

Hankunamatata · 03/01/2026 12:05

cakewitch · 02/01/2026 23:42

I have a stack of flannels in my bathroom. For washing my cleanser off my face. And also there for anyone in my house to use. Im starting to think im an exception and a bit odd now. 😂

I have stack bathroom flannels for make up as trying to be sustainable. Use them once and they go in a little wash basket ready to get chucked in laundry.

TimeForATerf · 03/01/2026 12:06

Will someone please cancel the bloody cheque flannel.

Hankunamatata · 03/01/2026 12:06

EnjoythemoneyJane · 03/01/2026 11:15

No, but you should definitely scroll back if you don’t want to miss internet gold of The Great Flannel Debate. Or would like to share with the group how many you own, how often you wash them, whether they’re strictly for your face (or perhaps the occasional cheeky bumhole swipe), or whether the hotels you frequent provide them or not. And if you don’t use flannels (or facecloths), well then what do you use to wash your face, @HoppityBun, and could we please have a detailed breakdown of exactly how that goes for you?

Honestly don’t blame you for not RTFT. I expect the poor OP has disappeared to nominate it for Classics.

I read so much about flannels I couldn't help but add my own comment by the end

SBGM247 · 03/01/2026 12:09

Vaguelyclassical · 02/01/2026 23:48

I have never understood people who don't need to use face flannels and hotels or hosts who don't provide them along with the towels. But I am a person with complex desires.

@Vaguelyclassical they're called Men.

Mt563 · 03/01/2026 12:16

Hankunamatata · 03/01/2026 11:58

Did she explain why she was treating a Christmas tree as evil incarnate?

Doesn't really matter, ocd isn't rational.

Raiseaglassforeverynote · 03/01/2026 12:18

Sam9769 · 03/01/2026 09:38

Dogs are like children. I have a toy poodle and if I was visiting family I would want to take him with me rather than leaving him home alone. He's a lovely little dog, in fact nicer than many people I know!

Dogs are like children.
Only to their owners 😉
Most people don’t see humans and dogs in quite the same way when it comes to invitations etc.

MargaretThursday · 03/01/2026 12:19

Taking the chargers I'd assume was accidental.

Me and dh once stayed somewhere and I commented at the beginning that we wouldn't need to get the chargers out as our hosts had kindly left loads out.

In the car most of the way home dh cheerfully tells me that I'd nearly left the chargers behind, and if he hadn't checked, and why I thought I needed so many chargers out, some of which didn't fit my phone was beyond me...
Grovelling phone call made by dh upon arrival home.🤣
They found it funny.

Bushwoolie · 03/01/2026 12:19

I don't feel my face is clean enough if not scrubbed within and inch of its life. Soap and water alone, I'd honestly still feel unclean.
I even use a silicone face scrubber with my face wash now.

I always take my toiletries in a ziplock bag as I worry about spillage and my flannel goes with those.

I use hotels often, very rarely do they have flannels.

Raiseaglassforeverynote · 03/01/2026 12:33

mydogisthebest · 03/01/2026 11:57

Surely they must have taken them home. How on earth could 2 people use that many loo rolls? Me and DH use about 2 a week

Possibly because some people have medical conditions (or mental health conditions) that you don’t.

Mind-blowing concept I know!

ETA Sorry for being snippy but as someone with IBD it’s upsetting to think hosts may be monitoring my toilet paper usage! Or worse, suspect me of stealing their toilet paper!

MaggieFS · 03/01/2026 12:38

I wonder if there’s a correlation between flannel users and bidet users?

Choccyp1g · 03/01/2026 12:39

AlteFrau · 03/01/2026 01:45

Is there anyone who washes their face with soap and water, then dries it on their towel?

I do, but I dry it on the facecloth/flannel. I keep a basket of them by the sink, copied from staying in hotels.

HoppityBun · 03/01/2026 12:41

pinkyredrose · 03/01/2026 10:49

That was lovely of you but tbf most people wouldn't want a buffet after Christmas dinner.

Though most people wouldn’t just not turn up

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