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Milk for Santa. Surely not!

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HostaCentral · 21/12/2025 12:30

On another social media platform on British traditions, so many comments suggesting leaving a carrot and a glass of milk out for Santa.

When did this become a thing? Poor Santa. He always got a glass of whiskey or brandy from us. Kept him going all night. Also no mince pie??

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Jingleasfaraspossible · 21/12/2025 22:23

Absolutely not…milk is not a drink for adults. He had sherry and a mince pie when I was a child, when my children were little he preferred whisky or Baileys with his mince pie.

Goldeh · 21/12/2025 22:36

In our house, the DC choose a drink and a snack for Santa based on what they think he'll like. Sometimes it's beer, sometimes juice, sometimes coffee, etc. It's been milk on a few occasions and I used to leave milk when I was a kid in the 80s. For snacks he usually gets a mince pie or a biscuit. Rudolph gets whatever veg DC like the look of (felt sorry for DH the year it was an entire raw onion and he had to bite a chomp out of it).

Besttobe8001 · 21/12/2025 22:38

Jingleasfaraspossible · 21/12/2025 22:23

Absolutely not…milk is not a drink for adults. He had sherry and a mince pie when I was a child, when my children were little he preferred whisky or Baileys with his mince pie.

What's this? You're not an adult unless you drink at least 15% booze? I thought I'd seen it all but gatekeeping adulthood is hilarious.

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Jingleasfaraspossible · 21/12/2025 22:44

Besttobe8001 · 21/12/2025 22:38

What's this? You're not an adult unless you drink at least 15% booze? I thought I'd seen it all but gatekeeping adulthood is hilarious.

But not as hilarious as taking offence at a lighthearted comment…

Besttobe8001 · 21/12/2025 22:46

Jingleasfaraspossible · 21/12/2025 22:44

But not as hilarious as taking offence at a lighthearted comment…

Ah yes sorry. Tinkly laugh.

BauhausOfEliott · 22/12/2025 01:05

mindutopia · 21/12/2025 14:35

This again. 😂 Not everyone drinks, you know. Some of us choose not to keep alcohol regularly in the house. Father Christmas has no complaints here and my dc don’t associate getting wasted with fun and celebration unlike in some of their friends’ homes.

I don’t think leaving Father Christmas a single measure of brandy on Christmas Eve equates to encouraging anyone to get wasted, does it? Bit silly to equate them.

Hollyhobbi · 22/12/2025 01:13

WarrenTofficier · 21/12/2025 13:24

I was born in '73, my siblings in '70 and '72 and we did definitly always left stuff for Santa and the Reindeer.

I was born in ‘69 and my siblings various years up to ‘76 and Santy always had a mince pie and whiskey, and a carrot was left for Rudolph!

sloth75 · 22/12/2025 01:17

As I kid I left nothing. When my dc were little we left a mince pie, a carrot snd whatever booze we had to hand.

julesagain · 22/12/2025 01:24

It was always a home made mince pie and sherry for Father's Christmas growing up. I was a seventies child

Goldeh · 22/12/2025 11:18

Hollyhobbi · 22/12/2025 01:13

I was born in ‘69 and my siblings various years up to ‘76 and Santy always had a mince pie and whiskey, and a carrot was left for Rudolph!

Love that you called him Santy, it reminds me of my nana as that's what she always called him.

Sirzy · 22/12/2025 11:24

Can’t have Santa drink driving! That was my logic when I was about 5 so we left out Milk (in hindsight my dad did try to persuade me it didn’t count for Santa!)

ds always left our milk or sometimes juice. One year he also left out Pringles for Santa as he thought he would be bored of mince pies

LambriniBobInIsleworthISeesYa · 22/12/2025 11:36

Bailey’s and a mince pie for the Big Man when I was a kid. Carrot for the reindeer. Now my girls leave out a soft drink for Father Christmas because times have changed and drink driving is both less socially acceptable and also punished more harshly by the law.

Uricon2 · 22/12/2025 11:51

Midlands, 1960s. FC got a mince pie and sherry until the year he left a note saying could he have Scotch next time if we didn't mind (guess what Dad drank)

liveforsummer · 22/12/2025 13:34

Baileys in our house.

Cuwins · 22/12/2025 13:38

No alcohol in our house so he will have to make do without! Going to ask DD what she wants to leave- I imagine it will be either Oat milk or orange squash

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 22/12/2025 14:41

It’s another ghastly invasion from across the pond! I’d like it put about on SM that Santa/Father Christmas will avoid any houses where he’s expected to enjoy cold milk on a bloody freezing midwinter night, rather than a nice tot of something to warm him up! And mince pies, please, not sodding cookies!

HomeStress · 22/12/2025 15:02

Sprogonthetyne · 21/12/2025 21:40

Santa is a grown up so is allowed to drink alcohol, plus it's very cold on that seigh. I thought it was only Americans that left him milk.

No. I’m Scottish and in my early 40s and leaving milk was common then, at least among my peer group. As not everyone drinks alcohol I don’t think that they can be expected to buy some just for that only to pour it down the sink. I never have alcohol in the house unless I’ve bought some as a gift for a friend’s birthday. I don’t even use it for cooking or baking so I have no use for it as a non drinker. (Though I currently have a bottle of champagne in the cupboard that I’m trying to figure out what to do with it/who to give it to as I received it when I recently bought my new home but that’s rare.)

Goldeh · 22/12/2025 18:30

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 22/12/2025 14:41

It’s another ghastly invasion from across the pond! I’d like it put about on SM that Santa/Father Christmas will avoid any houses where he’s expected to enjoy cold milk on a bloody freezing midwinter night, rather than a nice tot of something to warm him up! And mince pies, please, not sodding cookies!

I'm in my 40s and left milk for Santa when I was a kid.

Lavender14 · 22/12/2025 20:07

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 22/12/2025 14:41

It’s another ghastly invasion from across the pond! I’d like it put about on SM that Santa/Father Christmas will avoid any houses where he’s expected to enjoy cold milk on a bloody freezing midwinter night, rather than a nice tot of something to warm him up! And mince pies, please, not sodding cookies!

Santa in our house really dislikes mince pies... so please don't make this a thing!

Hollyhobbi · 23/12/2025 13:17

Goldeh · 22/12/2025 11:18

Love that you called him Santy, it reminds me of my nana as that's what she always called him.

Think it might be an Irish thing? I had a nana from Cork!

MrsSkylerWhite · 23/12/2025 13:18

Brown sherry, mince pie and a carrot, here.

Lunde · 23/12/2025 13:21

HostaCentral · 21/12/2025 12:30

On another social media platform on British traditions, so many comments suggesting leaving a carrot and a glass of milk out for Santa.

When did this become a thing? Poor Santa. He always got a glass of whiskey or brandy from us. Kept him going all night. Also no mince pie??

Milk and cookies were always the US thing. In my day - 1960s - it was a small sherry for Santa with a mince pie and a carrot for the reindeer

Although I remember my niece deciding over 30 years ago that what Santa would really like was a glass of Ribena and a peanut butter sandwich

Bigearringsbigsmile · 23/12/2025 13:21

Mince pie and either whisky or sherry with a carrot for the reindeer.

Goldeh · 23/12/2025 13:28

Hollyhobbi · 23/12/2025 13:17

Think it might be an Irish thing? I had a nana from Cork!

Could be! My great-grandma was from Kilkenny, they emigrated over here during WW2 when my nana was young. She used to tell me stories about playing in bombed out houses (they lived in Coventry). Did your nana ever make you sugar sandwiches? I've been told that's an Irish thing too.

Flowerslamp · 23/12/2025 13:48

As a child I found it odd that Santa's preference coincided with that of the householder where we were staying. GP1 Sherry, GP2 Whiskey, home beer.