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I've ruined someone in Aldi's Christmas!! Apparently

198 replies

Boxingshibes · 23/12/2025 14:10

Just been to Aldi to get some stuff. Went to get some smoked salmon. It was a want not a need.
I went to the chiller cabinet and opened the door to get some salmon. There was a couple standing close looking but not opening the door. I opened the door and took the last 2 packets I could see.

After I took them I heard ' why didn't you open the door before her? That's now Christmas ruined!'

They then followed me closely round the next couple of aisles saying ' we have no smoked salmon, what are we going to do?' While glaring at me!

Not my fault! Also it's an industrial park there us also a sainsbury/ lidl and m&s nearby.

Maybe I'm a horrible person but I found it quite funny!

OP posts:
FreeRangeClassA6LargeEggs · 23/12/2025 15:46

Well that's made my Christmas 🎄 🤣

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 23/12/2025 15:49

MyThreeWords · 23/12/2025 14:16

Of course it's not your fault. But it sounds like you weren't that bothered whether you had salmon or not. In those circs I'd have been tempted to give one of the packs to the couple.

Would have helped me to start to feel a bit Christmassy.

I'd have done that if they'd asked nicely. But following someone around making passive aggressive comments shouldn't be rewarded.

forgetfullarkspur · 23/12/2025 15:49

greenwithglee · 23/12/2025 14:58

At least God had the decency to make sure baby was born in time for Mary to tuck into the blinis and cheeseboard

Oh my god 😂😂😂 what about Blini as a baby name?!

Easytoconfuse · 23/12/2025 15:50

Flowerslamp · 23/12/2025 14:24

My son works in a Tesco Express and was told multiple times last Christmas that he personally had ruined Christmas because they didn't have sprouts/brandy butter/the right box of chocs/xyz at 8pm on Christmas Eve.

He's excited to find out why he's ruined Christmas this year.

Are the staff issued Grinch costumes? And what is it about the shops being shut for one day that gets this reaction? Happy Christmas to everyone whether or not they have stuffing and smoked salmon.

DuchessofStaffordshire · 23/12/2025 15:56

drivinmecrazy · 23/12/2025 14:45

Not as bad as my Christmas!
it’s been ruined cos had a call from my fishmonger to say he’d got me whole crabs instead of crab claws at fish market this morning.
So, thinking on my feet I went to numerous supermarkets to find a couple of frozen lobsters. Can’t find any for love nor money.
So that’s our day ruined.
We do however have three packets of lovely Scottish smoked salmon I’d had the forethought to pick up last week.

Ah well, thems the breaks 😞 😝

Couldn't you remove the claws and dress the rest of the crab?

FiredFromACannon · 23/12/2025 16:00

PhilOPastry62 · 23/12/2025 15:42

I want to know why they were standing and contemplating the salmon if they knew they wanted it. Do they stand and gaze at all their purchases prior to buying? Does it help them savour the moment of anticipation? Did they think it might reduce in price if they stood and stared for a while? Shopping must take them a long time. I mean, I can understand taking a bit of time if there's a selection of different kinds of smoked salmon to choose from, but if smoked salmon is essential to Christmas and there are only two packets left, just stick it in your trolley and move on.

DH is a ditherer, if we’re going to buy something he’ll find something to stare at until a large queue forms at the till then he’ll join it, and if I had a pound for every time we’ve come home from a shopping trip and he’s said ‘I wish I’d bought that t-shirt now’ after staring at it in the shop for 20 minutes I’d be a rich woman, as it is he’s the one with more money than me because he can never seem to bring himself to spend it 🤣

lifeonmars100 · 23/12/2025 16:15

"Christmas won't be Christmas without any smoked salmon " the opening sentence of Little Women for our times

booksnbaking · 23/12/2025 16:15

forgetfullarkspur · 23/12/2025 15:49

Oh my god 😂😂😂 what about Blini as a baby name?!

Blini Balonz.

Jonnyenglish · 23/12/2025 16:15

ARunByFruiting · 23/12/2025 15:15

You were lucky they didn't steal it from your trolley like the woman did on the sherry trifle thread!

that point ive wondered because until its paid for it belongs to the store,

Dollymylove · 23/12/2025 16:17

Is this the new mumsnet thing? If someone is dawdling around and you take the last item, the dawdler just needs to demand that item and you are expected to hand it over? 🤣🤣

cucumberpeach · 23/12/2025 16:20

I'd have given it to them, and enjoyed them looking embarrassed 😀

Calliopespa · 23/12/2025 16:20

And this is a thread because there is only one supermarket in the whole of the Uk and no days before Christmas.

They can get it elsewhere. It's not "ruined."

If they are such wet dish-cloths they can't drive to another supermarket for the key item for their Christmas (or so it would seem) then they probably deserve it. But given they both stood looking at it through a fridge door and could summon no motivation to open it, perhaps they are that wet.

We have just had Evri dump a bundle of things at out door. Fabulous lady - and not young either - who works tirelessly to their difficult schedules. She screeched up, car full to overflowing with packages she is no doubt on a tight schedule to get delivered, leapt out, back in, off and away to the next house. If she can be managing that, why can't this couple together potter across to another supermarket? This is a case of ANIG (arse not in gear).

LadyKenya · 23/12/2025 16:22

TallulahBetty · 23/12/2025 15:17

Yes, I do. They snoozed and subsequently losed.

Hopefully they were able to get their smoked salmon elsewhere. I hope so.

Terrytheweasel · 23/12/2025 16:25

5128gap · 23/12/2025 15:08

Not exactly in the spirit of celebrating the birth of a man who shared his two fish with 5000 people OP.

I have to agree. I’d personally be sharing a pack with them.

Jonnyenglish · 23/12/2025 16:26

cucumberpeach · 23/12/2025 16:20

I'd have given it to them, and enjoyed them looking embarrassed 😀

see a business opportunity, they could have sold them one at the cost price so in theory yours is free

ilovepixie · 23/12/2025 16:30

MyThreeWords · 23/12/2025 14:16

Of course it's not your fault. But it sounds like you weren't that bothered whether you had salmon or not. In those circs I'd have been tempted to give one of the packs to the couple.

Would have helped me to start to feel a bit Christmassy.

Would the other couple have shared? Smoked salmon is never a need!

DressOrSkirt · 23/12/2025 16:30

5128gap · 23/12/2025 15:08

Not exactly in the spirit of celebrating the birth of a man who shared his two fish with 5000 people OP.

I don't celebrate that, but I would have given them one of the packs

louderthan · 23/12/2025 16:32

WonderfulSmith · 23/12/2025 15:17

They weren’t his fish though. They were the fish of the one person who had thought ahead enough to bring a picnic and they were guilted into helping everyone else out.

😂😂😂 that is PEAK Mumsnet. That would be a 1000-word thread in AIBU.

rrrrrreatt · 23/12/2025 16:36

Im generally goodwill to all men but I wouldn’t have shared. If it’s for hosting, you can’t really give everyone a teeny tiny portion. I worked in supermarkets for years though so I’ve ruined many Christmases in my time.

One woman said I’d ruined her Christmas because her mum could only eat M&S brandy cream and we’d run out. She kept telling me I should have ordered more - I was 16 so did zero ordering and she’d come in an hour before we closed on Christmas Eve!!

Some people expect the moon on a stick, as others have said there’s many with much worse problems this Christmas.

Lazydomestic · 23/12/2025 16:42

All is not lost its Aldi - they probably sell fishing rods in the middle aisle 🤣

Cinnamontruffles · 23/12/2025 16:43

I ordered the last slice of carrot cake at a garden centre cafe today. Went and sat down started eating and then heard a raised voice saying ‘well WHO had the last piece ?? My mother is NINETY THREE! This is her Christmas outing and she wanted carrot cake ! I doubt she will be here in a year so her last Christmas has been ruined!’ The poor old lady in the wheelchair just looked confused and I felt awful 😭

scottishlassies · 23/12/2025 16:44

WonderfulSmith · 23/12/2025 15:17

They weren’t his fish though. They were the fish of the one person who had thought ahead enough to bring a picnic and they were guilted into helping everyone else out.

The little boy offered his lunch - and in doing so meant there was more than enough to go around to feed everyone after Jesus multiplied it

StephensLass1977 · 23/12/2025 16:44

Reminds me of earlier this year when I went to Morrisons to get some lamb, and an older woman just in front of me ran to the fridge first, and literally scooped every single box and loaded them into her trolley. Lamb isn't cheap, it will have cost her a fortune if she went ahead with the purchase! Or maybe she was just being spiteful and dumped them all later. I wouldn't dream of stalking her and asking her to give me a packet, however. Maybe some MH issues at play.

As for the salmon, it's just tough luck! Ask yourself if you think they'd share if the roles were reversed. Very likely not. I'd personally have told them to get lost and leave me alone.

Cinnamontruffles · 23/12/2025 16:48

scottishlassies · 23/12/2025 16:44

The little boy offered his lunch - and in doing so meant there was more than enough to go around to feed everyone after Jesus multiplied it

I definitely believe in Jesus being some kind of divine being but I used to always think did he actually produce a larger quantity of food so there was genuinely enough to eat or did he hypnotically make everyone feel full and believe they all had enough 😂

Newyearawaits · 23/12/2025 16:48

If you didn't need the 2 packs OP, you could have given one to the couple