We are going to a show, one booked ages ago. Going with my dc and partners who have treated me.
I am so looking forward to it, as we will see the New Year in there as well.
What is putting a bit of a dampener on things is my close friend. We are both single and my dc did ask me if I would like to invite her along as well. They would cover her ticket cost too. It took ages for her to decide and when the tickets were selling out fast and she didn't come back to me, I again asked her if she would like to join. She then said no, as would be going to one of her dc instead. I was a bit annoyed, as this wait meant we lost the best seats we had planned on getting, but my dc booked and we managed to get seats together as by then it was selling out fast.
Roll on last night, she messages to ask if we are still going. I say yes, and thinking she now wants to join, added in that all the tickets are now sold out. She then says she is going to her dc who is house sitting, and she wants to drop her dog at mine, so that my dog and her dog can "hang out" together.
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I replied that no, sorry we would not be here, and I had already made alternative arrangements for my dog, as we do have fireworks display not too far away, and my dog gets quite skittish with the noise.
Fast forward I now have a woe is me message that she now can't go to her dc as she can't leave her dog alone. So now she will be spending NYE alone. I suggested she take her dog to her dc, as it sounds they are just staying home, to which she says she can't as the house they are sitting as not pet friendly.
I am trying to brush it off and not let it get to me, but I am so annoyed about it.
I feel like I am being guilt tripped for being organized.
Anyway, that was a waffle I needed to get off my chest, but I know we will have a great time regardless.