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Can you say what you're giving your partner for Christmas 🎄🎁?

165 replies

RememberBeKindWithKaren · 06/12/2025 04:02

I'm officially out of ideas. If anyone feels up to telling me what they've got , or getting for the man in their life that would be grand.
Humongous thanks in advance :)

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BellaTheDarkOverlord · 06/12/2025 08:51

Dh was wanting a specific drum and found one on eBay for a lot less than they sell new (£1500). He’s been trying to raise money selling his other kit in order to buy it before someone else buys it. Imagine his disappointment when it suddenly was sold. He keeps going on about it and how he missed out on it.

I’m the buyer…

PoppyFleur · 06/12/2025 08:56

BellaTheDarkOverlord · 06/12/2025 08:51

Dh was wanting a specific drum and found one on eBay for a lot less than they sell new (£1500). He’s been trying to raise money selling his other kit in order to buy it before someone else buys it. Imagine his disappointment when it suddenly was sold. He keeps going on about it and how he missed out on it.

I’m the buyer…

That is so lovely! I bet you can’t wait to see the look on his face on Christmas Day.

OMaGawd · 06/12/2025 08:57

BellaTheDarkOverlord · 06/12/2025 08:51

Dh was wanting a specific drum and found one on eBay for a lot less than they sell new (£1500). He’s been trying to raise money selling his other kit in order to buy it before someone else buys it. Imagine his disappointment when it suddenly was sold. He keeps going on about it and how he missed out on it.

I’m the buyer…

Brilliant. That will be a lovely surprise for him.

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OhDear111 · 06/12/2025 09:08

Wool jacket from Fairfax and Favour.

MarmaladeSandwich7 · 06/12/2025 09:11

I couldn’t afford anything for DH’s birthday so will spend more than usual on his Christmas present. So far he has a pair of boots from Next. Also going to get him some slippers & he has asked for pants! Probably get some Zero Peroni too.

Whatwouldnanado · 06/12/2025 09:13

Theatre trip to London
Jumper
A woodwork tool he wanted
Stocking bits, including novels, cider, chocolate.

YorkieTheRabbit · 06/12/2025 09:21

Thera body massage ball
Limited edition single malt
Cognac
Power bank
Shaving brush
L’occitaine shower gel and soap

For his stocking
Bottle of Christmas ale
Truffles
Hotel Chocolat dark chocolate macarons
Lemon curd
Sour cherry curd
Marmite snacks
Nuts
Seville orange and whisky marmalade
Thermal socks
He’s 68 and very rarely wants anything in particular

RememberBeKindWithKaren · 06/12/2025 09:26

AhBiscuits · 06/12/2025 06:49

A cheese and crackers subscription.
Rechargeable hand warmers. He always has ice cold hands and he can pop them in his pockets when he goes to the football.
A book.

Oh nice! Hope someone can get me the cheese and crackers subs !

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RememberBeKindWithKaren · 06/12/2025 09:30

Maybeishouldcrochet · 06/12/2025 06:17

He has been moaning about wet feet- 2 pairs of waterproof shoes, 1 for trail running and one for the school run.....
He also has some coal (chocolate covered honeycomb pieces) for his stocking.... Stay home husband who has done no cleaning this week so is in my bad book!!!

Oh wow! Mine could use waterproof shoes ! Going to look into these ..merci 🙂 x

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FlatErica · 06/12/2025 09:43

Mine is getting a new dressing gown, a book on porters and stouts that he wants, some vegan dark chocolate and a framed print.

christmassaurus · 06/12/2025 09:51

Pistachio Lindt chocolate as I've not seen it before and want to try it
Kids crazy golf set as we all like crazy golf 😆
Tfl game as it was 2 for £20 with the above
Case of beer as I got a 'free trial' from beer 52 and only had to pay postage
Book on games you can play with your kids while lying down

I did ask for ideas but got a lot of 'I don't know' 🤷‍♀️

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 06/12/2025 09:54

I’m going to pay for a tattoo as we’re short on space and neither of us need any ‘stuff’.

JudgeBread · 06/12/2025 09:55
  • Two new pairs of shoes as he lives in the same ratty black trainers every day
  • A 2026 diary (something he asked for)
  • Some socks in the vain hope he'll replace some of the holey monstrosities he's had since he was 16
  • A couple of books
  • A new shaving brush and soap set
  • Some new tops

I'll probably also get him a bottle of rum and a game he's been coveting but I'm waiting for that to go down in the steam sale.

Greentrilby · 06/12/2025 09:59

cricket bat
pickleball set
Chocolate
book (a Gentleman in Moscow)

RememberBeKindWithKaren · 06/12/2025 10:00

Whatwouldnanado · 06/12/2025 09:13

Theatre trip to London
Jumper
A woodwork tool he wanted
Stocking bits, including novels, cider, chocolate.

Thanks for this. Please can I ask what the woodworking tool might be ?.

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RememberBeKindWithKaren · 06/12/2025 10:01

@BellaTheDarkOverlord that's genius ! He's going to be super chuffed . 😁

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ShortColdandGrey · 06/12/2025 10:53

Warhammer stuff that he has been bumping his gums about. He has asked for Thermal socks, new trousers and a hoodie. Some aftershave, chocolates, and stocking fillers.

NewTrews · 06/12/2025 10:58

Mountain bike, coffee machine & some cycling gear.

RandyGiles939 · 06/12/2025 11:03

A viking style steel forged knife and axe
A drinking horn
Lego Ducati set
Lego Nasa set
Checked shirt
Jacket
Vans hat
Vans shoes
New mirrors for his motorbike
Whiskey
Superman socks

Mapleunicorn · 06/12/2025 11:03

A polo shirt
hugo boss jumper
a hot chocolate machine (he doesn’t drink coffee but loves hot chocolate)
hotel chocolat hot chocolate sachets
a book about his favourite band
and I am going to make some cookie dough bars

Whatwouldnanado · 06/12/2025 17:33

RememberBeKindWithKaren · 06/12/2025 10:00

Thanks for this. Please can I ask what the woodworking tool might be ?.

It’s a chisel…A very nice chisel with a shiny wooden handle used for wood turning. He was v interested in it in a shop so I went back for it. Man cave stuff.

ToadRage · 06/12/2025 18:05

He chose a star wars inspired artwork, I have also got him a Masonic puzzle book. A pair of best husband ever socks, a masonic rubber duck and a 'i have a spreadsheet for that' mug to go in his stocking.

angelopal · 06/12/2025 18:06

Tickets to see a comedian

TrtseHkpr · 06/12/2025 18:06

Mine is getting rum, a new rucksack, homemade pyjamas, new shirts and some fancy chocolate

PhotoFirePoet · 06/12/2025 18:16

Lots of hardback books!

I did the same last year. Like me, he loves reading, but not always the same books as me. I searched carefully for books similar to ones he prefers, by googling “books like (title he has)” and reading lots of reviews and he loved all those I chose last year. Hopefully it will be the same this year.